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crush on this guy who is well...not the cutest kid in school
okay. i'm going to get right to the point. i have a crush on this guy who is well...not the cutest kid in school, and anyway he asked me out, but i said no because i was afraid of what people would think. am i a horrible person?? what should i do??
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You should do what makes you happy, and not care about what others think. As long as you are happy, nothing else should matter.
So what if he isn't the "cutest" boy in school. He's probably a super nice kid, and a real great person.
Go talk to this boy, and tell him he caught you off guard, and you said no out of impulse, rather than give yourself time to think it over. Let him know you didn't think about it until after you said no, but now you've thought about it and would like to give things a try :)
-Laura. (15-f)
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Ok. . .well umm this isnt easy to say and i dont want to seem mean or anything but that does make you a bad person because if one truelly likes (or loves) another then looks or what other people think or say or do is not a factor that should effect the relationship in anyway other than better it by him knowing you care enough about him to ignore others opions i wouldnt reccomend dating him if letting others opinions about who u like get to u because that would only end in disaster for you both. . .but because of that reason i dont think you like him as you say you do
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if your happy with him, who cares what other people think, your happy. its about how you feel, not how other people feel. and im sure they wouldnt care all too much about how your boyfriend looks.
yes, i would have to say if you do have an interest in him, and dont pursue it only because of what other people might say i do think you are a horrible person.
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Why in the hell are you more concerned about what other people think than what you want?
Who cares what they think. If they don't like it then they can go piss up a rope. Do what makes YOU happy, not the rest of the world.
ygs-29/f
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