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ok so i just got out of a friends with benefits relationship with my best friend. it caused a lot of drama when our friends found out about it. we never had sex we just did other things. he said he wanted to stop so all the drama would finally end and because he wanted to date again. a week later after all of this we were at a friends house hanging out in his hot tub and another one of our guy friends had his arm around me and my ex friend with benefits wouldn't stop staring at me...and my chest. now he just texted me and he wants to get back together but as friends with benefits. but i like someone and im not sure if they like me and i know 3 girls like him. im not really planning on getting back together with him i just dont know what to say to him. help!
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Be honest and tell him that you don't want to be in a friends with benefits relationship with him. It's honestly not worth the drama of being in that relationship again while liking the other guy, especially if there's a chance that you could get with the other guy. Honesty is the best policy so just be open with the friends with benefits guy, it's not worth trying to beat around the bush about it.
Good luck and hope this helps. :)
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I'm gonna be straight up and say that he's really just a guy wanting action..he was looking at your chest. I think you would be better off dating a different guy, because you know this guy will probably always be going on and off with you. He wants action--and that's not the best thing to deal with. I had a guy who was my best friend, and he started wanting action from me mainly because of my body, then he would stop talking to me and then he'd start talking to me again. You can get your feelings hurt--this guy hurt mine because I grew to like him but he just wanted action. Just tell him you're like someone else, and you're done with the friends with benefits thing. Tell him straight up, because you should make it clear that you're not going to get hurt.
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Tell him that you like someone right now and you want to see what is up with them before you jump back into it with him again.
The honest approach is always the best.
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