i was going out with this boy before and we broke up, a few weeks later he got with one of my friends, but now we are goign back out but i can't help to think what he thinks when he sees her or really what happened between them two..what can i do to not be so jealous of something that happened 8 months ago?
Brandi_S answered Wednesday June 13 2007, 2:38 pm: Well, there are to key ingredients to a happy, healthy relationship. Trust and honesty.
You are going to have to just trust that he doesn't think of her as anything more than a friend.
As for worrying over what really happened between them, forget it. It's in the past. It's also between them, and not your concern in the first place.
Listen, it's like this- if he wanted to be with her, he wouldn't be with you. He CHOSE YOU. Obviously he thought you were the one for him, not her.
8 months ago is 3/4 of a year. That is a long time ago. You should leave the past at rest behind you where it belongs.
summer_is_love258963 answered Wednesday June 13 2007, 10:53 am: okayy well i used to be in the same situation. my bestfriend and my boyfriend went out and now that im going out with him i feel like they probally still have feelings for eachother. i just learned to realise that if my boyfriend wanted to be with my friend..he would be, but hes not hes with me. so his feelings are obviously stronger with me, than with my friend. hope i helped =]] [ summer_is_love258963's advice column | Ask summer_is_love258963 A Question ]
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