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Question Posted Tuesday November 13 2007, 7:45 pm

okay so this guy who i like likes me back. his name is billy. he is this really hot guy who is like emo but he doesn't cut himself or anything. okay so today at school his best friend came to school totally stoned and the teachers noticed and he got taken to juvey. i talked to him about it on the bus today and he explained to me what had happened and everything, and then i asked him if he did drugs. he said no that he would never do that. im not really sure if i should believe him or not because it was his best friend and all of his other friends do it. im not sure if i should believe him or not. i really dont want to go out with someone who does drugs, but how do i no if he does them or not? anything will help!

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sealgirl07 answered Wednesday November 14 2007, 6:47 pm:
You might as well just go out with him...and trust him,..i mean that is what friends do...is trust eachother. Just go out with him and if you find out that he is lieing to you then tell him that you don't wnat to be with someone who does that. Just test it out. I mean you will never know because he already gave you his answer nad you should jsut be able to trust him for that. Many people have friends that do drugs but it doesn't nessesarly mean he does it. Maybe he is teh good guy in the croud to keep everyone in control and make sure his friends are ok, you never know. So just give it a shot and if it doesn't work out then just dump him. It is all apart of experiences and thisis one of them. So good luck and i hope he isn't what you think he is.
~sealgirl~

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missbananafontana answered Wednesday November 14 2007, 6:45 pm:
You can't judge a person on what they're friends are. You can express your concern on what his friends act like, and that you hope that he can help them get clean. If he refuses, you will now have reasonable doubt that he isn't dirty, and you can try to find something out from people who know him better than you do. I think you really like him, and if he is dirty, you should try to help him as much as you can to get clean, even if you "don't want to go out with someone who does drugs." This isn't unreasonable, I don't either, but you should still care and try to get people on the clean side of humanity. Good luck!

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