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Age Difference


Posted Saturday October 13 2007, 6:32 pm

I am hanging out with my friends brother next weekend, He is a 19 year old and i am only 16. Should i tell him im 17, i really want him to like me! Maybe he will like me more if there is less of an age difference?

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First kiss.. HEELPPP.


Posted Saturday October 13 2007, 5:53 pm

Okayy im 16 years old.
and havnt even had my first kiss yet!
im a girl. so u know.
but i been with a couple guys but we havnt really kissed.
but i really want to have my first kiss.
the last guy. i really loved, i wanted it to be him i had my first kiss with. but when i went to talk to him about it. he dumped me =/ so i dont know what to do. Help me please. ?

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boyfriend might break up with me


Posted Saturday October 13 2007, 5:03 pm

ok im 13/f.

my boyfriend and i have been going out for a few weeks now, maybe 4 or 5 somewhere in that range, and the other day, we had a fight. he got mad at me because he said that i was making fun of him, and then he started to pass notes with this other girl. and it really made me pissed off!!!!.

and i told him to not pass notes with her, and he said " why not, were friends, were both in band"

and then he got mad because i got mad for him passing notes with her. all the note said was her asking him if he was mad at me. but it still made me really mad. and then i started to think that he was cheating on me with her. and then that made him even more mad, and he dosent even want to tal...

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14 girl with a 17 old boy


Posted Saturday October 13 2007, 1:51 pm

im turning 14 im a girl is it bad to get involved with a 17 old boy

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i don't know which?


Posted Saturday October 13 2007, 1:45 pm

hey, 15/f. sophomore in Highschool.

So, I really liked this guy named Josh. He had asked me out last year, I said yes, then changed my mind. I felt horrible, believe me. This year I began to like him again, and told him. He stares at me in lunch a lot, and tries to catch my eye, and then some days, he just doesn't. He's also been kind of a jerk lately. I don't talk to him often.
Then, there is Duston. He's cute, sweet, funny. I like him a lot now, but part of my heart is still hung up on Josh. Anyways, Duston and I don't talk often either, but when we do, he's SO nice. And I actually invited him to my Halloween party, he thinks he can go for sure. Perfect, right? Wrong. My very good friend Cassie likes him as well... b...

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Getting him to approach me first


Posted Saturday October 13 2007, 1:04 pm

I know that you've heard these questions a million times, but each question is different in a small way.

I'm 15/f and school recently just started for me (freshman in high school... new school for me). It started out about 2 weeks ago when in one of my classes, we were getting quizzes back and I was still waiting for the teacher to call my name. Then I heard the teacher say this guys name. We will call him Blake in this story. So he stood up and went to claim his quiz, and when I looked at him... I was seriously like *whoa* he was so hot and I really like him. He's not like SUPER hot, like who always gets girls attention... but in my world he is hot. So I asked my friend if she knew him and she said yeah, he lives in her nei...

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blahh


Posted Saturday October 13 2007, 11:43 am

ok so the other night i got my kiss. but he wasnt my boyfriend or anything and still isnt.
but anyways he frenched me and i think i totally messed up bc i wasnt readyy. but i have no idea what i did so that doesnt help.but if that happens again i want to know what im doing and kiss the right way.
help?
thankss.


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Where did it all go wrong when it seemed so right?


Posted Saturday October 13 2007, 11:36 am

19/f. Sorry this'll be long.

So there's this guy I met a few weeks ago. We've stayed up several times in the past two weeks just talking for hours. We got close about a week ago, just cuddling and stuff but it wasn't until last night when things started happening. We were both drunk and cuddling etc all night. Finally we got some time alone and went back to my room in my dorm. We started kissing (I've wanted to for so long!) and afterwards I told him he was a great kisser. Well, his response to that was very unexpected. He said "it wasn't as good as it could've been" Wow. Major blow. I asked him what he meant and he said he thought it could've been a lot better and he'd imagined it differently. Said he compared me t...

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DOES hE REAlly likE ME !?


Posted Saturday October 13 2007, 11:25 am

well thers this guy ive liked for about 3 years now we started out flirting alot, then last year he actually asked me Out & we were togeather for like 1 day then he broke up with me at school with a stupid little note. but then ever since then all last skool year he would tell his friends that he liked me sooo much & that i was beautiful. & he would send me texts saying that he lliked me again & saying really sweet things. now this year, i think he likes me but its that he'l be sweet one day then he'l talk about another girl the next day. he constantly staring at me. & he textd me yesterday "i think one day we r gonna have sex" & he also told me tht he always wanted to lose his virginity with me & he re...

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Why doesnt he love me?


Posted Saturday October 13 2007, 10:39 am

13/f

I've been dating this guy for sometime now. It was an internet relationship, but i didnt care. He was sweet and made me feel so much better about myself in so many ways. We used to say to tell each other that we loved each other everytime we talked. But recently i he wasnt on for a while. I kept on loving him. There was a place to put if you had a special person, so I put his picture on there saying that i always will love him. When he got back on he said he didnt love me anymore. I was crushed and we've been talking about it. Now he is saying that he isnt the same type of guy and that i should judt forget about him, and he doesnt get why i still love him. the question is, why all of the sudden does he not love me? Is it...

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Should I go for it??


Posted Saturday October 13 2007, 8:43 am

ok...Im 15/f...freshman...
These past 2 days I have gone to haunted houses with my friends....one of them has a bro who I've liked since I first talked to him...which was this year....hes a sophmore..which doesnt bother me...one of my other friends likes him too....she was at the first haunted house that we went to and when she...or anybody else...would hold onto him he would yell get off of me...but when I held onto him he just like grabbed my arm and like held it....then at the second house..the one that likes him wasnt there...but again when his sister or the other girl we had with us held onto him he yelled but when I did he did nothing....we all got split up somehow and I was just walking with him and when I would get scared fro...

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does he like me?


Posted Saturday October 13 2007, 3:47 am

i met this AMAZING guy on myspace a month ago, from just randomly searching. yeah, i know it's not safe but he gave me his cell number after i messaged him. the next day we talked for like 4 hours on the phone! then we text on and on. every night he would call me. one night he told me he was starting to really like me, so i told him the same back. i felt confused because i didnt want to say i liked him because im scared of getting hurt again due to my last relationship a year ago. the next day, he told me he didnt like me more than a friend. i was upset, but i got over it. anyways, me and him met in person a week or two later and i knew right then and there he was so different :). we continued to talk and everything was great. i began to re...

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first time


Posted Saturday October 13 2007, 2:09 am

15/f I'm new to the whole bf/gf thing right now, but I reallllly like the guy I'm with, and I want to show him, but I don't know how. We hold hands and he puts his arm around me and stuff, but what else? We aren't very close right now... so I don't want to move too fast, but I want to start something up.

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is it real?


Posted Saturday October 13 2007, 2:05 am

This guy asked me out and my best friend says he likes me as more than a friend, but I mean, I haven't known him for long at all. Did he ask me out just so he could have a gf? Or does he actually love me? I can't really tell... when we're together he holds my hand and he puts his arm around me, but, it just doesn't seem like he's letting himself go. I don't really like him as more than a friend right now, I think mostly just cuz I don't know him. But I wonder if he only wants me to go out with him to impress his friends, I mean, we never do anything alone, it's always around our friends.

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who should i choose?


Posted Friday October 12 2007, 11:08 pm

okay so like theres this senior, that i like. and he lieks me back. and like we had this thing for like a month where we really weren't going out, but like we were like hanging out and doing kinda boyfriend and girlfriend things((holding hands, mvoei nights.....telling eachother things that no one else noes)) then like recently he told me that he just wanted to be friends, but that he still like me and he was confused. then last sunday he told me that he ws confused because of the age difference between me and him, ((hes a senior and im a sophomore))and that he was kinda afarid to do "stuff". which got me really upset. but now im like over it bc i noe that he still likes me and thats all that matters. but then there is this other ...

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To go for him or not to go for him??


Posted Friday October 12 2007, 10:21 pm

Ok well I have this friend named *bob*(fake name by the way) and he is just totally amazing and the sweetest guy that you will ever meet, well he had a girlfriend and recently(last night) he found out that his girlfriend is cheating on him and I helped him find out who the other guy was, and the thing is that his girlfriend is one of my good friends but he is a better friend to me if that makes sense like im closer to him, and I really like him and my best friend *shay*(fake name too) just broke up with her boyfriend and Like she likes *bob's* best friend and she wants to go out with him. Me and *shay* are like so close she is my best friend and I can tell her everything, and she says that it would be cool if me and her were going out with ...

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This kid?


Posted Friday October 12 2007, 10:07 pm

Well i went to a football game, and then like i was really cold so this kid that i like gave me his hoodie, but then he was with these two girls, and he just like walked away from them and i gave him a mean look, and he gave me a hug and told me not to be mad at him. Does he like me?

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what do i do?


Posted Friday October 12 2007, 9:55 pm

i dont think my boyfriend likes me anymore. besides i mean he's never around because he's training in california.but occationally he goes online BUT TALKS HAS FULL CONVOS WITH MY SISTER and NOTTT me. he doesnt call anymore or send me sweet stuff like he used to.i think it might be because i told him a kid kissed by complete accident.but what do i do,does he like me or is he just mad?

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boys


Posted Friday October 12 2007, 9:30 pm

I was sorta in a relationshp for a few months in my high school freshman year. Well really we flirted, chatted on the phone till about midenight, and i kissed him and we hung out at his job. Over the summer he faded away and this year suddenly we are in the same class, he's a senior and im a sophmore, and he's always starring at me and talking and joking with me. I don't know if he wants a relationship or what.

But now i suddenly like this new guy who has a girlfriend at another school and he's really nice to me and were in theatre together. But now knowing he has a gf i don't know what to do! I don't even know if the guy in my class likes me like he did last year. Anyone ever go through somethin like this? please help!!!!

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hES MOViNG!


Posted Friday October 12 2007, 8:01 pm

Well my boy friend of 2 months is moving back to chicago in 4 months. we had broken up for a couple of weeks but i really love him & were back togeather now. but i dont know if i should stay with him because i noe hes leaving & il probably never see him again. pls help me :( we r just soo in love with eachother & it happend soo fast. should i stay with him or leave em soo its not that hard on me wen he leaves??

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