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ughh, more guy stuff
ok this is really long, so bless your soul if you read it all.
first off, im a 15, almost 16, year old sophomore.
and im in marching band, no im not a geek. well theres this cute little freshman kid that i talk to a lot now n band too, and when i talk to him he stares straight into my eyes and really listens to me. we have a lot in common and he's easy to talk to now.
youre probably thinking, whats the problem?
well i sort of like him, and i cant tell if he likes me. he used to act like it before i even talked to him.
thats not even the problem. see i have this best guy friend, hes a sophomore too. i used to like him my freshman year, but he went out with my best friend. they broke up, they werent friends for a while, but me and him became really close. they became friends again and it was all good. then he liked another one of my friends, they liked each other, but it just didnt work out.
so now all of a sudden he apparently likes me. im not making it up, he told one of my best friends, and wanted her to tell me. and all of a sudden hes telling me im cute and pretty. i mean im happy, hes really cute and hes really funny and nice. theres always a but though.
butttt, im really afraid to do anything. ive never been in a relationship. i know thats pathetic because im a sophomore, and ive never had my first kiss yet. i flirt with a lot of guys and they probably think im experienced, but im honestly not. and my best guy friend knows that too, and hes not too experienced either.
im really afraid to do anything with my best guy friend because
1. i dont wanna break up and lose him as a friend.
2. i dont wanna go out with him, have my freshman see us, and think i dont like him and that i never did.
im just really afraid because i dont wanna blow it with this freshman kid because hes really cute, and my best guy friend has always been there.
theres another thing, the freshman lives near me, and my best guy friend doesnt. so i think it would just be more fun, you know?
i just dont get how all these guys suddenly like me? im not that pretty, and i havent had any experience. but im ready too, and i really want too. my best guy friend hasnt had much experience, and i doubt this freshman kid has either.
i just dont know, my friends arent any help. ive listed the pros and cons, and it doesnt even help. all of my friends are on different sides of the fence. it helps if someone i dont know and doesnt know the people help me.
someone pleaseee help meeee :]
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What I say is stick with your friendship with your guy friend,go for the freshman since he lives near,he's sweet,all,that way you don't lose your friendship with your buddy,you don't lose your chance with this kid you like a lot.Talk to your guy friend about why you just prefer to be friends with him,nothing more only if he brings it up.
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