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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave itI'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=
Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.
I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.
I do not like when people have issues with typing.
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okay so like sorry if this is the wrong catagory
but im a teen girl and it itches really bad around my vag lately just around it
and im not sexually active and i am so not ready to shave down there
but i dont think i have an infection and i will not at all go for a check up
what will help it
Try to use vagisil wipes, if it doesn't get any better you have to go to the doctor because it can become very serious. It more than likely could be a yeast infection, but the only way to determine that is if you have a doctor check it out.
what specifically is considered in the group of oral sex?
Oral sex is any sex act done with the mouth. IE: blow jobs, eating out, etc.
Making out would not be considered a sexual act.
So at camp this past week this guy was like asking all these girls to be his gf and to give him blow jobs and stuff, and he kept on saying that he wanted to be alone w/ me, and whenever we were he'd be like "oo i think ur so hot let's get freaky!" then i'd be like "ok let's do it!" adn he'd be like "haha ur stupid." like he would get my hopes up and then just yank away the opportunity. What kind of a mental problem does this sound like to you? (meaning him)
it made me feel even worse about myself. I'm crying as i write this. I can't seem to get over this, it's like i'm taking it personally like he didn't want me just because of my appearance or w/e even though he already said i was hot.
:(
help.
Judging alone by this question, I'm assuming you are no older than 14-15.
He's a boy. Boys say stupid things. He's horny and has PROBABLY never had a serious girlfriend and a girl has probably never touched his penis. And when you say okay let's do it, either A: he thinks YOU'RE joking, B: He was joking the entire time, or C: He got nervous.
And there is no mental problem. It's called HORMONES.
I don't know why you're crying because a guy said you were stupid when you said you'd "Get freaky" with him. You're young, he's stupid, I'm sure you are too ((no offence young teenagers generally are, I was too so don't take it personally)).
Believe me, you'll have your opportunity to get a guy and have a boyfriend and do all those stupid sexual things that kids do. It has nothing to do with your appearance. Believe me.
my boyfriend has fingered me a few times, and every time he's washed his hands immediately before. also he told me that he hadnt masturbated since the previous day too (every time.) and he hasn't touched himself at all while he's fingering me. but my period is a week late.
i'm just thinking its stress, because i was stressed about it being late in the first place, but please reassure me that i can't be pregnant.
thanks
No sperm. No fertilization. No baby. You're stressed.
Your not pregnant.
Would aloe vera gel work as a lube in the case of giving a hand job? I dont really want to be carrying lube around in my purse.
Just use hand lotion.
how can i get the 'abortion pill'. and do i need a parent with me and do they have to know. because i wanna keep this a secret. && how do they work ?
It's called The morning after pill or Plan B.
You can go to Planned Parenthood and No, your parents do not have to know, and no you do not need one with you. And I will warn you, it can be expensive.
What it does is it slows down the fertilization process so that you can get your period.
I will also warn you, they do not always work.
Best of luck.
i was jsut wonderin how affective the withdrawl method during sex is, becuase my bf and I used it the other day and i saw him ejaculate outside of me completely, but hte precum is what i am worried about. Do you think I should get Plan B today?
Not going to lie to you, I really don't know which way to answer this.
I'm sure for many many couples it is a very effective method. But, precum DOES contain sperm. And even the smallest amount of it can get you pregnant. While the chances are much slimmer, it is still a possibility, no matter how protected you are it is ALWAYS a possibility.
I do think that you SHOULD be okay. But, if you truely are that scared you should get the morning after pill. Stressing out about this however, is NOT going to make it better. Stress can cause your period to be delayed. And a delayed period is not what anyone needs.
I personally have done it that way before and I have been fine each time. But that's ME. Not you.
The choice truely is up to you. Sorry I couldn't help out better.
Hi i'm a 14 year old female and i have never had my period before and i was always told taht you can NEVER get pregnant. So how can atht happen.
And also when you have sex for the first time and you have NEVER had your period like me won't it hurt. Like my mom told me taht you can't hav sex because you don't have the natural lubracante so if you do have sex it will rip your insides and you can't have kids or it would hurt really really bad.
There is some sort of "window of opportunity" for girls who haven't gotten their periods to get pregnant. Did you hear about the 9 year old girl in Mexico that was raped and was pregnant? Yeah, she didn't have her period.
And you can have sex if you haven't had your period yet. You still do make a natural lubricant, just not as much as you would if you were at age of menstruation.
For alot of girls sex will hurt the first time, if girls have "messed around" before they may have already stretched their vagina enough for a penis to go in easier. If you haven't, then you would be tighter and it would hurt more to go in. But it doesn't rip your insides!
Is bi curious another word for homosexual?
I mean can a man like dick and still be straight?
I personally believe it's for people who are just afraid to admit they are gay in the first place.
Bi curious is experimenting with both sexes. Bisexual is when a woman likes both boys and girls, and when a guy likes both boys and girls. Homo means same. So if you are a homosexual you like the same sex as your own.
If a man likes other men, then he is gay. But, if he also likes women then he could be considered bisexual.
If a guy or girl just wants to experiment with the other sex because they are "curious" then they would be bi curious.
And what you personally believe is not what a bisexual person believes. There is such thing as bisexuality. If a man or woman says that she is bisexual, why not go all the way and straight out say you're a lesbian or gay? Do you see what I"m saying? I have plenty of bisexual friends and my best friend is gay. My cousin is a lesbian.
I can understand why you'd believe that, but that's really not what goes on in their minds.
what do you say about making out and fooling around with a guy friend? is it ok? nothing wrong with it...i'm not too sure, it's hard to explain, but you don't have to be in love to make out with a guy or anything, do you?
Why would you have to be in love with someone to make out with them? If that would be considered a whoreish thing to do, then consider me the biggest whore in the world!
It's fine to make out with someone who isn't your boyfriend. I think just about every guy I've ever kissed I wasn't "in love with" or was dating.
As long as you're not going around and having sex with every one of your guy friends then really, who cares?
I am a 14 year old female and i havent gotten my period yet but i want to have sex. My question is can i have sex even though i havent had my period yet. and if i can have sex is there any chance of me getting pregnate??
To answer your question, you can still get pregnant even if you don't have your period. There is some weird "window of opportunity" to get pregnant. And obviously you can have sex if you haven't gotten your period yet. You can have sex at any age. 5 year old girls can have sex. If there is a vagina and a penis and there is penetration, then there is sex.
But if you can't even spell PREGNANT then you shouldn't be having sex.
I'm 17/f
Ok, this is kinda gross... but for the past two days I've been having this weird, brown discharge. It wasn't much at first but last night I put on a pad and it almost looks like I'm having my period. And that's what I thought at first - it kind of looked like the brown, not-quite-bloody discharge I get RIGHT before my period starts (like, within an hour or two). But so far, I haven't started my period and I'm still getting this brown discharge.
I don't have any other symtoms. It doesn't hurt or itch or burn or anything like that. I looked all over the place (including webmd) but couldn't find anything that matched my symptom.
So does anyone know what it could be? This has never happened to me and I don't know what's going on. Could it possibly be my period? Is it related to sexual contact? I'm a virgin, but last week my boyfriend and I did a lot of sexual stuff I've never done before, so could something like that have caused it?
I know I should go to a gynocologist but I'm way scared and I just wanted to ask here before I do that, just in case someone knows something about it and it's not serious.
Thanks in advance!
It's not anything bad. It's perfectly normal, it happens out of nowhere for alot of girls. It could have been from the things that you and your boyfriend did but really, it's nothing to be worried about. It's called 'spotting' or breakthrough bleeding.
If it continues to happen whenever you get your period, it might be a good idea to see the gynocologist. And that, you shouldn't be scared about either. You'd be more comfortable with a female doctor since it's your first time going. Your doctor can probably suggest a birth control pill or patch you can go on that can prevent this, however with some birth controls, this breakthrough bleeding is also a side affect.
As long as your boyfriend and you didn't have sex, you should be fine.
My boyfriend wants to have sex. I don't want to lose him. What should I do?
Plain and simple, if your boyfriend TRUELY loves you he's not going to pressure you into sex and he will wait until YOU are ready. If he says well if you don't have sex with me then you don't love me DON'T YOU DARE FALL FOR THAT SHIT! It's allll bullshit.
If he loves you, he will wait for you and not pressure you. If he does, you know he's just in it for the sex, and I can bet you if he's in it just for that he will dump you. It's happened to me plenty of times.
But please, do not let him force you or guilt you in anyway into having sex with him.
ok well me and my boyfriend had sex but i have my period now so im pretty sure im not pregnant and it was protected sex..but i was just wondeirng people tlel me different stories but can you be pregnant even if u get your period?
Yes you can still be pregnant even if you get your period. Some women still get sort of a "period" while they are pregnant. My friend had suspisions that she was pregnant, then she got her period and thought all was well. She took a test to be sure and the test came out positive. She went to the doctors to make sure it wasn't a false positive, but she was in fact pregnant. She ended up losing the baby a few days later.. But that's a horse of another color.
Anyway, YES you can still possibly be pregnant. However you did protect yourself so your chances aren't as high. Most likely you are not pregnant. Wait it out until next month's period and if you don't get it.. You might want to get a test.
But if I were you, I wouldn't worry too much. You're fine.
I have a question. i normally dont ask for advice. but i want to know someones oppinion. are you a slut if you had sex with 2 boys in the same night?
Many people would call you a slut. I for one do not judge because I don't know the situation you were in or anything like that. But in all honesty, I think that is an absolutely repulsive and disgusting thing to do.
I noticed on myspace, a lot of people have names similar to this: Sean Suicide [FGDG] or Bree [BPSE]
What do the letters mean on the end in the brackets??
Whatever you want it to mean. My myspace name is Emily [Is Spicalicious]. People put whatever they want in the brackets.
EDIT: Yes, pendeja I know what you meant. Try asking them what it means. And I did answer your question.
i have this like bump/pimply like thing on my vagina. could it be an STD? im like freaking out about it. what could it be?
It could be either a pimple or an ingrown hair.
If you are not sexually active, it's most definately not an STD. If you are sexually active then you might want to get it out. However, odds are it's just a pimple or an ingrown hair. Pop it and if a hair comes out.. It was an ingrown hair.
I'm almost 21 and I admit it my boyfriend and I don't always use a condom, but I've been on the pill for years and never had an issue. Till recently when I was sick, the Dr gave me antibiotics but didn't tell me that they would make my birthcontrol inaffective. To make matters worse I forgot to start my newest round of pills after my last cycle. For two weeks now I've been waiting patiently for any signs that my period is coming and nothing has happened other than nausa and dizzyness, and being un able to zip up a dress I made a month ago. I haven't had the courage to take the test yet, mostly cause I'm pretty positive about what it will say. But now here comes the hard part how do I tell my boyfriend that by this time next year we could very well be parents, how do I tell him that because of one little known fact and my preoccupation with my job on campus that our whole lives are about to change. I need some advice from people outside of my cirlce of friends and family someone who has nothing to gain or lose.
First of all, you need to take a test. Or, at least go to the gyno or doctor, have them to bloodwork on you and they can test for the pregnancy hormone level.
My question to you is when you and your boyfriend had sex, when he climaxed did he cum inside of you? If he did, then the chances of you being pregnant are very very high which you seem to know already. If he didn't, the chances are really not that big, there is a chance but not a huge one. You must must must take a pregnancy test. All of this waiting and worrying, believe me is NOT making it any better for you. So, for the sake of your sanity take the test.
Easiest way to tell him is to just sit him down and be straight up. Don't hold anything back tell him everything you told us. He should be understanding because it's his responsibility too. Once you take the test, which the two of you should do TOGETHER by the way, if it turns out positive then you two need to sit down and discuss how you are going to handel the situation. If you will keep it, abortion (Not a good thing to do), or adoption.
Me not believing in abortion, I would for the two of you suggest adoption if you in fact are pregnant. You're young and you have your whole life ahead of you and if you cannot see yourselves being able to handel a child then you should give up the baby.
But please, before you jump to conclusions you need to take a pregnancy test. You never know, for all you know it can turn out negative.
I wish you the best of luck.
alright so im (15/f) and all of my friends have done stuff with boys. i havent. is that wierd? i think im just scared because once i find someone i really like i dont wanna be like hey yeah i dont know what the heck im doing! lol soo what should i do.
No it's not weird at all. Your friends obviously found someone they wanted to do that with, or they did it just to feel "cool" which is what alot of girls do.
Don't just put yourself out there and be like HERE I AM BOYS COME AND GET ME! Wait until you are ready to be with a guy in a way that your friends have been. If you're scared, then that's normal. You're young, you don't need to be rushing into anything because all your friends are doing it.
Once you find someone that you are comfortable enough with to be with like that, then go for it. As for right now, just don't be throwing yourself around and acting like a whore. (Not saying your friends are whores, FYI)
well im doing a thesis paper discussing the fact that people who are in same sex couples should be aloud to marry.
i was wandering if anyone had an accurate (and recent, 2002-2006) site where i could find recources for the percentage of homosexual people or people in same sex marriage.
thank you!
http://www.familyresearchinst.org/FRI_AIM_Talk.html
You can look there or simply search google under:
"percentage of homosexual americans". That's where I found this website.