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advice

My boyfriend and I were fooling around last Thursday.
I gave him oral sex and so consequently got some semen in my mouth.
We kissed after that, so maybe some sperm got in his mouth?
Then I received oral sex from him when he licked me around my vagina.

My question is, is it possible that I got pregnant if the sperm traveled from my mouth to his to my vagina?

umm. most likely right after you two kissed it probably wasn't STILL in his mouth. he probably swallowed his own jiizz. it's really hard for people to not swallow for a long period of time..

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Okay so i was getting out of my car to get the mail and it was like 9:30 and it was really dark and a big african american came toward me and started touching me so i screamed and he hit me and covered my mouth. He dragged me behind a big van and took of my pants and panties and raped me in the butt after he was done he hit me again and ran. I was so scared i couldn't move and i felt some liquid drip down near my vagina and i was wondering if there is anyway i could get pregnant because i haven't had my period in a while and i'm about 3 days late.

Please answer thanks

well this question seems fake.
but no you aren't pregnant. don't stress your period EVER, no matter what it is, because that may cause yo to be late.

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say it was 3 thin layers of clothing. He did ejaculate and I noticed that there was a wet spot on my shorts around the top of my private area, I am not sure if it went through my underwear or not, but my underwear was also wet, but that was probably my stuff. I am really scared that I will get pregnant. I will get my period approximately around Feb 9 so that is where I stand. I am really worried, what can I do?

WOw
ok.
if it was not intercourse then you are not at anyway pregnant.

end of story.

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Well .. i know this is kinda nasty but im old enough believe me because if i wont then i wouldnt ask this .. well nobody ever talked to me about sex but like i know about it .. but i was wonderin does a guy wont it shaved or hairy .. like not alot of hair i dont know help!!!

most guys like it shaved but thats your decision.
dont do it just for a guy if you feel you dont want to ...
xox hope i helped

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Hey. Is it true that guys won't have sex with girls if the don't shave their vaginas?

No
Some guys don't care.
And some do. The ones who do are stupid. Because it's your body! shave it if you want.. dont if you dont want to.
But Anyway, you shouldnt do the shit with him if he is going to disrespect your body. (im saying if it ever happens to you)
hope i helped.
xox

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My boyfriend and I were fooling around, we never had sex and my hymen isn't broken. Things got a little carried away and we were rubbing our "private" parts together, but my stuff never touched the top of his. Is there any way I'm pregnant? I've been freaking out because my period is late, but I am so irregular that I normally miss a few months anyway. I'm just worried, so any input would be great.

well the only way you could be pregnant is from one way and one way only... SEX
and since you have never had sex then you yourself should know your fine because you are the only one who knows if you have done it except for the person(s) youve done it with or if you told people.. and you say u have never so you shouldk now your fine babe!
dont worry
xoxox

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Hi, i was wondering if it it possible to miss a period? Ive been very active in sports this month and im a week late on my period. Thanks

yes its possible..

because sports and sex both can mess up your cycle inside and your period could be irregular amd come late.

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hey i just wanna know if iam not a virgin will my husband know on the wedding night??? is there a way for him not to know?

no theres no way for him to know unless you tell him. which you probably should.

xoxox

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Is giving head considered Anal Sex?

no its oral sex.
anything involving the MOUTH is oral.

anal sex is when you have sexual intercourse in the butt.

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this may seem like a dumb question but i heard someone talking about it.

lets say you use a public bathroom & you're a girl. if there's sperm anywhere near the toilet, on the seat, in the toilet itself, is it possible to get pregnant?? if you were juss using the bathroom??

thanks!!

NO you can't.

There's been so many questions like this. People freak out. You can only get pregnant IF sperm gets into your vagina..
So basically sexual intercourse.
If you were just using the bathroom then theres no possible way of getting pregnant because the sperm was not inserted INTO your vagina.
And plus sperm dies once it hits the air.
Hope I helped.
XOXO
♥Amber

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should girls shave thier pubes? and if so how much? and how are you saposed to get the hair wwaayy down there.. since its pretty much.. surrounded..?

Shave all of it.
Well I think you should because nobody likes a bush. And plus the hair absorbs scents and thats what makes it smell. so shave it and you will feel so much more cleaner. trust me. but you know its up to you. your choice sweety.

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My boyfriend was fingering me last night for the first time, and today i feel quite sore down there, it all feels quite irritated and sensitive. Is this normal? What does it mean? Am i gonna feel uncomfortable afterwards like this every time?

you will get use to it..
since it was your first time you were probably reely tight so of course it will be sore.. but you wont be uncomfortable after all the times that he does that! you will get use to it. trust me

XO
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kinda of very weird question ever asked---- seriously is there any way to judge whether a female had sex earlier in her part of life or not? jus by looking at her....? No offense...jus info

well theres no way you could judge and actually know FOR SURE, but if a girl is dressed like a slut, all hoochie and is with guys all the time touching then and flirting and stuff basically saying "I WANT YOU" then yeah i think you would know she has had sex before..

XO
A

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i think this weekend my boyfriend and i will start having oral sex..i've never done it before but he has and he's had sex before....i don't wear thongs.. but yet i don't wear big grandma underwear..they're exactlylike thongs.. like with the strings around the hips and all.. but instead of the string up my ass, it's just all covered..i'm scared that his other girlfriends wore thongs and stuff and that when he sees i don't he'll think i'm like a looser or something...do you think it matters.....or do guys REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY prefer thongs and totally hate like thekinda underwear i wear

it seems to me like you wear bikini underwear.. and if he loves you he won't care what kind you wear. so yeah im pretty sure it will all work out

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how do you have sex? duh..penis into vagina..i know that..im a guy by the way..but how do i kno which hole and how to make the gurl feel comfertable and if u dont mind could u just tell me how like how do i start???

pleez no dumm answerz..im serious i luv dis gurl alot and i dont want to hurt her..its both of our first timez.

thanx - bryan

awww thats totally sweet.
by the way im sorry im so late.
well i mean when the time comes you will know which hole.
just make sure she wants to first. then just kiss her and just work your way make sure you use a condom.. safe sex. so yeah and then just do it. i mean basically you go in n out ya know until your finished... dont worry it will work out.. have fun i hope it goes well.
XoXo

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ok i am 16 and all my friends say they have had sex i feel i am the only one that has not.what shall i do?they keep asking me if i have had sex?

well dont do it just because everyone else has. maybe you are waiting for the right time. and if they keep asking you tell them to FUCK OFF .. ;)

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ok me and my bf are planning to have sex the thing is we are both virgins and i was wondering wat it was like the first you have sex... mostly on the girls part.. like does it hurt and all that i want to no bc i want to be sure im really ready we already have everything else planned out and all but i still wanna be sure ne good advice and no loser advice is apreciated ill rate good laters

yeah, it hurts, just be ready for it. XO bi

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ok im 13 and im sort of dating this 16 year old for a while we have been close and like his friend is going out with my frie so we go places with each other. well i get out of school on the 24 and we were all going to walk to there house and hang out there but ive never been to his house b for do you think i should go remember he's 16 and im 13.?

omg people who say stuff about age... it doesznt matter AT ALL!! unless hes over 18 and ur under 18... omg when i started dating my bf he was 16 and i was 13 but im 14 now and hes 16 babeSz it doesnt matter at all.. age aint nothing but a number!

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About a year ago when i was 14 my best friend and i were kinda role playing when she would sleep over and i just felt so comfortable touching eachother and i enjoyed it sooo much! But now she thinks it's gross and i don't know how to approch any other gurl because it's really fun. It's like girls know what feels good to them so they do it to their partner. i don't think i'm lez because i like guys and have a bf but i enjoy doing sexual things wit girls and i can't take my eyes off their bodies in the locker rooms and stuff. what should i do?

babeSz, your bi. thatSz all there iSz to it.

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how do u make a girl come?
(im asking individuals, cause they always delete my stuff)

well.. you could use clit stimulation. basically fingering. and rubbing of the clit. hope i helped have fun! xOoXoOx AMbER

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