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too young.


Posted Wednesday June 27 2007, 7:44 pm

okay. so my boyfriend and i have been going out for about a year now. and i really really love him. infact we talk about getting married one day. heres the problem, im young. 15. same for him. is it odd for us to be thinking that far ahead even when we are so young? i mean i can't doubt us being in love, and we just feel that connection. and its been there from the start. there are no dull moments. yes we have been through alot, but it was my fault(i was diagnosed with a brain disorder about halfway though everything and had to spend alot of time in the hospital). but i honestly think that we have a future together. does anyone think this is odd?

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cheated....trust


Posted Wednesday June 27 2007, 7:44 pm

Okay. So I cheated on my boyfriend 2 months ago with one of my ex's, which i have not talked to since. And I told my boyfriend the next day. And I feel horrible about what I did, every time I think about it or he brings it up I end up crying and hating myself more and more. For about 2 weeks after it happend I cried myself to sleep every night and seriously could hardly live with what I had done. And now, 2 months later, he still has not forgoten it, well i dont expect him to forget it, but he still always brings it up and I want to hang out with one of my guy friends.... and my boyfriend got all mad that I wanted too and was like fine go be with him then and he is just worryed i will cheat on him again.... but I would never do that again, ...

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my friend needs advice about her relationship


Posted Wednesday June 27 2007, 7:27 pm

(shes a 15 year old girl) So my friend has a pretty complicated situation.She used to go out with this guy who was a complete jerk off.He used to control everything she need,and got mad at her for everything.I kept telling her to break it off,and finally she did.(after going under serious depression and dealing with alot of problems)Now,shes been with this other guy for 2 months.He is really cool,and he never usually disrespects her.Now,out of nowhere he says that he likes one of his girl friends! But he also says it doesnt mean anything and that he still loves her and wants to be with her.The only problem is that hes constantly hanging out with this other girl alone and never wants anyone to be there when they hang out.(he says nothings h...

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brother's best friend.


Posted Wednesday June 27 2007, 7:16 pm

Hi, I'm fourteen years old and I'm a girl. My brother is 15. His best friend Mike is 17 and we've always got along pretty well. I've been spending a lot of time with them lately and I'm starting to have strong feelings for him. I'm pretty sure he doesn't like me, but he flirts with me a lot. My brother knows I like him and he's fine with it. I'm just not really sure how to get Mike's attention. Like, how do i make him realize that I like him without being too forward? Sorry if this is long. Thanks in advance. I greatly appreciate it.

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WHAT SHOULD i DO?


Posted Wednesday June 27 2007, 6:53 pm

iM iN lOve WiTH THiS GUY WE WERE GOiNG OUT FOR 2 YEARS AND BROKE UP WiTH ME LAST YEAR WE DiD EVRYTHiNG TOGETHER ATE DiNDER EVRYNiGHT WENT TO THE DOCTORES WiTH ME ARE PARENTS WERE BESTFRiENDS THEN HE RAN AWAY BEACUSE HiS DAD REALiZED HE STARTED DRUGS AND HE WAS TREATiNG ME BAD. AND HE RAN AWAY TO His MOMS AND BLAMMED EVRYTHiNG ON ME. HES ALL BRO NOW && ON DRUGS AND i TRY TELLiNG HiM HE JUST CALLS ME OBSESSED AND HE LiVES WiTH HiS NEW GiRLFRiEND NOW AND HES ONLY 17 i DON TNO WHAT HAPPEND WHAT SHOULD I DO?

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Posted Wednesday June 27 2007, 5:06 pm

okkk so basically there are two guys that like really like me... and i like both of them.
one of them is paul, who just came to our school a month before it ended, whereas the other brandon ive known for like yeaarss
anyways paul: every one basically hates him because hes pretty jackassy. and hes full of himselfff (because hes REAALly attractive!) but, he is soo sweet to me its not even funny. we always talk on the phone, and hes just really nice to me. also, we get along, because i make similar jokes as him, such as "i'm more attractive then them so they shouldn't be talking to me that way." (if that sounds concieted, i promise its not) anyways we have great chemistry, and hes asked me out quite a few times, but i d...

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quick answers please i'm going to see him at a party in an h


Posted Wednesday June 27 2007, 5:03 pm

ok so i just got out of a friends with benefits relationship with my best friend. it caused a lot of drama when our friends found out about it. we never had sex we just did other things. he said he wanted to stop so all the drama would finally end and because he wanted to date again. a week later after all of this we were at a friends house hanging out in his hot tub and another one of our guy friends had his arm around me and my ex friend with benefits wouldn't stop staring at me...and my chest. now he just texted me and he wants to get back together but as friends with benefits. but i like someone and im not sure if they like me and i know 3 girls like him. im not really planning on getting back together with him i just dont know what to say to him. help!

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What should I do about my boyfriend...


Posted Wednesday June 27 2007, 4:38 pm

My boyfriend has been a jerk lately.. You see, I barely get to see him and we talk mostly on the phone for about a good 15min a day.. Which kinda bothers me a bit because I wish to see him more often, but he has work and when he does have a break.. he'd rather hang out with his own friends first.. then when it gets to me, he'll tell me he's too tired to hang out.. I let this go for awhile, but now it's just getting to me.. 2 days ago I called and asked him if he wanted to go see a movie and what do I get? A "I don't want to hang out with you.." Me being usually cheery when I talk, my voice lowered in an instance and I just kept quiet for awhile.. He then asks why I'm upset, ...HA! like he doesn't know.. Then he starts saying, &quo...

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finger


Posted Wednesday June 27 2007, 4:12 pm

ok well yeahh me and my friend might go on a double date tonight and well my boyfriend isn't a virgin and i am...but i sort of am prude..i mean ive made out and everything but like he told my friend he wants to finger me....i feel kind of weird asking this but like when i guy fingers a girl, he gts like stuff on his finers rgiht? do they think thats weird at all.....help me!!

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long distance.


Posted Wednesday June 27 2007, 3:39 pm

Do long distance relationships work?
Or what are your views on them?
I'm not thinking of starting one, but a friend is and I was just wondering what others thought about them.

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I had a fight with my boyfriend.


Posted Wednesday June 27 2007, 3:27 pm

Okay, today me and my boyfriend were hanging out, just a regular day. We rotated his car tires outside and then went inside his house just to relax. (His house was empty). So he goes on his computer and checks this car website while I sit on a chair, I even grab a granola bar to munch on. So afterwards he approaches me and starts to kiss me intently. Obviously, he was looking for a hookup. Then, I push him back lightly because when ever we go to his house and it's empty, we ALWAYS have to hookup! I don't think that it's always necessary to hookup on these occasions but we always do. I mean he's not a hormonal-hookup-monster but I mean what kind of guy doesn't like them? Anyway, I told him no, and I also said, why is it that whenever we go t...

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going to hurt her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Posted Wednesday June 27 2007, 3:19 pm

okay well there is this guy i like and i dont know if he likes me and i am not supposed to like himm cause he is off limits cause my best friend likes him but you cant help who you like........ okay well right now i am near the guy and there is a girl there flirting her head off and i pretty much want to kick her ass. is there any way to stop myself? i know he is not mine and i am usuallly never jealous but this girl came at the wrong time. any ideas??? thanks!<3333

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moving on.


Posted Wednesday June 27 2007, 3:16 pm

k so this might be long, i'll try to make it short though.
i'm still not over my ex and it's been like since february that we broke up. we dated once before that to and he was perfect. like hands down the best boyfriend ever. i even think i loved him. then out of nowhere he broke up with me. and i'm not even sure why. then a few months later in january of this year we got back together. but things were kinda weird between us at first then after like a week and a half i didn't feel weird around him anymore and everyhting seemed almost good. then like another week later he broke up with me again. he said he liked someone else. i guess we're still friends but that really hurt.
and now it's june and i'm still hung up on him.
...

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sweet or weird?


Posted Wednesday June 27 2007, 3:03 pm

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months and the other day on the phone, randomly he goes, i wish i could see you, and hug you every second of the day.
is that sweet or just plain weird?

THANKSOMUCH!

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dont know what to think.


Posted Wednesday June 27 2007, 2:35 pm

okay... so theres a guy i know. we were friends and talked frequently at school. i liked him and didnt tell anyone until recently. on the last day of school, a month ago, i told one of my friends that i would email a picture to them. then he was sitting nearby and said email a picture of me to me. i said well i dont have a picture of you. then he said well take one, so i did. then a minute later i forgot that i didnt have his email. so he gave it to me. then i emailed the picture to him a couple days later. my friends boyfriend is like his best friend and he thinks this guy, lets sat joe, likes me, but he wont admit. i told my friend that i liked him. but i dont know if he really likes me or not, because he wont admit it to his friend.

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ughhhh boys


Posted Wednesday June 27 2007, 12:29 pm

ok well basically.. like a week ago i broke up with my boyfriend. for lots of reasons.. i wont name them all (but some of them were kinda mean). and so then i was a bitch to him.. dont ask me why.. i still liked him i just was trying to push him away for some reason b/c my friends didnt like him & stuff. so now i feel like basically hates me but i still like him a lot like i feel like i cant live without him.. we had been going out for like a year and so now idk what to do b/c i think he likes this other girl. and like i said sorry like a million times and he accepted my apology & stuff but now idk what to do b/c i feel like i dont have a chance anymore b/c of how i treated him and i know its all my fault but is there anything else i can do?

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guy i like im going to call him but i don't know what to say


Posted Wednesday June 27 2007, 11:05 am

ok so im a 16/f and im going to call this guy that i like today. but okay i met him and talked to him twice. and he likes to skateboard and we also talked babout music. but bseides that what else should we talk about since we barely know eachother? and also i need some flirting tips! thnx

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idk how.


Posted Wednesday June 27 2007, 10:11 am

its me shannon AGAIN lol.
the other day i was planning on making out with my boyfriend and i thought about it.
idk how to makeout.
and i feel really weird for asking this
so dont give me crap pleaseee

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Does my best friend like the guy I like?? Sorry it's so long


Posted Wednesday June 27 2007, 2:10 am

Ok, So I became friends with this girl "Sara" recently, and I'd say we're pretty much best friends now. I've really, really liked this guy "Joe" for over two years. Anyways, Sara always hangs out with him. She'll call him and ask for rides to parties (which, I'm not really a Partier). And in gym class[I'm in the 11th grade btw, and he just graduated] she would always do stuff to get him to react to her with some comment. I don't think he likes her though. Many others agree that she flirts with him..A LOT. We even went to the movies with Joe and his friend, hoping I'd get a chance to hang out with him [so she said], and she sat by him AND talked to him the whole time. She claims she doesn't like him and that she's "I...

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i dont know what to tell him


Posted Wednesday June 27 2007, 2:00 am

okay so im 15 and a girl

usually im pretty good with these things but there is this kid steve. and it was basically an immediate attravtion. we would talk for hours and he basically knows me better than anyone else. well we never made it "official" and its been off and on alot and i broke up with my boyfriend for him. but like two days later he said we were better off friends. now you might consider him an ass hole for this but truly.. he's basically the sweetest, and most caring person i know. if i explained it to you fully, it would be pages. i think that i really love this guy. and now he started talking to me again.

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