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help?
(1) my boyfriend and i threw a party and he madeout with two gay guys and got a huge hicky from one. so i kissed (a little more than a peck) a gay guy to show my boyfriend how it hurts. So did i cheat or did he cheat?
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Think about it: if he had kissed girls the same way, there'd be no question about cheating. He kissed someone who would find him sexually attractive. You kissed someone who would not find you attractive (ostensibly; attraction can be a slippery thing.) I wouldn't call what you did 'cheating' per se, any more than kissing your best female friend would be.
I think you and your boyfriend need to have a talk. Get everything out on the table. He may be closeted, and if he's messing around on the side with other guys, you need to know about it.
Hope this helps.
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Break up; you're both stupid.
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um.....how do you say.......DAMN!
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I have to say, this is one thing I have never heard of in my life - pretty crazy situation. But you both cheated because you both kissed other people, so you're both to blame.
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You both did. I'm sorry, but this doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. He was wrong to kiss two other people, but the way you handled it was wrong as well. You need to communicate about this. You should tell him how it made you feel, rather than get revenge. He may not have known that you saw what he did as wrong. Different relationships have different rules, depending on the people involved, and in some relationships, what he did would be considered okay. But if you don't think it is, you should talk it out with him before it happens again and you just end up hurting each other.
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As wierd as this question is, you both cheated. I don't think revenge was the best solution, since two wrongs don't make a right. But you both should know better, thats just silly.
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People see cheating as different things. Personally, I think making out and going further is cheating. So in my eyes, you both cheated - even if you did it for revenge (which I feel is a poor excuse).
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