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does he like me?
i met this AMAZING guy on myspace a month ago, from just randomly searching. yeah, i know it's not safe but he gave me his cell number after i messaged him. the next day we talked for like 4 hours on the phone! then we text on and on. every night he would call me. one night he told me he was starting to really like me, so i told him the same back. i felt confused because i didnt want to say i liked him because im scared of getting hurt again due to my last relationship a year ago. the next day, he told me he didnt like me more than a friend. i was upset, but i got over it. anyways, me and him met in person a week or two later and i knew right then and there he was so different :). we continued to talk and everything was great. i began to really like him but NOT in love with him lol. i went to his house one day, and we kissed. it was so different because it was a very different like they were alot of feelings between us. anyways, there has been alot of times when we would talk about sex and everything. hes not a virgin and i am. but he told me he would never force me or make me do anything i didn't want to do. it was hard for me to believe that because my ex boyfriend had forced me to have sex and broke up with me because he didnt get "any". the new guy though always say the most perfect things to me, he told me that my ex was jerk and its his loss. anyways, he CALLS ME ALOT, texts, and he always surprises me. anyways, he told me again he liked me alittle more than a friend a few days later. it made me really happy, and so then the next day he told me he didn't anymore. i really don't know why. i mean i DO NOT want a relationship just yet and he doesn't either. i mean i have never had a guy treat me so good like he does. were so much alike, and we've deff seen our differences. but i want to be more then friends in the future. my question is does it seem like he likes me? ive asked friends and family and they all believe he does but hes confused and maybe he just doesnt want to have a relationship so early. ive asked him why he keeps saying he likes me and doesnt and he just says "idk".
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Sounds to me like he's just after what he can get from you. He gains your confidence and trust by telling you he likes you and treating you so well, then he breaks it by telling you the opposite.
This is the problem with any type of relationship that starts on the internet. He can tell you anything he wants and you have no way of knowing otherwise. For all you know, he could be telling someone else the exact same thing.
But a guy like that? Well, I'd ask him to be honest about how he feels. If you have only met this guy the once then you're not really losing anything. It's just the same as meeting a guy in a bar, having a really good night with him, and never seeing him again.
I would definately say this guy is messing with your head and it certainly is working.
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It sounds like he does like you although the way he keeps changing his mind might mean he's confused as to wether he wants things between you two to go futher, if you've both decded you don't want a relationship then maybe it's not the right time but i think you should carry on talking to him and hanging out with him and just see what happens.
xShandzx
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May be he is like you. he just got over with a relationship and doesn't want to be in one right now but if he keeps telling you that then he will hold onto you so you won't go out with anyone else. it could be his way of keeping you away from others because he likes you. I think he likes you and he is just playing a game with you to have some fun. Just give it all some time and things might change. so if he asks you out then go for it. if you don't like it then just break it off nicely but have fun.
~sealgirl~
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