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Getting Over Him
Posted Wednesday June 13 2007, 10:29 am
Well I dated this guy for about two weeks before he left for a working vacation in California. He was my first boyfriend, first kiss, and first guy I almost fell in love with. Everything seemed so perfect until he left.
He stopped calling or talking to me online. I thought it was because of the time difference being a pain and he was working a lot and catching up with friends. Well, he was gone for about a week and, long story short, I found out that he was hanging out with this girl and talking about hooking up with her.
I asked him over MySpace if he wanted to date other people while he was gone because I was fine with it considering we'd only dated for about 3 weeks. He said he wasn't dating other people and...
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<3
Posted Wednesday June 13 2007, 2:21 am
i like 2 guys. ill start with the first one. L is a great guy. we've been "together" except NOT for about a year. he doesn't have the balls to ask me out, but tells everyone we're talking. so i just go along with it. obviously i like him alot bc he's been around for so long.. and now ive been thinking i might love him. theres been other guys this year- but for some reason it always comes back to me coming back to L. we're great together.. but i'm sick of being "in between" with him with feelings and such. i'm currently mad at him for ditching me to go to the lake- we were going good until that little stunt a couple of days ago. hes really sweet its just i dont know anymore- i'm not going to ask him out either just becaus...
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MORE GUY TRUBLE
Posted Wednesday June 13 2007, 2:01 am
ok so im with this guy that im pretty sure im gonna break up with beacause hes to prude and its not realy going anywhere and he doesnt even call me ....i semi like this guy J and i cant tell if he likes me or not...i dont wantto ask him rite of the blue and we were at a pool party and he was playn chiken with me what shud i do how can i tell if he likes me or not
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I HAVE A JEALOUS PROBLEM!
Posted Wednesday June 13 2007, 1:01 am
i am honestly the most jealous girl in the world-
my boyfriends amazing so i dont even know why im like this at all but does anyone know ANYTHING! that could possibly help me to not feel this way..its ruining my life..
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8 months later im still jealous..
Posted Wednesday June 13 2007, 12:59 am
i was going out with this boy before and we broke up, a few weeks later he got with one of my friends, but now we are goign back out but i can't help to think what he thinks when he sees her or really what happened between them two..what can i do to not be so jealous of something that happened 8 months ago?
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is it that bad-or am i overexaggerating?!
Posted Wednesday June 13 2007, 12:45 am
so ive had three relationships in high school and im going to be a junior-one lasted 2 weeks and the other lasted 2 months and this one is going on 6 months..but now me and my boyfriend fight alot and he is very insecure-does anybody have any ways to help me to get him to trust me/know that im not going to leave him..i tell him all the time but it doesnt work..also how can i not be so jealous with him around other girls? and finally-he told me that he's the reason our relationship works and it didnt end fast like my other ones..do you think its that mean that he said that or am i overexaggeratingg?..thank you <33
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Russian Tshirts
Posted Wednesday June 13 2007, 12:42 am
My boyfriend is Russian and has a lot of Russian pride. His birthday is coming up and I'd really love to get him a cool tshirt with some Russian writing or a Russian phrase on it.
I'm not looking for anything that's political, religious, or anything that would insult someone. Just a nice, clean tshirt with a cute Russian saying or word.
Anyone know of a website or store that would have them? I've searched everywhere. :) Thanks for your help guys.
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How far is too far?
Posted Wednesday June 13 2007, 12:15 am
My bofriend and I have been friends for about 7 months and dated for 2 of those months. We're pretty close but I'm wondering how far it is ok to go in our relationship physically. So far we haven't even kissed, but on IM we tell each other sexual things about how/where we want to touch each other. Nothing too bad and it's not anywhere close to having online sex, but it's still awkward. I don't want to rush into things because we both wanna be virgins til marriage. So how far is appropriate for us to go at this point, and how far is appropriate to go if we end up staying together another year or two? Christian opinions will be greatly appreciated, considering he & I are both Christians!!!
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Teasing
Posted Tuesday June 12 2007, 11:55 pm
So I tease my boyfriend alot.For example.. I go in for a kiss and I let him go in for it..then I back away..But when he does it.. I don't like it because I just want a damn kiss you know?Am I hypocritical for not wanting him to tease me or what?Should I like stop teasing him to be fair so he won't do it to me?I mean I kind of feel bad because I don't actually do anything for him..But he does more to me.Am I unfair to him?Honestly, I mean I would do it.. But I'm not sure if I want to just yet.I gotta make him for it you know?I'm the kind of girl who plays hard to get..And Yes..I am a virgin.If you can help me out.That would be great.
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@ a dance with a boy(:
Posted Tuesday June 12 2007, 11:18 pm
I'm going with this guy (who i like) to this dance this Saturday. And he asked me what do you wanna do there?
And I dont know but he finds after awhile dancing gets really boring. I agree too. So what is there to do at a dance besides dancing?? Something fun, I would like to make this the best dance of my life!!
Thank you:)
p.s. I really really really like him!!!!
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Friends w/ Benefits + a bf??
Posted Tuesday June 12 2007, 11:17 pm
I met my friend Melissa's brother Chris back in January and we became friends and I was attracted to him and he liked me too cuz he asked me out on Valentine's Day. But meanwhile I was getting to be really close friends with a boy named Thomas. So after two weeks I ended things with Chris, partly because of my crush on Thomas but mostly because he picked on me too much and treated me more like a sister than a girlfriend. And eventually Thomas and I got together on March 30. But I still have a physical attraction to Chris and I'm bummed because even after about 2 1/2 months together, Thomas has never kissed me. I never kissed Chris either but that was only two weeks sooo it would have been too soon.
Now I'm wondering what wou...
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boyfriend going out with another girl?
Posted Tuesday June 12 2007, 10:52 pm
Ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a month and he says he really loves me and I really love him, but then all the sudden he decides to go to the movies with another girl? He says they want to hang out cause they haven't seen each other in a long time, and don't get me wrong I totally trust him. But I just don't know what to do I mean why the movies of all places? ughh. this sucks. I dont know what to do anymore.
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whats making-out?
Posted Tuesday June 12 2007, 10:41 pm
i say making-out is kisssing for moree than maby 10 seconds but my boyfriend said that making-out is kissing and touching each other while your kissing.he'se convinced of his side but im very sure im right i just wanna make sure.
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Teasing
Posted Tuesday June 12 2007, 10:37 pm
So I have a boyfriend whom I have been with for a lil over 2 months.We've been talking for months before we actually started going out.Or made it official.In between all that.I was talking to my ex.Really my ex was trying to get back with me.And I have feelings for him still and always will be.Not necessarily strong ones or whatever,But you get my drift.He always seem to come in mind.I try not to let it effect my relationship with my boyfriend,But I mean he sometimes ends up in the conversation.Not necessarily with my boyfriend, But with like friends and family.I feel guilty though.For even having any thoughts about him because my ex was a jerk,But I mean I can't help but think about him.I don't know how to get him out of my head.I'm runnin...
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Posted Tuesday June 12 2007, 10:35 pm
15.f
okay so this guy likes me. I don't feel the same way about him though. He tried asking me out twice so far this year. the first time I told him I still had feelings for my ex (which was true) the second time he asked me out again I told him I had a boyfriend (which I did) and now were broken up and he asked me out again through e-mail today. I don't know how to tell him no. I just don't have feelings like that for him. What would the best way to tell him?
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is this sluttish?
Posted Tuesday June 12 2007, 10:09 pm
Is it slutty for a girl and a guy (that liked each other) to publically, loudly, & obnoxiously flirt..like in class? How far would be too far?
Thanks
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My B/F birthday Friday!HELP!!
Posted Tuesday June 12 2007, 8:12 pm
F/14
My boyfriends birthday is Friday. He is going to be 14. We are pretty serious.We've been dating about 8 1/2 monthz. (9 monthz on the 6/21.)
I will have 100-120$ on his birthday should i just give him that, a card, and write him something or what?
I need advice asap!PLEASE!!! He already thinks i have something planned but i have nothing!
Any advice right now is helpful. Thank you in advance.
And i thought you ppl should know what I've already given him: a movie,poems,pj pants. my virginity, made him dinner, a 120$ watch, and thats all i can think of right now.
Well thanx!
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The hot rich guy,the nice guy and cheating
Posted Tuesday June 12 2007, 8:06 pm
Okay to start off,I'm going out with this guy Jason and he's told me I love you and all that and I like him and everything just not love.He always ditches me and never hangs with me or anything.And theres this guy Syd in my class and I think he likes me...I've asked him out already (recently) and he said no but me friend Heather said she overheard Nate (Syd's friend) saying that if he went out with me,he'd never talk to Syd again.That's probably why Syd said no.So me and Syd have had joke plans to you know *cough cough do it* and all this and we met to and we didn't have protection so I just gave him a h.a.n.d.j.o.b. with my shirt off.and f.l.a.s.h.e.d. him.We're not going out and we're both seeing someone.I know it sounds like a slutty thi...
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Which One??
Posted Tuesday June 12 2007, 7:26 pm
ok well i used to go out with this guy sean. I went out with him for about a year, and we were always off and on, maybe bc we lived so far apart and we didnt get to see eachother that often. Soon after we broke up, i started to see a kid named brennon. ( i went out with him too wen i was off and on with sean ) he was ok. Sean was better. So me and sean havent talked in 2 years and now he suddenly texts me and wants to get bak together and so does brennon. But for all this time ive been crushingg on brennon... what should i do ?
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Jerry.. Chris.. Tony.. lion.. tigers.. bears...
Posted Tuesday June 12 2007, 7:11 pm
Okay sorry if this is confusing..
so a long time ago this guy Jerry liked me, but I didn't like him. Then his friend Chris started liking me, and I liked Chris. So Chris and I went out for 3 weeks, and then he broke up with me. Then these rumors came out that I liked Tony (Who is friends with Jerry and Chris.) and Tony liked me. (But we didn't like each other, we're just both big flirts.) and when Chris found out he told me about it made him jealous and realize he still had feelings for me. so then Chris and I started "secretly" seeing each other, but he never officially asked me out. and now the end of the year is coming up and we kind of stopped because we're both swamped with end of the year finals and sol's. But...
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