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He likes me, I'm just overthinking right?
So me and my ex, *ian went out about 2 years ago freshman year for a little over a year, I changed schools and stuff, but we started "talking" again two months ago when he broke up with his gf and I broke up with my bf (we didnt plan on it to be like that, but it jsut happened), and we chill and stuff, and he hasnt been single for an extended period of time since, god, probably before we started dating, so yeah, I understand how he wants things to go a little slow and stuff, but the first time we chilled we at least kissed and stuff, and now after 2 months of talking we were about to have sex, but he said no I guess either because there was a lot of people there or becuase of his past relationships, so we didnt. When I got home, I asked him if he still liked me and stuff, and he said yeah, dont even worry about it, and his best friend said yeah he just wants to soak up single life for a little bit and "when the time comes it comes"--whatever that means, but I'm not on his top people on myspace anymore, and I used to be, and I just don't know.. (which isnt a big deal i swear) so yeah, i'm just freaking out right, and he does like me right? Because yesterday he wouldn't have asked me to chill and stuff right?
ugh i dont know.
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Ok. . . .well i think he is confused dont get me wrong he likes you. . . .well more than just likes you but he takes things slow so he can be SURE that you are "the one" hes just confusd on wether u are or arnt the one so he does still like you
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You should read your letter again now that you might be feeling less 'involved'. You are re-aquainting yourselves with each other again. But it sounds like he likes you- he doesn't sound like the kind of guy who'd kiss you and all, just because. So, yeah, if he said he likes you, and it seems like he needs some space, be a buddy, and give him time.
You broke up, so you aren't on his top people. I bet you have already told yourself all this too. So listen to yourself. Don't let the what-if's and maybe's spoil a budding relationship.
Good luck!
Durga
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