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i dont get it!!!!!!
ok so me and my bf broke up. after 3 months of dating!! it has been 2 weeks since the break upa dn i am still a reck
all my friends say that i am not as happy anymore and the i seem different! and i dont fell like myself eaither!!!!!
but the werid part is that...
when i went out with him last year and we broke up
i would go out with a differnet guy and after a week of dating i would all of a sudden stop liking him! then i would break up with them and think about my ex(ryan). and taht happen all though out the year!
adn the same with ryan 2!!!!
then when ryan ask me back outi said yes!! and we dated for 3 month. the best 3 month of my life all my friends said that i looked so much more happy i thought it was great then he broke up with me!!
but it has been like 2 weeks and i am still not over him
i tried going out with a different guy but all i did was think about him and the same pattern happen again(date them for a week then all of a sudden stop liking them and break up and think about ryan!)
and now he has a new gf and the same pattern is happening to him to!!
adn also the werid thing is every where i go i see him
one night i needed some advil so me adn my mom went up to walgreens to get some at 11 30 at night and he was there!!!!!!!!!! and there was a walgreens closer to where he lives then the one i went to!!
and it is like everywhere i go i see him!!
it is crazy!
can u plz help tell me what all this means!!!!!!!!!
thanks a bunch,
softballbabe2610
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First of all, calm down. You like Ryan. Ryan has a girlfriend...I'm not sure exactly what you are asking. There is absolutely nothing you can do in this situation except wait and see what happens.
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Here's the thing, it seems like the two of you clearly do have some feelings for each other that have never went away. Even through the breakups. The problem is it seems that your relationship is almost toxic once you two are dating, because you always end up breaking up.
I'm not sure about him, but I think for you -- your problem is that you've never actually gotten over him at all. Like, when you've went out with these other guys and you say you've stopped liking him. I don't really think you have, I think you just didn't have your mind focused on him. So I really think that the relationship does have potential to work, however, I'm not sure that it's worth it if you've been down this road before. And he does have a girlfriend now, so there isn't really much you can do.
Try doing some other things that do not involve guys, and things that make you really happy with your friends. Maybe, that'll cheer you up. I'm sorry if I'm not too much help here, but this is just one of those tough situations where you either continue the pattern or you deal with it the hard way and eventually get over it, or RARELY the relationship does work out.
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