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creepy guy+sex
So at camp this past week this guy was like asking all these girls to be his gf and to give him blow jobs and stuff, and he kept on saying that he wanted to be alone w/ me, and whenever we were he'd be like "oo i think ur so hot let's get freaky!" then i'd be like "ok let's do it!" adn he'd be like "haha ur stupid." like he would get my hopes up and then just yank away the opportunity. What kind of a mental problem does this sound like to you? (meaning him)
it made me feel even worse about myself. I'm crying as i write this. I can't seem to get over this, it's like i'm taking it personally like he didn't want me just because of my appearance or w/e even though he already said i was hot.
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help.
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Do not take it personally. This guy sounds like a jerk that just likes to play around with peoples' emotions. You sound like a smart girl, this should show you that you shouldnt have sex with people unless you really know them and they respect you. This guy doesnt respect anyone, not even himself.
He is probably just doing it to make himself feel higher and to get his confidence levels up. He probably has very low self esteem.
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Probably because he was creepy but not actually balsy enough to go through with it. Most guys who flirt that overtly do it to hide their insecurities over the fact that they feel they could never actually get someone to do the things they ask/talk about.
And for the record, you and him not having sex is a _good_ thing.
Why on earth did you say yes and mean it?
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To me he sounds like a pervert and probably didnt think u would do anything and when u where willing to he changed his mind, your better thatn that just get over him.
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I wouldn't say he has mental problems but his behavior is inappropriate and of concern to the camp counselors who are keeping you safe.
He should not have been running around talking to every girl he encountered asking them to be his girlfriend and do sexual things with him. That's not normal behavior but based on that we can't say he has a mental illness or suggest it.
He did need however, to be kept in line and spoken to, maybe sent home over it. Someone below said it was hormones, it may be that however there's a lot of people (teens, tweens, adults) with hormones racing and or sex drive that have the judgment at any age not to be saying what he is to girls especially at a camp.
He may have been joking about being alone with you and doing sexual things but you put yourself in a pretty bad situation by agreeing to this. Maybe, you were spared a horrible experience that could have scarred you afterwards by him reacting by laughing at you. There's something not right with him or the situation here.
You didn't miss out on anything and you shouldn't care whether he liked your appearance or not. Your appearance and who you are inside is fine.
The right person will know and see this. This guy doesn't sound like the right anything. Don't cry over it or him as you have a lot more important things to focus on. He's bad news and believe me has problems.
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omg! girl he sounds young. like 13 14 young. I'm 15 and the guys my age act like that too. the truth is he's really nervous because it sounds like he's never done anything sexual with a girl. So he froze up and said you're stupid so he wouldn't have to deal. he's probably not ready for sexual things and you don't sound like you are either. Now the guys I hang out with are 17 18 and they are not immature like the guys that are me age. You might need to hang out with a guy that's 1 or 2 years older than you because he won't be immature and he will have sex with you if he really likes you. I'm not telling you to go out and have sex with an older guy but it's easier to talk to guys when they are a lil bit older than you. they are also serious when they are talking about sex. they really wont play around. well hon I hope that all helped.
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I think you should just forget about him because you will probably never see him again. He sounds like the kind of guy who likes to see girls get hurt for no reason. You just need to watch out for guys like that.
JUST FORGET HIM! :)~
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Judging alone by this question, I'm assuming you are no older than 14-15.
He's a boy. Boys say stupid things. He's horny and has PROBABLY never had a serious girlfriend and a girl has probably never touched his penis. And when you say okay let's do it, either A: he thinks YOU'RE joking, B: He was joking the entire time, or C: He got nervous.
And there is no mental problem. It's called HORMONES.
I don't know why you're crying because a guy said you were stupid when you said you'd "Get freaky" with him. You're young, he's stupid, I'm sure you are too ((no offence young teenagers generally are, I was too so don't take it personally)).
Believe me, you'll have your opportunity to get a guy and have a boyfriend and do all those stupid sexual things that kids do. It has nothing to do with your appearance. Believe me.
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First of all, I don't think you should be crying over some boy. Sometimes, boys are just completely stupid & don't think about what they say. I'm sure you're gorgeous, & there's nothing wrong with your appearence...it's just boys will boys.
No boy that would think of saying something like that to you is worth your time anyway :]
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He was probably kidding. Guys are like that. Not all of them... but a fair amount. It's defnitely not something worth crying over. It's his way of joking around with girls, my friends say things like that all the time, and they hardly ever mean any of it. Jsut laugh it off.
Oh, and I wouldn't consider it a mental problem, just "typical horny teenage guy"-itis =]
-LM
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Don't let it get to you. He was probably just wanting to have fun and joke around with the girls. Possibly get close to one and just make out. When he said your stupid, I'm pretty sure he was taken back by your response.. unless you had that sarcastic tone. Then he was just joking around with you or slightly shocked.
I don't think he has a problem.
There's many guys like this. He didn't expect anyone to want to do anything with him because he's coming onto people strongly.
There's nothing wrong with you. If he said you were hot then don't get bothered by what he said. He didn't say yes or no, did he? Anyways, it's at camp.. he probably thought you were joking about it and like mocking him in a way.
since he asked girls to be his girlfriend and to give blowjobs, he just sounds like a big joke.
don't let him get to you.
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