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hey would it be ok for you to give me ur s/n so we can talk about something?

If you have yahoo messenger then yes

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could a recommendation or essay ever make or braek a student when it comes to college apps? are there stories about this anywhere?

Google will answer this.

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does anyone know the last name of the girl who name was keisha and got kicked off and would always say hey girl hey?

you might wanna google it..it should show up somewhere.

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15/F

Ok...so i just started tanning two days ago. I started out (since it was my first time) with 5 minutes. Yesterday, the lady moved it up to 6 minutes. Today, the lady moved it up to 8 minutes and I got a pretty bad burn on my back and sides. and under my breasts. Its driving me crazy and hurts and everything but I have another tanning appointment for tomorrow because i have to get my base tan. If i tell my mom that I got burned, I know she wont let me go back ever again because it took me a year to convince her to let me go in the first place. I dont know what to do because I spent over a hundred bucks all together on the tanning package and lotions and everything and I really want to get a tan but I know i cant go back
there tomorrow and hop in the tanning bed with this burn because obviously it will only get worse. Does anyone have any advice?

Okay,when you're burned the way you are,give it a break!At least two days.Your burns will turn to tans..Flip over in the bed.If you're going for ten.Lay on your tummy for 5 then on your back for the other 5.You'll be fine

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I am 14/f and I am having a birthday party
Here is what I have planned so far:
--->3 girls including me, 4 boys
--->on a Saturday

-Meet at my house at 6:30
-And eat at this place me and my friends go all the time, so many memories happened there
-Then go to the haunted house
-Come back to my house, hang out, go outside on the golf course, rave (dance), snack, cake and presents, SILLY STRING WAR
-I NEED SOMETHING COOL HERE
-Watch movies and hang out, truth or dare, make fun music videos and stuff
-Go wrapping around 1ish or 2ish a.m.
-Boys go home, girls stay the night =P

It will be too cold to swim
I only want those people =P
And my boyfriend is one of them and we are all really close friends so like spin the bottle or 7 minutes in heaven would be awkward =P

But if you have ANY ideas to spice it up a little, you would be a life saver :D
Thank you soo much!
HELP!

You could still play spin the bottle and 7 minutes in heaven.Just kiss your bf no matter who it lands on!LOL and let all the single people kiss everyone else..

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so, my boyfriend& i are not having good sex. and it use to be good. not amazing. but good. and lately, like for the past 2 months it has been horrbile. fingering me use to feel good. and now it doesnt. and i dont know what happened. i recently got off the pill and i thought maybe that could affect my sex drive? is that possible?

YES.The pill does effect your sex drive..Because when you're on the pill,for some odd reason,it makes you more of a sexual being.It messes with your hormones..After being off of it for awhile,you should bounce back:)

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17/F, There is this boy that I've liked since 7th grade but nothing really happened. During junior year, he told me that he had feelings for me for a long time but he was scared to do something. After that, something horrible happened to his family and his best friend passed away at the same time. and he stopped talking to me and he was avoiding me. It just hurt so much that he wanted nothing to do with me and that he wasn't willing to be at least friends with me. I had my friend ask him why he was doing this and he said that he would rather not have a relationship then to hurt or upset me if he brought his anger out on me. since its now my senior year, I still have feelings for this guy and I have a hard time letting go because it seems like I still have hope that everything between us will be okay. I notice that sometimes he looks back at me whenever I pass him so I'm just confused. and thinking about everything that has happened makes me upset. How can I forget him and the past altogether?

He's going through a lot and he probably would take it out on you...So,be wise and let him chill.It'll all work out.

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me and my boyfriend had sex last night. we used 3 kinds of protection. the problem is is that his parents found out. they want ot talk to mine. but now they if they dont talk to my parents then they at least want to talk to me. but his stepdad is a real dick, and so he might tell. i dont know how my will react. me and my boyfriend have been going out for more then a year.

they know that we probably wil sooner or later
im just scared. and afraid/

what should i do?

I'm sure that both of your parents knew that it'd happen sooner or later..I mean,you're at that age,ya know?So,just take everything as it comes.It'll all blow over..Don't stess.

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im and SO stressed out
home life / love life / school
everything is just so out of control its making me physically sick

and this ughhh girl at school keeps on trying to start stuff with me. she thinks i spread some rumor i don't know but she won't stop talking about me, really hurtful stuff shes making up, and she is saying how she is going to beat me up and yell at me in the halls. her myspace is like devoted to hating me. she is rediculous really.

it's not that im afraid of her or anything, im just so mentally and physically tired! i tried telling her i didn't spread the stupid rumor but nobody listens they just like to get all caught up in the drama.

i don't know what to do, should i just ignore it because she just never stops! or should i fight back? talking reasonably with her or her friends does nothing.

it's a really small school so everybody just makes a huge deal out of it. how do i deal with this?

IGNORE EVERYONE.Be the bigger person..If they wanna talk,let them.Act like they're no one..Don't let her name come out of your mouth.Don't let it faze you.I've been where you are and I KNOW it sucks.

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15/f We recently bought a treadmill. I'm very small only 80lbs and I hate it. I want to get my butt bigger. Can a treadmill help with this? I also wanna gain weight so will running on it help to build muscle and make me look bigger and maybe weigh more? the treadmill can incline and decline. goes up to 10mph.

Yes,running will build your behinds muscles and your legs..You'll gain muscle weight.Have fun!

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I'm looking for a homecoming dress, but i don't want to get it at the mall or a big store. (i don't want to have the same dress as anyone else) does anyone know any small stores in the lexington, ky area? i don't want to get it online, because i'm afraid it might not fit, etc.

Google it.Put where you're from and then put "homecoming dress stores" and you'll get a number and location.Good luck.

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Hi, this might seem a little weird but i need some opinions about where a guy should have hair.I know they should have it on their head lol..but i mean like body hair..i just need to know where there should be hair and where there shouldnt be..(where a girl likes hair on a guy and where they dont)
thanks =]

Most girls don't like hairy men...anywhere.

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my boyfriend and I have had sex twice. I was a virgin when we met but he wasn't, so he's more experienced than me. When we have sex he always slips out and then goes back in and then slips out again and sofourth. We've tried him on top, me on top, and doggy style but I don't know how to do any of those well. Is there any ways I can become better at sex? b/c to be honest i have no idea what i'm doing really.

thanks

There really is no way to "become better" at sex.Just take it as it comes,and it'll all become natural to you..You two are obviously comfortable with each other.I mean,you're having sex.So,I'm sure he's patient.You'll be fine:)

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For the last couple days my back has been hurting really bad. It's in between my shoulder blades and doesnt really hurt until night. Like right now. I have tried stretching it but it isnt changing. I cant do anything to make it feel better and its really bugging me! Please Help!!! I will rate all your helpful advice! :D

Move your arm in complete circles slowlyy.Then put some icy hot or a heating patch on it..Try to just NOT sleep on that arm..

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ok...Im 15/f...freshman...
These past 2 days I have gone to haunted houses with my friends....one of them has a bro who I've liked since I first talked to him...which was this year....hes a sophmore..which doesnt bother me...one of my other friends likes him too....she was at the first haunted house that we went to and when she...or anybody else...would hold onto him he would yell get off of me...but when I held onto him he just like grabbed my arm and like held it....then at the second house..the one that likes him wasnt there...but again when his sister or the other girl we had with us held onto him he yelled but when I did he did nothing....we all got split up somehow and I was just walking with him and when I would get scared from someone being in my face..he would hold me at my waist and cover my face....on the hay ride there and back...he came and sat by me even though his friends were on the other side...with plenty of room....

does he like me....and what should I do about the whole friend likeing him thing??

HELP PLEASE!!!

It REALLY seems like he has a thing for you.I'd talk to him,ya know?See where things go..get to know each other.Don't worry about the friend liking him..Just go with the flow!

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16/f i've been really horny lateley, and i was thinking about masterbating last night. but when i tried to slip my finger into there. it hurt really bad. i never dont it before. any tips?
thanks

Don't do it if it hurts..Just rub around.

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Is there anything wrong with a 9th grade girl dating a 7th grade guy?

Not at all!Age doesn't matter,it's how the person acts..Maturity.

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Well my boy friend of 2 months is moving back to chicago in 4 months. we had broken up for a couple of weeks but i really love him & were back togeather now. but i dont know if i should stay with him because i noe hes leaving & il probably never see him again. pls help me :( we r just soo in love with eachother & it happend soo fast. should i stay with him or leave em soo its not that hard on me wen he leaves??

This is tough for anyone to go through.I suggest talking to him a lot about it..About how things will be,if you trust each other enough and all of those types of things.Maybe the two of you will be best friends while he's moved away.Then far in the future you'll be back together.I'm sure if you two love each other that much,you'll work it all out fine:)

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Well last year, a guy asked me out, and I said no because I was super nervous. I felt really bad since he tried to get me for like a month. Well, now I sort of regret it, and would totally go out with him if he asked again. I can't help thinking about it every time I see him, and what it would've been like if I had agreed to go out with him, but it seems like he's totally moved on. What should I do? I don't want to seem sappy or anything.

Flirt with him a little bit!Let him know you really are interested..If he asks you about why you said no,tell him that you really weren't ready.

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Does diet affect the amount of zits you have? Because it seems whenever I eat a lot of junk food I break out...=[

Yes,diet is the number one thing that effects your break outs.You should try eating very healthy foods.Think of the junk food as a treat.Like after dinner,instead of it being an after school snack,ya know?After washing your face,try not to touch it so much.Oils from your hands,get on your face and cause major break outs.Also,washing your pillow cases once every one or two weeks REALLY helps.If you don't,you're pretty much resting your face on oil every night.

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