Well last year, a guy asked me out, and I said no because I was super nervous. I felt really bad since he tried to get me for like a month. Well, now I sort of regret it, and would totally go out with him if he asked again. I can't help thinking about it every time I see him, and what it would've been like if I had agreed to go out with him, but it seems like he's totally moved on. What should I do? I don't want to seem sappy or anything.
orphans answered Monday October 15 2007, 9:49 pm: If you regret it, tell him the truth. Ask him! You will regret it even more if you didn't ask him. Just tell him, sorry I rejected you, but will you reject me? SOmething like that... [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
BABYASH answered Sunday October 14 2007, 8:33 pm: Flirt with him a little bit!Let him know you really are interested..If he asks you about why you said no,tell him that you really weren't ready. [ BABYASH's advice column | Ask BABYASH A Question ]
Buttacup answered Saturday October 13 2007, 11:35 pm: It might look like he's moved on, but you can't know for sure until you ask. Maybe apologize for saying no before, and tell him you'd love to go out. He'll be flattered. =D [ Buttacup's advice column | Ask Buttacup A Question ]
Brandi_S answered Saturday October 13 2007, 11:06 pm: Well, I don't think it would hurt to ask him if he is still interested.
Explain to him that you were just too nervous to accept when he asked.
Worst thing he can say is no, and you will be no worse off than you are now.
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