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My girl freind acts like im not alive!
Ok me and my GF have been going out since halloween, we were talking for like a month and half before that and I love her so much. She said that she doesnt like public display of affection. But here is the thing she hugs everone of her freinds guy or not right before class, and barley ever hugs me:S, im confuesed here cause isnt that there hugging somone affection? But sometimes i feel like she doesnt even know im alive help me??? Oh and the othere day at my house she offerd me a hand-job but how can she show her afferction for me by giving me a handjob but she cant even give me a hug?
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I'll have to agree with dumping her, IF she doesn't change any time soon. It just doesn't seem like she's treating you right. Try talking to her about the affection thing. "You hug other guys, but not me". And if she goes on about how she doesn't like PDA, then ask her why she shows affection to other guys.
My guy friend was with a girl like that. She loved the attention from other guys and flirted with them. So he dumped her over that. Her next relationship, she avoided the new guy a lot and flirted with other guys. She was trying to hint off that she didn't like him anymore and wanted him to break up with her.
You have to know where you stand with her. To me, it doesn't seem like an actual relationship. Only that you are standing on the side while she's having fun with another guy. If he makes her laugh and it's not right for you to make her, then something's wrong with that. Somewhere in your relationship, your significant other will become good friends with somebody, usually the opposite sex. So it gets rough sometimes because that person may like them OR they LOOK like close friends. Which is bad if she's acting like a girlfriend to Justin and not to you. Since she gets mad about that, it's just speaking for itself.
So have a talk with her and hear her response. You judge what she's say. You decide what is right to do, whatever that will make YOU happy. Or you could just wait a week or two and see how things go.
It's really hard to deal with it if you don't speak it. Most people don't realize what they are doing. I really want to know why she doesn't hug you though. I hope she comes up with a valid reason. Otherwise it just looks like she's making her relationship a secret or that she really doesn't like PDA with a boyfriend? It just seems a bit wrong there. I always took hugging other guys as flirting especially if they didn't hug you and YOU'RE dating them.
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Dump her. She OBViOUSLY isn't worth it. One of my friends had this guy that she liked/loved but she stopped. She didn't want to dump him so she tried to get him to dump her by flirting with the other guys and stuff. Girls do that; we're bitches, sorry!
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Lola.
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