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This is my billionth question, so... I don't get much advice


Posted Friday June 15 2007, 9:17 pm

I really want to ask a guy out. I know a few guys, but the problem is... Nobody will be caught dead dating me. If a guy is dating me, he'll be taunted until he brakes up with me. I'm not a geek or anything. I wear glasses, but they actually make me look better than when I don't have glasses on. I don't act like a geek either. I act ok. a little weird, but ok. I've only dated three guys. 1, hurt me physically. 2, was really annoying and was checking other girls out. 3, dated me for three days and broke up with me because he never got to see me.(He goes to another skool across the state)I don't think I'm ugly, or stupid. I'm confident in stuff like that, but i don't know why guys won't date me. My one friend says it's because I don't like/wea...

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i`m a pansy ?


Posted Friday June 15 2007, 8:40 pm

so my b/f was on AIM and he's at the movies with his sister and my bf`s friend katie . anyways, he IMed me & said "hey im with people who hate you" and i`m all "wow thats nice . because they thing i`m a pansy , right? just because i wear hollister doesn`t make me a prep . get over it"
(i get really annoyed because he is on the punkish-emo side & so are his friends) anyways someone goes "this is his sister & katie we hate you go suck a penis you pansy!" and idk what i should do , he was being really rude && idk what i should say to him the next time i talk to him . any advice ? what should i tell him ? break-up or not ?

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ways to ask sum1 out...


Posted Friday June 15 2007, 8:24 pm

okay thur is this boy tht i really lik he is my neightboor and i wanted to know some good ways to ask sum1 out tht arent tht.....lik scary and make you really nervous to ask i wanna ask em out but i dont wanna jus flat out go up to em and say "will you go out wit me?" he's told me he luved me b4 and comes up and hugs me but i still dont wanna b...flat out thanx alot and any advice appreciated

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im sorry its really long, but im really lost/confused. 15/f


Posted Friday June 15 2007, 8:09 pm

ok well i liked or at least i think i still like him im not even sure anymore, but lets just say that i still do like him. well he found out that i liked him so he invited me to his house on memorial day weekend and we hung out in his basement and watched a movie and we hooked up. and it was my first time and i was really happy. and we dont go to the same school anymore cos i moved two years ago, but we stayed friends. and so the night before school started that weekend at like 11pm i texted him and i said"i loved being with you on friday night! i miss you already!" and he texted me back, and was like "me too, what are you doing next weekend" which kinda made me upset cos like i guess i was expecting for him to me...

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Helppppp#2


Posted Friday June 15 2007, 8:04 pm

hey again i love hiom alot so i really need good tipz
how should i dress
wat should i say plaese give me the best then best advice u have

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Is he just shy?


Posted Friday June 15 2007, 7:59 pm

Okay, I am a 15 year old girl and I like a 16 year old boy who is a year ahead of me in school. He is super sweet, smart, but a little shy. He talks to me and smiles during our class together and sometimes he even looks back at me when i am not even talking to him. However, even as this continues he rarely strikes up convorsations with me. Could he actually like me and just be to shy to talk to me, or am I delusional? Thankyou!

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HELP!!!!


Posted Friday June 15 2007, 7:34 pm

there's diz boy i really like
i don't know i to get his attention can someone help me or give me tips thankz

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drugs & boyfriends ...


Posted Friday June 15 2007, 6:33 pm

okay , so my boyfriend && i have been together for almost 4 months . i love him , really , i do . the only thing i don`t like about him is that he does pot . he says he hasn`t done it for like 2 months. but my friends keep telling me "i wouldn`t go out with someone that does drugs , but thats just me" idk what to do because i really like him , but not sure if i wan`t to keep seeing someone that does pot . and btw : he knows i know that he does pot . what should i do ? should i let it all go to waste & break up with be because of pot ?

uhg ,

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one year later......


Posted Friday June 15 2007, 6:30 pm

17/f. It has been over a year since I broke up with my boyfriend. And I am still in love with him. Head over heels, would do anything for him, I want to spend the rest of my life with him, I know he is the one, the only one for me, in love. And, he is my best friend. Problem is though, is that he has a girlfriend and they have been going out for a year. I want to tell him so much, but I am afraid that things would get weird between us. I don't want to lose him because he is my best friend. But I just want to be truly happy. I don't know what to do. What should I do?

Also, tomorrow our friend is having a b-day party, and he is going to be there, and his girlfriend. It's going to be all day. I don't want to break do...

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extended question from before


Posted Friday June 15 2007, 6:19 pm

hey! i was the person who asked about the boy who liked me last week...and he was like:" can't say hi?" ..LOL


well, i haven't seen him for the past 3 days. and monday is THE LAST DAY OF SCHOOL!!!! so if there's a chance i don't seem him..should i just move on? because i don't know if he has a myspace. and basically i don't know anything about him.so what should i do?


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Stuck between two


Posted Friday June 15 2007, 5:44 pm

okay...im datin this guy named michael lee....i like him ..but im havin second thoughts cause its like everytime were on the phone..we hardly talk...then on 6/13/07 i met this guy named Kaleb..he is sweet..we have alot in common and when i say a lot i mean alot....we could hardly stop talking the nite he called me...we can talk about ANYTHING....unfortunately he lives in Hawaii..but if i say with lee im gonna be moving to MD so it still wont work...i jus dont kno wwat to do...


HELP!!!

HELP!!!

HELP!!

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how do i no if my boyfriend is cheating on me


Posted Friday June 15 2007, 5:17 pm

hello people have been tellin me rumors that they have seen my boyfriend behind a 7/11 makin out wiyh a girl but he said thats so stupied why wud i do that if the 7/11 is right next to your house than i heard that he fingered and made out widd his ex gf a couple of saturdays ago but he told me he wud never cause he hated her b/c when they went out she cheated on him many times and the day they broke up she told him so he hate her for that than this friend of mine met my bf the other day and said he was huggin and beling all over his friend andrea that i am even chill with and i dont know cause chris likes me and i dont know if he was tryin to break me and mike up but he yelled at chris and said why are you lien to my girl and sayin stuff t...

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I love someone...that dosnt love me


Posted Friday June 15 2007, 5:15 pm

Okay...lets start from the beging...I get my first kiss when I was a freshman in High school...we date off and on for 3 years....I loved this guy...and he loved me...but there was always something that we ended up breaking it off for.. So then I moved not my choice...he meets someone els, they get ingaged...so its time for me to move on...I met someone...hes perfect, I cant complain at all, so somehow, I really do move on from my first love...but then this guy i met, that is perfect, is moving for college, and so am i...he tells me all the time to stay here so we can be close...well i cant just change my plans...but one day I ask him..." what would you say if I could stay hear?" Then he says its whatever....OM GOD....what does tha...

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being confident


Posted Friday June 15 2007, 5:09 pm

14/f
How can I be more confident around guys? I've never had a boyfriend and never been asked out before either. My brother (who's 16) says i'm good looking enough, it's just because i'm mean. He says i'm not nice enough around guys. I kinda agree, cuz my philosophy has always been "if you don't need the person, there's no use wasting time getting to know them. screw them for now." i know it's bad...i'm really anti-social and prefer not to interact with people much. I know i come across as bitchy a lot. But now i'm done with it. I'm going into high school, and I'm interested in guys...and want to make new friends, especially with boys. So my question is...how do i be more confident in school and stuff and how do i get guys to notice me?

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in love with best friend


Posted Friday June 15 2007, 4:33 pm

i have a really good friend jon. he is one of the hottest guys in the school and pretty nice. i never even dreamed of dating him till just a week ago. i would ask him out but what if he denies and it ruins our friendship. what if we broke up and it did the same thing? and, he has one flaw: he cheats on his girlfriends. he has never had a girlfriend that he hasnt cheated on.

help! thanks for everyones advice. 14/f

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Parties


Posted Friday June 15 2007, 4:31 pm

My boyfriend is going to parties since school has ended. You know? Those high school parties and then he talks about going to those college parties. It really bothers me a lot :[ He's quite handsome and I'm sure he wouldn't do anything with other girls.. but girls have always flirted with him and tried to do stuff. I don't want something to happen. I know.. he's going to get high, drunk and whatever. It bothers me a lot and I don't know what to do... I'm afraid something might happen.

But I know that I can't tell him.. he can't go.

Is there anyway that I can distract myself?

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He ran away.


Posted Friday June 15 2007, 3:59 pm

Okay, so here's what happened. My friend really likes this guy, and i do too. And we are sure he likes both of us. And so today, my friend wanted to know, so she asked me if i could ask him if he liked anyone, and if so who. And i said that she could, because i wanted to know. So, after school..she went up to him, and told him. "i need to talk to you". and he said "okay, hold on let me get something". so he went running...and went past me. [by the way: i wasn't with her]. And, so i saw him running, put his backpack down, and then went somewhere. And he came back, after a long time. And my friend was tearing because she thought he ran away from her, and i think he did, because he just sat back on the hill he usually sits ...

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shy


Posted Friday June 15 2007, 3:44 pm

okay. im 14/f, and i have a huge problem. my boyfriend is really shy, and i dont know what to talk about around him.(im kinda really shy too.) like, what if i want to start kissing him? how should i do that?(im obviously not experienced)thanks.

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confusing boy


Posted Friday June 15 2007, 3:27 pm

soo there is this kid that i like and he knows it and he had told me first that he liked me. and well in person you can tell there is a connection and when were online he doesnt really even talk and when he does its one word answers, nothing to keep the conversation going and its veryy frustrating. and then since its summer i dont really see him that much and when i want to call him people are like no you have to play hard to get but i am horrible at that and well i just dont know what to do since i really want to hang out with him. and like i have talked to him about hanging out except i never really get an answer on when we will hang out. any help would be greatt =]

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a confusing boyy


Posted Friday June 15 2007, 3:17 pm

So there is this guy that i like alot and well he told me that he likes me to but he is just so confusing. and like whenever i see him i can tell that there is that connection. lol. but like online he almost refuses to talk like im fighting to get words out of him. he says its because hes lazy but then why does he talk to other people? and now that its summer i barely ever get to see him and i want to hang out with him but people are like you cant call him, you have to play hard to get. and im like well i doubt he will call me and then they're like well he is a shy one and im like uhmm okay? soo i just dont know what to do with him. can someone please help me?
and sorry it is so longg =\

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