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SEX (or lack thereof)...


Posted Wednesday November 14 2007, 3:09 am

...probably going to be pretty long...

I am 23, Female, almost nearing my mid-20s. I had sex only once, with the wrong person (unfortunately), when I was 19. A lot has changed since then. I have dated a couple of guys, but it has never gotten to the point where I even considered sleeping with them, or even doing anything sexual, as in below the belt (I had nothing against them feeling me up or sucking on my breasts). I haven't been in a long term relationship; it's never gotten to a point with a guy where I am comfortable enough to have sex. I feel like your typical guy, always thinking about sex, as in almost every night. I masturbate every now and then, I'd say a 2-4 times a week. I don't know. I have no trouble attracting ...

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Ex's best friend pressuring him..please help :(


Posted Wednesday November 14 2007, 2:36 am

hiii
well i have liked this boy for about 6-7 months or more. i went out with him for 5 months and we broke up about 3 weeks ago. i still love him and i have never loved anyone as much as him. everyone can even tell.
i cheated on him at the very start that we went out and then i realised how much i love him and i regretted it; and he forgave me. but the whole time we were going out he would ditch me and he also lied to me about smoking (i didnt like smokers at the time) and he lied about not smoking. I forgave him for everythingg he did. then he did cheat on me, but he was drunk and the girl did stuff to him; it wasnt him at all .. so i forgave him..again..then we broke up because he kept flirting with these girls and it just...

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15/f


Posted Wednesday November 14 2007, 2:24 am

I'm fifteen and my boyfriend is fourteen.


we have been together for about eight monthes is that a long time?

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help?


Posted Wednesday November 14 2007, 2:23 am

(1) my boyfriend and i threw a party and he madeout with two gay guys and got a huge hicky from one. so i kissed (a little more than a peck) a gay guy to show my boyfriend how it hurts. So did i cheat or did he cheat?





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Will this totally mess things up?


Posted Tuesday November 13 2007, 9:39 pm

Okay so I had this boyfriend, Adam. He cheated on me. I'm really angry at him, but I'm going to forgive him eventually; it's just going to take time. Now there's this really nice guy I just hung out with recently, Ryan, who I kind of like, and I'm not really sure if he likes me. But, one of my best friends likes Ryan, too. Now, I'm not sure what to do. Adam is aware I like Ryan, my friend knows I like Ryan, but Ryan doesn't know I like him. Part of me thinks that I shouldn't even be be trusting Adam; what he did was so stupid and hypocritical and just really hurt. But I don't even know if Ryan likes me, and my other friend really likes him, so maybe this whole thing with Ryan will just mess up my possible second chance with Adam AND my frie...

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does he like me?


Posted Tuesday November 13 2007, 9:15 pm

ok so id seen this guy around school and we kind of knew each other just through other people. so i sent him a request on facebook. but rite wen he added me, he sent me a message that just said, wassup. so i messaged him back, and basically our conversation lasted for 2 days, because we both got on and off in between. we werent really talking about anything special, but it was definitely flirting and i was starting to like him. we exchanged numbers and then we started texting A LOT. and at school after our conversation, he would give me hugs and like to always get hugged up with me, but i dont know why. and this was at the beginning of the week and now he doesn't do much. then on facebook he just changed his status to, "will u be min...

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Guy Help!


Posted Tuesday November 13 2007, 8:04 pm

there is this guy and i think that he is hot and people told me that he thinks i am too so he started to text me...i have never really talked to him but some of my friends are friends with him and everyone says that he is really nice. i think we are gunna start to hang out but i have never made out with anyone and i dont want it to be weird. i want to act like myself but i think its gunna be weird beacuse we have never really talked. how can i act like myself? and what is gunna happen if he wants to kiss..im not gunna know what to do! im not sure if he even likes sme but i think that he does?

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OMG


Posted Tuesday November 13 2007, 7:56 pm

My bgf can't date until his next bday (in may he will be 16) but he and i like each other. he hug and have held hand a couple times and kissed once. the thing is we havent talked for like a week and a half partially cause i lost my cell and he txted me and called but i didnt know but yesterday he called my home but i wasnt home and then he didnt answer anyway today we talked a bit and he came to pick up a paper he need for bio i had copied for him cause he forgot it and he came inside and we talked for a couple min. cause its my bday on sunday and i was like lets do sumthing and he said ok and then wanted to know what i want cause he asked me a month ago or so but i wouldnt tell him. i said sumthing that shows you care i think. anyway we hu...

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drugs


Posted Tuesday November 13 2007, 7:45 pm

okay so this guy who i like likes me back. his name is billy. he is this really hot guy who is like emo but he doesn't cut himself or anything. okay so today at school his best friend came to school totally stoned and the teachers noticed and he got taken to juvey. i talked to him about it on the bus today and he explained to me what had happened and everything, and then i asked him if he did drugs. he said no that he would never do that. im not really sure if i should believe him or not because it was his best friend and all of his other friends do it. im not sure if i should believe him or not. i really dont want to go out with someone who does drugs, but how do i no if he does them or not? anything will help!

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What makes her think...


Posted Tuesday November 13 2007, 5:52 pm

16/m

My girlfriend always thinks I'm lying to her. For the smallest things. And I don't have a history of lying, so I don't know why she thinks so.

I'll say something like, "Today I went to the store and got skittles..." and she'll be all "stop lying to try to get attention." I don't know why she thinks I lie. I don't make a big deal of it though cause I don't want her to get mad.

Any help here?

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I dont know if I should like him...


Posted Tuesday November 13 2007, 4:47 pm

Ok so there is this boy lets say bob, and i for some reason feel really attached to this kid but i dont know him that well ive only known him for maybe 4 months, and he's all i can think about, and i dont even feel like i like him as if its involentary and ive tried to like other people but he always comes right back up, hes my brother's friend and if i got together with bob my brother would be pissed. i know that doesnt matter but my brothers approvel matters to me a lot. anyway bob is an ok kid, i guess, he flirts with me sometimes, well i think? I get confused on how you can tell if someone is flirting with you haha. anyway any advice hear? what shold i do? do i really like him? am i tricking myself? what? HELP! thanks :]

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Okay, so there is this girl...


Posted Tuesday November 13 2007, 4:31 pm

There is this girl at my school and she is amazing. She is always happy, extremely nice...and i swear she is friends with everyone! I'm really falling head over heels for this girl. I've noticed she acts a bit different around me now a days...and I was wondering...did i do something wrong? She always looks at the floor and has trouble keeping eye contact with me. Plus, she giggles a lot? Is she laughing at me..something I do? Anyway, it would help if I knew what these meant. A few weeks ago i started a secert admirer thingy. I've sent her flowers and wrote her short little love letter/poem things. Any chance she found out or something. Should I stop with the whole 'secert admirer'...do girls think that's lame? Well, anyways, I'm planning on...

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love life mess


Posted Tuesday November 13 2007, 4:24 pm

15/f

I really like this guy, now before you think "oh its another guy problem", please hear me out because I have no clue what to do.

So I really like this guy, I've liked him for about a month and i'm a really really shy person. Like i have no guy friends and if i do talk to guys, its like a "hey whats up?" but nothing like best buddies. So he's in a class of mine and I just can't stop thinking about him. Somedays I have dreams about him, or i'll just zone out in class while thinking about him. And sometimes i'll look at him, and when my friends talk about him , I blush. Well today in school I found out that he is going out with this other girl. They both play basketball... and I'm just so ...

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My girl freind acts like im not alive!


Posted Tuesday November 13 2007, 3:19 pm

Ok me and my GF have been going out since halloween, we were talking for like a month and half before that and I love her so much. She said that she doesnt like public display of affection. But here is the thing she hugs everone of her freinds guy or not right before class, and barley ever hugs me:S, im confuesed here cause isnt that there hugging somone affection? But sometimes i feel like she doesnt even know im alive help me??? Oh and the othere day at my house she offerd me a hand-job but how can she show her afferction for me by giving me a handjob but she cant even give me a hug?

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makeout


Posted Tuesday November 13 2007, 3:01 pm

How do you makeout with someone? Like what are the little details that you should do?

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boyfriend never wants to get married


Posted Tuesday November 13 2007, 12:40 pm

Hi, I'm 19 years and I have been with my boyfriend for close to a year now. We love each other very much but we disagree on the idea of marriage. He thinks its just a security blanket for many people and being with one person forever and having kids (without the legal bond) could be just as fulfilling. But for me, it is a bond that causes two people to work hard for the relationship, it is respected and all kids want their parents to be married. Is it smart to sustain a relationship where 2 people disagree on something so important? I know were stil young but a few years down the line if someone doesn't change their mind, it would be that much harder to let go. I'm very confused about this. I don't want to be someone's girlfriend forever but I don't want to break up! Please help

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pupils dilating?


Posted Tuesday November 13 2007, 12:22 am

If a guy likes a girl, why do their pupils dilate? Is it just a nervous reaction?

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i need a guys and a girls point of veiw!!!!! HELP!!!!


Posted Monday November 12 2007, 11:42 pm

ok srry if its long... ok so i like my best guy friend and he is seriously my best guy friend...he tells me stuff that he doesnt tell his friends..and he used 2 go out with my best friend but she broke up with up with him. .and i just found out a couple months ago that i have feelings 4 him and like i asked him if he wanted 2 go with me and a couple friends and he said that that would be cool and i said cool and my soon to-be uncle asked him on aim if i asked him out what would he say and he said he would probably say no because were just really really good friends but he said yes when i asked him 2 the movies even though i no its not a real date or anything...anyways later that nite on aim my soon 2 be uncle asked him if he thought i was p...

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ex boyfriends cousin.


Posted Monday November 12 2007, 10:59 pm

15.f
I need everyones opinion on this topic please.

would you go out with your ex boyfriends cousin? Or do you think it wouldn't be right? ....

Boys what would you do if your ex went out with your cousin?

Girls would you go out with your ex boyfriends cousin?

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boyfriends 16th birthday


Posted Monday November 12 2007, 10:54 pm

i'm fifteen, and my boyfriend turns sixteen in december. a month and 2 days actually.
i'm not exactly sure what to get him, and if i do
get him something.. should i get him something for his birthday and christmas? or like.. really nice thing for both..

helpp :]

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