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I was just wondering if it was at all possible for someone to get pregnant after having dry-sex.. or when the girl doesnt have clothes on, but the guy does? ... thanks
nOpe! definately not!
xOxO, aLeX
i'm very open about sex. i mean i love it. i have had sex with a lot of guys. i'm clean i know i am i randomly get tested. but i'm in high school. senior year. i hang out with older guys that have seen girls do some crazy ass things. and i love doing crazy ass things. sex is like my life. i like trying new things and everything. but my problem is everyone that meets me or hears about me freaks calls me a slut and all that (the high school girls) i just blow it off and say there jealous bC there not brave enough to try all the new shit...but i've been thinking i talked to a close friend of mine last nighta bout this. i don't think i'm lesbian but i wanna try things with a girl just to try it and say i have. i told him that i wanted to eat a girl out just to see how it was. he says he has seen lots of girls do it..PROBLEM i'm in high school. shit like that gets around i'll be called gay. so my question is. what do you think i should do. go for it and try something with a girl or just wait till i graduate and not have to worry about roomers and bull crap??
well no one has to find out anything... if the girl and you don't even say anything! just tell her to keep her mouth shut... unless like you said you wanna do stuff with her just to say you have.... then why does it matter if people find out if your gonna tell people anyways... i am really confused on this question....?! i'm assuming your grad. is soon 2... so whateever.. your not gonna see alot of these people again ever anyways... sOOo yEEAH...
xOxO, aLeX
long story short, i have a fuck buddy yea yea i no, neways we tried to fuck 3 times and he wont fit, im really small and he is not that big at all and is my first wen we get it in, wat do you think i should do, we can get it in just we have an inch to go, but it hurts so bad, wat should i do and i want it to work because i lik how me and his situation is goin, long story. and i dont want it to get messed up because im so small, so plzz help!!!
it will hurt your first time! its just because if your a virgin, your still tight.... use like a lubricant to help it go in easier! gOOd lUcK!
xOxO, aLeX
Alright, so on New Years Eve, me and my boyfriend[of 3 years :)] were in the shower together, and he put his penis inside of me, but im not on birth control yet, and he wasn't wearing a condom. So, like he started thrusting, and like it wasn't a long time at all, probably not even 3 minutes, but he pulled out. But I'm not sure if he got sperm in me, and i'm really nervous that I am going to get pregnant. We have had sex before, but every time he uses a condom. Is there any way i could tell if i am pregnant other than a pregnancy test? And if i have to use a pregnancy test, how long should i wait to go buy one? Please everyone answer, I need all the help I can get. Thanks So Much! ♥
if your totally worried about being pregnent.. get the morning after pill! it is effective up to 72 hours after.. so i dont know if that still applies! um the most accurate way to test for pregnancy is to wait until after your period is due. All pregnancy tests on the market will pick show a positive result, a higher percentage of the time, if you wait until this point. also you should see a doctor!
xOxO, aL
ok umm...this is kinda weird...but is it like totaly wrong to think that my cousin is like INCREDIBLY hott? like...he came to vsit for christmas and iwas practicallly druling over him and like...is it bad that i would totaly want to go out with him if i was older and not his cousin?
sorry its kinda akward
~*me*~
oMG! hahA! i have like the hOTTesT cousin too! and when i was younger.. i used to have the biggest crush on him! there is nothing wrong with thinking that someone is hot... even if they are related! haha i have a hot uncle too! (haha hes only 25!) it isnt bad if you WOULD totally go out with him... but its bad if you DID go out with hiM! because its illegal! and ur umm cousins! he cant help himself for being so hot! and girls cant help being boy crazy.. well ummm me anyways! haha
xOxO, aL
okay me and my friend fantasize about doing things with girls...but we like guys....are gay???
nope! your not gay! growing up.. its totally normal to fantasize about other girls! in fact.. most teen girls do do it! haha trust me i have tons of girlfriends!
xOxO, aL
me and my boyfriend at the time were messing around and we were about to have sex. He had his penis down there but he said he never put it in me but i felt pain down there. Does this mean im a virgin if he didnt stick it in me. How do i know? My cherry was popped before when i was a boot camp. I'm pretty sure i cant tell by that. I cant ask him he wont tell me the truth he cliams he didnt put it in me.
Thx a whole bunch i would really like to know
Hey! YeaH! your still a virgin! sex actually only counts if there was penetration.. which sounds like there was none! if he didnt put it in you.. then your definately still a virgin! i dont know why you felt pain down there... but if your cherry was already popped and you had sex.. then you shouldnt have felt any paiN! so iM not exactly sure on that one! hope I heLPed yA!
xOxO, aL
what is a booty call?
when someone calls you just for sex! you plan on calling them with the sole intent of achieving sex! hMmm that brings back some memories! haha!
xOxO, aL
hey peeps i was just wondering what you think... should a girl tell her b/f if she is taking pregnancy pills?? xoxo i'll rate good for good answers! thanx
it really dosent matter! thats up to her! if they are having sex... then yeah.. he should definately know... but really... its not that big of a deal!
xOxO, aL
OKAY... please do not anwser this question unless you are 100% sure
Can you get pregnant if you havent had you period yet?!?!
Suprisingly, Yes you can! Remember, a woman's period is the END of her fertility cycle. This is happening because there was no egg and sperm meeting, so the blood lining the uterus is being discarded. But if you're having sex, your body is probably at the point that it is going to start your period shortly. Many girls have gotten pregnant because they had sex during their first egg cycle!
xOxO, aL
my friend andrew wants to know if u finger a girl if she hasnt had her period is it bad or will anything happen?
thank you
Tell your friend Andrew that it's fine! Whats the big deal....!? Nothing different then a girl who has had her period!
xOxO, aLeX
Ok. I'm 14 and I resently had sex with a guy I had never met before. He was around 21. I have rented a book over being pregnant and I have all the symptoms. I took the pregnancy test and sure enough I am. Well anyways I don't know who he is and i'm really scared. I don't know how to tell my parents and I want him to be there when I tell them! Well if you can help me or give me ideas to tell them and find him...Please HELP!!!
I rate 5's on every one
well before you tell your parents.. i reccomend you take a pregency test first... even an at home one is fine.. but you can't take it right away.. The most accurate way to test for pregnancy is to wait until after your period is due. All pregnancy tests on the market will pick show a positive result, a higher percentage of the time, if you wait until this point. bUt, to be honest i had a pregnency scare a couple of months ago... and i over analyzed the symptoms and told myself i had them... just because i thought i was pregnent.. did you use a condom?! did the condom break? do you have a reason to think your pegnent? or do you just think you might be pregnent cause you had sex? so take a test 1st... and honestly... i dont know if your parents would like him to be there...he's 7 years older then u... totally illegal.. and if your dad is over protective like mine... he might be pretty pissed at the guy who got his little girl pregnent.. i dont know if this was the answer u were looking for... but i was just giving u what i would do! take a test! i hope your not pregnent! and be safe in the future!
xOxO, aLeX
i'm 16. i'm on birth control. my boyfriend of two years and i had sex the other night and he came inside me. i was just wondering if it is 100% positive that you do get pregnant if you get came inside of, and the whole birth control thing. thanks in advance for thoes who help. i'll rate good.
Most birth control is almost 99% accurate... depending on the method and brand you are using! like pill, patch, shot etc... i'm sure your fine.. but remember for dOubLe the saftey.. have your guy wear a condom! and if your really scared about pregnency, take the morning after pill!
xOxO, aLeX
Okay I'm just interested to know what people are up to and how they feel about it so this is like a little sex survey that I hope a lot of people respond to even if they aren't sexually active. I will rate high!
1. male or female?
2. age?
3. heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual?
4. drink alcohol or do drugs? If so how much?
5. have you had sex? why?
6. how often do you have sex if you do? how much would you have sex?
7. ever been kissed?
8. given or received hand jobs?
9. blow jobs?
10. anal sex?
11. what are your feelings about anal sex?
12. how many people have you done anything sexual with in the past month?
13. how many relationships have you been in?
14. how many people have you had sex with? how many people have you done sexual things with?
15. ever had a sexual experience with someone you weren't dating?
16. do you regret anything that you have done with the opposite sex (includes kissing!)? If so what and why?
17. have you ever cheated on someone?
18. do you think it's important to love someone before having sex with them?
19. what do you think love is?
20. ever gotten caught? if so what were you doing?
21. where's the craziest place you've had sex?
22. what is your greatest fantasy?
24. what are your most desireable traits in the opposite sex?
25. any other information you'd like to share?
Thanks a TON! Did I mention I would rate high?
:-D
1. male or female? ~female
2. age? ~17
3. heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual? ~heterosexual... that means straight right?!
4. drink alcohol or do drugs? if so how much? ~yes i have drank alcohol.. how much?! well i have had alcohol poisining and i drink whenever i feel like it... 3 times a month.. and yes i have done drugs
5. have you had sex? why?~ yes i have... because i love it!
6. how often do you have sex if you do? how much would you have sex?~ umm well when i have a boyfriend thats different... we would have sex alot! but now... whenever a good guy comes along
7. ever been kissed? ~ of course!
8. given or received hand jobs? ~ yes! but ughh handjobs are seriously sooo 7th grade! fOR REAL! hAHA
9. blow jobs? ~ my favorite thing ever! hAHA!
10. anal sex?~ eww no!
11. what are your feelings about anal sex?~ that if a guy would ever ask me 2 do it... i would think that they were gay! whats wrong with my pussy?!
12. how many people have you done anything sexual with in the past month?~ 3
13. how many relationships have you been in?~ serious....2 not serious~ 4 and i\'ve had alot of flings!
14. how many people have you had sex with? how many people have you done sexual things with?~ i have had sex with 8 guys (im not a slut!) and i have done sexual stuff with alot of guys....not gonna count it all out probably 25+
15. ever had a sexual experience with someone you weren\'t dating?~ r u kidding?! of course! thats the best tIme!
16. do you regret anything that you have done with the opposite sex (includes kissing!)? if so what and why?~ yes! i regret giving this one guy head... because it totally changed our friendship! aNd i Regret having sex with my sisters best gUy friend... totally awkwarD!
17. have you ever cheated on someone?~ yes.. sorry andy!
18. do you think it's important to love someone before having sex with them?~ nope not at all!
19. what do you think love is? ~ i dont know!
20. ever gotten caught? if so what were you doing? ~ yes.. i was having sex with my ex sitting on his computer chair and his dad walked in... and just dumb stuff having my friends walk in!
21. where's the craziest place you've had sex?~ ummm football field, under a stadium, ocean, in a club....
22. what is your greatest fantasy?~ cowboy baby!
24. what are your most desireable traits in the opposite sex? $$$rich!$$$ hot, good body, at least 6'0, funny, good kisser!
25. any other information you\'d like to share?~ that just because im sexually experinced and like to do sexual things... does not make me a slut! personally, i love casual sex and think people shouldnt make such a big deal out of it!
26. i've made out with 2 girls... nothing big, i was drunk and it was fun
last weekend i had sex with my boyfriend and now im worried im pregnet cause we didnt use a rubber but he did pull out
hMm! even if he did pull out... there is still such thing as pre~cum.. which could also get u pregnent... if you were super concerned you could have taken the morning after pill... but now its 2 late.. chances are, your probably not pregnent.. as long as he pulled out correctly... but wait until your period comes (or is supposed to) and then next time use a condom and be more careful!
good luck hun
xoxo, alex
im embarrassed to have an orgasm infront of my boyfriend, any helpg etting over the fear?
oMgOsh! i know what you mean! lol! i kind felt stupid at first 2 for some reason... bUt dont be embarrsed! seriously! guys LOVe when they make a girl orgasm... because hmmmM... they know that they are doin a good job! his ego will totally go up! thats what they r tyrin 2 make ya do! dont be embarrsed at all! he'Ll lOve it!
xOxO, aLeX
um, i am a virgin and all. and thats kinda the problem. most of my freinds arent virgins, and i get made fun of. even my father had sex when he was like 12. and its driving me practilly INSANE! im sixteen years old, and i "enjoy" myself almost daily. i am speaking the embarassing truth. one of the minor reasong why i bought a computer was so i could look up porn. and i tell myself all the time ill stop "enjoying" myself once i actually have sex. and thats put me at ease for awhile. i mean, other that that i ok, besides sucking my thumb.one time, a prostistute was asking if i wanted a good time, and as sad as it may sound, i was saeiously considering it. and thats when i knew i had issues. so the actual question would be: do i have problems? is this humane? shold i go out and see a shrink? please, this took alot of courage to admit this, so, please,dont judge me.
hEy hUn! oMgOsh! dont even worry! a million other people feel like you! the average age that a teen looses his/her virginity is at age 17 and 50% of high school students have never had sex! so as if it seems like everyone around you has had sex... they really havent! you have to wait! you dont want to have sex just to "have sex" theres not fun in that! you want your first time to be special, romantic and something that you reaaaly want! you dont need a shrink! your 16... your hormones are crazy, so your sex drive will be insanley high! so don't be desperate! dont let your 1st time be with a slut bag hooker! keep, keeping yourself satisfied and time will come when you won't be a virgin! good luck hun!
hope i helped!
xOxO, aLeX
how would one overcome an addiction to pornography and masturbation?
(i have this friend, see...)
17.male
hmm... i\'m a nymph! haha! so i kinda get where your comin from! haha! haha! but find other things 2 do! even though porn and masturbation is totally normal! just think of other things 2 do! like for exaplme... get together with friends, play sports etc... if it totally gets out of control then... embarresing as it is... you could need help! good luck hun!
xoxo, alex
my boyfriend and i have been together for about 1 year and we're ready to have sex. how can we loosen each other up to prepare?
signed:
ready
age 19
if you mean loosen up like YOU getting loose.. then have him finger you, or masturbate youself.. but if you mean loosen up, like you guys not being so nervous... make sure you guys do it in a place where you both feel comfortable! make sure theres gonna be no parents walking in or no uncomfortable places! and make sure you guys do it on a day when your both ready! make it romantic! i totally regret my 1st time, because it was in some weird bedroom! but make it memorable! good luck doLL!
xOxo, aleX
Hi this may sound stupid but what does eating out a girl mean. I have an idea but im not totally clear about it.
Thank You
aWw dont worry about sounding stUpid! eating out a girl is well... giving her oRaL seX! "going down on a girl" means your using your tongue to please her oRaLLY! eating out a girl sounds really sick dosent it?! haha but thats what it is!
aLL mY lOve: aLeX