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i don't know which?
hey, 15/f. sophomore in Highschool.
So, I really liked this guy named Josh. He had asked me out last year, I said yes, then changed my mind. I felt horrible, believe me. This year I began to like him again, and told him. He stares at me in lunch a lot, and tries to catch my eye, and then some days, he just doesn't. He's also been kind of a jerk lately. I don't talk to him often.
Then, there is Duston. He's cute, sweet, funny. I like him a lot now, but part of my heart is still hung up on Josh. Anyways, Duston and I don't talk often either, but when we do, he's SO nice. And I actually invited him to my Halloween party, he thinks he can go for sure. Perfect, right? Wrong. My very good friend Cassie likes him as well... but her and I both agreed that he will like who he likes and that's it. We don't want to 'compete' for a guy, but it's still a bit unsteady between us because I'm afraid they'll be together and I'll be upset, or I'll be with him and SHE'LL be upset.
So what guy should I go with? What should I do?
Thanks in advance and SO sorry its so long!
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Aww, I'd try for Duston. Sure, you might feel a little something for Josh, but if he's going to be mean about it, and not make the attempt to be good friends with you again, then so be it.
Sorry to say, but if you end up with Duston, Cassie will be a little upset, it's just human nature. But since you guys have spoken about it, I'm sure she'll be over it quickly. You can joke around like, "Well, Josh is all yours if you want him."
I 'onno, something cutesy like that. Enjoy your party, hope Duston can make it!
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Well, of course you don't want to compete with your friend, but you can't set your own happiness aside in this life for the sake of others.
Between the two guys, if Duston likes you, I would go for him over the other guy, simply because the other guy is being a jerk and he is not.
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It wasnt long, ive read longer :)
ANYWAY
Josh probably still likes you. Now i cant speak for him, but he asked you out, you went out, he stares at you, it sounds like he likes you. He might be a jerk because hes mad that you broke up with him. But i dont fully understand the male mind. haha
I think its really mature for you and your friend to not compete for this guy Duston. You cant decide which of you he likes, but you can sway his mind. Hang out with him at your party, but not so much that cassie gets mad at you. You can also wait for him to find you, after all, its YOUR party.
I think you should see what happens after your party. If duston acts like he likes you, then you can go for him. But, as corny as it sounds, you need to let your heart decide.
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