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I have never been made fun of in my entire life. I am pretty popular, and am I what I would consider very nice. Well, recently, this girl, Alyise, decided it would be funny if she sort of made fun of me. I am shocked and rather pissed, since this is the 1st time I have gotten like jabbed at. It's not like I want to be friends with her, but I would really like her to stop. I don't want to look bitchy, or super sensitive, which I am, but don't really show it all the time. I don't know why she would do this, since I have never really talked to her or anything. What should I do?
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Go up to her and talk to her about it
tell her to stop talking bout you even thou she doesnt even know
she has to know shes messing with the wronge girl.
be confident
hope i helped =]
IceIceM
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This sounds like pure jealousy,envy.You say you wouldn't really like to be friends with her...well maybe that's what is going to get her to cool her jets!:)Just try talking to her..Maybe she thinks you're a snob,or has the wrong impression of you.
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As shocking as this would sound to any of my friends in college and high school, I was bullied from 6th grade to 9th grade. I had a lot of friends growing up, and I guess you would say I was kinda popular, but there was this one girl who ALWAYS had something to say about me.
And believe me, I tried everything to make her stop, from cussing her out to even giving her a Christmas card. Nothing worked!
Like your situation, I never really talked to this girl either. But how I got her back was easy, plain and simple. I didn't do anything or say anything else to her. I stayed away from everything and everyone associated with her, and it worked! She eventually found another target, and it put my mind at ease.
More than likely, she is nothing but jealous of you. Jealous people are everywhere, even in college. And sometimes you just have to smile and feel sorry for them :)Keep your head high, and don't listen to a word she says
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Well generally there is always one person who is mean to you even if you don't do anything.
They are probably just jealous.
Don't let it get to you.
But if things do get worse,
kill with kindness =]
-parkeranne
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Welcome to the real world, kid. Some people are just assholes, usually for no reason other than making themselves feel better by cutting others down.
What do you do? Ignore her. Trust me, a veteran of having people make fun of me all the time as a kid. She wants you to give her the satisfaction of knowing she is getting under your skin. If she realizes that she can't get the better of you, she will soon grow bored and move on to some other poor soul.
Besides, why should you care what some asshole thinks of you? Is her opinion of you really THAT important? No.
ygs-29/f
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