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hES MOViNG!
Well my boy friend of 2 months is moving back to chicago in 4 months. we had broken up for a couple of weeks but i really love him & were back togeather now. but i dont know if i should stay with him because i noe hes leaving & il probably never see him again. pls help me :( we r just soo in love with eachother & it happend soo fast. should i stay with him or leave em soo its not that hard on me wen he leaves??
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No matter whether you end things with him now or in 4 months time, it's going to be very tough on you. There is always the option of a long distance relationship but before you enter such a thing, you have to ask yourself if your relationship is strong enough for that? Have you known him long enough to enter it? Have you even been together long enough to contemplate it?
Fact of the matter is, if he's meant to be with you and you're meant to be with him, then it will be. If you're not meant to be together, then it won't last anyway.
But no one can answer any of this for you. It is a decision that must come from your heart. It is something you must talk about with your boyfriend to find out how he feels.
But look at it this way. If you break up with him now, you spend 4 months knowing he's in your town and you can't be with him. If you continued to be with him until he leaves, you get 4 months of what may turn out to be the best 4 months of your life. You don't know what you may miss out on if you end it now.
But ultimately, talk to him. Tell him how you feel, ask him how he feels and come to a decision together.
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This is tough for anyone to go through.I suggest talking to him a lot about it..About how things will be,if you trust each other enough and all of those types of things.Maybe the two of you will be best friends while he's moved away.Then far in the future you'll be back together.I'm sure if you two love each other that much,you'll work it all out fine:)
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What youve got to think about is if you continue to go out with him for the 4 months hes here then how hard is it going to be for you to get over him when it goes because youll probably end up just liking him more.
If you break up with him now ye it will probably be really bad for a bit but you cant put of the inevitable.
If you think you could make a long distance relationship work then go for it but you said you might never see him again?? how can u have a relationship with someone you dont see?
But if you keep on just putting it off its only going to worse and a lot harder when he goes.
Hope this helps
xxx
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Well, it would be harder to stick it out until he goes, but don't you think it would be even harder to see him around and not be with him while he's still there?
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