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crush on this guy who is well...not the cutest kid in school
Posted Sunday October 14 2007, 8:17 pm
okay. i'm going to get right to the point. i have a crush on this guy who is well...not the cutest kid in school, and anyway he asked me out, but i said no because i was afraid of what people would think. am i a horrible person?? what should i do??
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Why dont i have a boyfriend yet... ?
Posted Sunday October 14 2007, 7:43 pm
What is wrong with me?
I'm 16/F, I KNOW that I dont need one, but I want a boyfriend. And you can tell me that I'm young all you want, but honestly, what sixteen year old doesn't want a boyfriend or girlfriend?
I think I'm decent looking, maybe even cute (haha), I'm a really nice caring person, I dont even know, I dont really dont know how exactly to 'meet' guys and when to know if a relationship is actually "potential", what do I do? I need help!
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Feeling inferior in a two year relationship
Posted Sunday October 14 2007, 7:33 pm
I'm 18 and my girlfriend is 20.Yes,I'm a lesbian.We've been together for two yrs now..When we first met,she had just gotten out of a yr and one month relationship with another girl.They were always on and off,but I know that she was in love with her..They cheated on each other all the time.Well,me and my gf,we'll call her N have never broken up once,or cheated on each other.We both had bad reputations with relationships and girls.But we never let it ger in our way..She was my first,for EVERYTHING,physically and emotionally.Our love has been strong..But she still talks about her ex.About the good,or the bad.I want to erase her ex out of her mind!I feel so inferior to her.It's been over 2 yrs since they've been apart and it's been like over a...
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Overseas Affair
Posted Sunday October 14 2007, 7:28 pm
16/F
I'll warn you in advance this may be long, but interesting. If it wasn't happening to me that is...
I met this guy, Luke, on a penpals website. Well I didn't actually meet him...but you get what I mean. Anways I sent him a letter and then we started writing, he seemed like a really interesting person and he was. He's 19 and he lives in London and I live in New York.
A year later and we were still writing each other and we had gotten to know each other really well. When my family decided they wanted to go to London for Vacation (It was just the start of my first year at Yale)I told him that, and it turns out he lived close to the area we would be visiting.
When we got there I...
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i dont get it!!!!!!
Posted Sunday October 14 2007, 6:53 pm
ok so me and my bf broke up. after 3 months of dating!! it has been 2 weeks since the break upa dn i am still a reck
all my friends say that i am not as happy anymore and the i seem different! and i dont fell like myself eaither!!!!!
but the werid part is that...
when i went out with him last year and we broke up
i would go out with a differnet guy and after a week of dating i would all of a sudden stop liking him! then i would break up with them and think about my ex(ryan). and taht happen all though out the year!
adn the same with ryan 2!!!!
then when ryan ask me back outi said yes!! and we dated for 3 month. the best 3 month of my life all my friends said that i looked so much more happy i though...
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more than friends?
Posted Sunday October 14 2007, 5:18 pm
okay so theres this guy.
and he is really sweet, and ive grown to like him alot. but we dont really talk to each other, other than in the hall at school. but for some reason i like him. and im pretty sure he DOESNT like me, cuz we dont know each other that welll.
but he walked me to class on thursday, and he talks to me about really personal stuff.
so what should i do to see if he likes me....
besides ask him, its kinda to early for that.
like how do i drop hints and stuff?
what would you do in my situation?
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love?
Posted Sunday October 14 2007, 4:39 pm
how do you know if your TRULY in love?
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boyfriend loves fishies
Posted Sunday October 14 2007, 4:20 pm
14/f
going out with my boyfriend for a year now.. hes birthdays coming up in a month. he has like an aquarium full of fish.
i'm thinking somehow i could get him/make him a gift related to his love of fish? [[he doesn't eat them]]
But i'm pretty sure he doesn't need another fishie pet lol. Any ideas or opinons on what to buy him?
thankss for reading :)
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He likes me, I'm just overthinking right?
Posted Sunday October 14 2007, 2:39 pm
So me and my ex, *ian went out about 2 years ago freshman year for a little over a year, I changed schools and stuff, but we started "talking" again two months ago when he broke up with his gf and I broke up with my bf (we didnt plan on it to be like that, but it jsut happened), and we chill and stuff, and he hasnt been single for an extended period of time since, god, probably before we started dating, so yeah, I understand how he wants things to go a little slow and stuff, but the first time we chilled we at least kissed and stuff, and now after 2 months of talking we were about to have sex, but he said no I guess either because there was a lot of people there or becuase of his past relationships, so we didnt. When I got home, ...
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love..
Posted Sunday October 14 2007, 2:36 pm
okayi dont understand why people say.. theres no such thiing in the world as love at a younge age..
i mean feelings are feelings
i just want your opinions
on what you think of it
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ughh, more guy stuff
Posted Sunday October 14 2007, 1:17 pm
ok this is really long, so bless your soul if you read it all.
first off, im a 15, almost 16, year old sophomore.
and im in marching band, no im not a geek. well theres this cute little freshman kid that i talk to a lot now n band too, and when i talk to him he stares straight into my eyes and really listens to me. we have a lot in common and he's easy to talk to now.
youre probably thinking, whats the problem?
well i sort of like him, and i cant tell if he likes me. he used to act like it before i even talked to him.
thats not even the problem. see i have this best guy friend, hes a sophomore too. i used to like him my freshman year, but he went out with my best ...
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Too many guys
Posted Sunday October 14 2007, 11:20 am
Let me make 4 things clear:
1. I'm 15/f (10th grade, sophomore)
2. I'm not trying to sound arrogant or a whore.
3. I'm a really friendly and nice person. I'm nice to those whom I hate and I'm a big hugger, which, along with my friendliness, some people take as a sign of me liking them unfortunately.
4. I'm pretty much dealing with depression and not being accepted by my family right now. Have been since 4th grade. So I'm pretty much unable to have a boyfriend without treating him like shit.
Anyways, the problem that I have is that I have 7 boys liking me and I only like 2 of them back.
Boy 1 and I are really good friends. We both have the same best friends, who introduced us to ea...
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my ex and my new partner
Posted Sunday October 14 2007, 11:13 am
my ex and i split 12 months ago he is a 25 year old male im a 29 year old female,he was sent to prison for something he did before we got together,we were together for 5 years we have a daughter,basically he didnt treat me right,he lied wouldnt work and had no respect for me,things wernt all bad though,we were good together. we have been apart for 12 months,he was in jail for 6 and in this tme ive met someone else,hes a lovely man and i do love him we both feel the same about eachother,we have both been hurt in the past the thing is though the more i see my ex the more i want to try again,he has told me he wants to try again too...what do i do?? i need advice as i have no one to talk to. do i try again with the man i have shared 5 years wit...
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I like this guy...
Posted Sunday October 14 2007, 11:06 am
Alright so I know most of the questions on this website are about my topic, but I really like this guy, he's in one of my classes and we don't really talk that much but he's really funny and he makes me laugh, and he smiles at me when I'm laughing at him. The thing is, homecoming is next week and I really want him to ask me, I don't want to ask him because I just don't like asking guys, it's just my personality. So the thing is, how can I get him to ask me? I'm really shy around guys, I'm fine with talking to them and stuff as 'friends' but it's really hard for me to just approach them and be like "hey i like you" any advice? thanks so much.
14 (almost 15)/ f
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He wants me back again
Posted Sunday October 14 2007, 4:37 am
I was in a serious relationship with someone for over 2 years at least. We broke up off and on and all of the break-ups were his decision. And he keeps coming back! Each time he leaves it's for less than a month and he's back. Well, this time we went the whole summer apart and now he's back again for a friendship. I'm NOT ok with this, I got weak and started crying when he called me asking to be friends. Then, he started saying that he doesn't want to hurt me and that maybe if we manage as friends we could try again as a couple. I really cannot decide what to do.
I mean I'm in love with him, so obviously I want to be with him. But, I really don't like being his friend. We've been talking every night for 3 days and I'm just w...
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What do i get my bf for his birthday?
Posted Saturday October 13 2007, 10:11 pm
15/F
My boyfriend's birthday is next week
and i have no idea what to get him. He's not really into sports, well he does bmx. He's really into rock music, and he plays guitar. We haven't even been going out that long. I asked him what he wanted, but he just said "Oh you don't need to get me anything."
So does anyone have any suggestions?
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Why Did He Stop Talking To Me?
Posted Saturday October 13 2007, 9:27 pm
16/f - myself
18/m - the guy
Recently, I met a guy, and we saw eachother 6 times over the course of 5 weeks. Things were going great and on the 6th time we hung out, we watched a movie at his house. I thought it was good, and I was quite sure he was interested in me. Later that night he removed the "looking for" section of his facebook (A Relationship, Dating & Friendship).
The next day he was supposed to come over to my house, but he forgot he was supposed to have a guys party and watch a hockey game, so he broke off plans with me. I tried to be understanding, so everything went okay.
After that point he has not been talking to me. We briefly talked over MSN but he seemed un...
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big love
Posted Saturday October 13 2007, 7:34 pm
Well last year, a guy asked me out, and I said no because I was super nervous. I felt really bad since he tried to get me for like a month. Well, now I sort of regret it, and would totally go out with him if he asked again. I can't help thinking about it every time I see him, and what it would've been like if I had agreed to go out with him, but it seems like he's totally moved on. What should I do? I don't want to seem sappy or anything.
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now what?
Posted Saturday October 13 2007, 7:13 pm
15/f
Another fabulous love story. (Note the sarcasm)
I apologize in advance for the length, and thanks for reading.
Okay so i have known my friend Anna for maybe 4 years. We got really close the last 2, because we only saw each other once a week at dance classes. I recently moved, and now we go to the same school. PRIOR to me moving, I would go up to her school for different events (talent shows...plays, etc.) So i got to know all of her friends (who are now my friends, seeing as we all go to the same school.) and her boyfriend, jake. As soon as i saw him, i fell in love, okay not really in love, that takes time. But he was really sweet and funny and hes so cute. ANYWAY. The first time me and jake had met was about a y...
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I resent my boyfriend for something he did before we even me
Posted Saturday October 13 2007, 6:36 pm
Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now and he's very good to me. The only problem is...a little while before we met he hooked up with this girl that I really dislike. They had a friends with benefits arrangement going on for a while and worked together, but fortunately no longer speak. One of the first times I hung out with him before we started dating they were cuddling, and I think this may have impacted my impression of him. She was still calling even after we started dating. She's gone now, but I can't stop thinking about the things they did together and it disgusts me because I'm very morally opposed to that kind of thing. I really want to just put it behind me and move on but it seems I can't, any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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