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i'm very open about sex. i mean i love it. i have had sex with a lot of guys. i'm clean i know i am i randomly get tested. but i'm in high school. senior year. i hang out with older guys that have seen girls do some crazy ass things. and i love doing crazy ass things. sex is like my life. i like trying new things and everything. but my problem is everyone that meets me or hears about me freaks calls me a slut and all that (the high school girls) i just blow it off and say there jealous bC there not brave enough to try all the new shit...but i've been thinking i talked to a close friend of mine last nighta bout this. i don't think i'm lesbian but i wanna try things with a girl just to try it and say i have. i told him that i wanted to eat a girl out just to see how it was. he says he has seen lots of girls do it..PROBLEM i'm in high school. shit like that gets around i'll be called gay. so my question is. what do you think i should do. go for it and try something with a girl or just wait till i graduate and not have to worry about roomers and bull crap??
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well no one has to find out anything... if the girl and you don't even say anything! just tell her to keep her mouth shut... unless like you said you wanna do stuff with her just to say you have.... then why does it matter if people find out if your gonna tell people anyways... i am really confused on this question....?! i'm assuming your grad. is soon 2... so whateever.. your not gonna see alot of these people again ever anyways... sOOo yEEAH...
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I hate to break it to you darling but if you sleep with a bunch of people and are open and bold about your sex life, you are going to have to deal with rumors and that bull crap all your life. Welcome to humanity.
Meaningless sex is just that, meaningless entertaining sex. No problem there. But meaningless entertaining sex with plenty of people in the definition of a slut, just the way a female dog is a bitch. The word might be an insult, but it’s also an accurate description. You are promiscuous! If that is the way you want to be then OWN IT. If you are truly proud and comfortable with that you are going to have to come to terms with the word slut and all its negative connotations OR you are going to have to learn to keep your sex life private.
If you want to have meaningless entertaining sex with a girl, go for it. Just make sure that your partner understands that is all you are interested in (and don’t expect anyone to call you a prude.)
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Here is the definition of slut.
A person, especially a woman, considered sexually promiscuous.
If you have been open about your sex life and have had a lot of partners, then that is why they are calling you that. Get real.
If you have sex with a female and then tell someone, or if you do it with someone who tells someone, it will get around. Since they already think badly of you I don't suppose it matters. It is a decision you alone will have to make. Being called gay is no better or worse than being called a slut.
Just my opinion. :)
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