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I`m Desiree

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i`m 17 years old

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evertime i have sex with my husband i fart by my vagina. how can i avoid that?

yes this can be some what embarrassing i know. but its jus air that went in there. its nothing nasty or anything wrong with you. jus try to avoid him takin it out && then putting it back in.

this can happen more likey in the doggy style or when ever you switch postions.

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so me and my boyfriend have had sex twice. the first time we did it i don't think he broke/tore the hymen even though it hurt really bad, basically i kept pushing him off me on reflex. anyway, the second time was yesterday and it also hurt really bad but i still don't know if he tore the hymen, it still hurt and i understand it will hurt the first few times but how do i make sure he fully tore it?

you don`t always bleed.

not wanting him to do it probably makes it hurt more then it actually is suppose to.

i`d wait til you can relax your body more && be more comfortable doing this.

i would get him to maybe talk you a bit or maybe do somethin to maybe get you turned on more like kissing you.

maybe more fore play will relax you some.
thats what helped me for my first time.

-*kisses

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Ok male 17 and i am tring really hard to stop masterbating so often but i cant seem to do it any tips? thanks

well males usually do this a bit.
there isn`t nothing wrong with it.
but if your really wanting to not do it so much i recommend finding something else to do when you think about doing it.
most guys actually do it before bed or before showering.
if its before bed maybe read a book or watch t.v.
ummm if it is before showering jus take then shower && go to doing something different.

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i am 15 i have been sexual active since june 28 and i have had sex alot with my boyfriend but all of the sudden we cant have sex that long because it hurts me. and now my boyfriend has noticed that around my clit its really red and under the lips or whatever its really sensetive and it kind of burns when i touch or he does
please help

defiantly see a doctor about this.
i`ve something similar && it might be that you are having sex before being wet or that you have sex too much.
-*kisses

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ello there. i am 17, a virgin, and getting married next month hopefully. i don't want to sound like a complete idiot, but i need to find out bout riding top when having sex. does the girl do most of the work or does he do it. and how exactly does it work? thanx for the help

a female being on top would mean you doing most of the work.
you don`t have to stay in the that postion the whole time.
some girls like being in control && some don`t.
i wouldn`t recomend doing this your first time having sex tho.
if you have any more questions bout sex i`d be happy to help., && your not an idiot

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I come from a small town with not to much to do. Everytime I come home I spend a few days with my girlfriend and for these few days all we do is watch movies and have sex. There must be more to a relationship than that but i dont know what else we can do. If anyone has any suggestions on other things a couple can do I would greatly appreciate it.

theres lots of things you can do other then sex you know..
-take a walk in the park.. a nice one even in the winter time its nice too.. jus make sure to be bundled up..
-if its winter && soon to be snowing playin in the snow is fun no matter what the age is..promise..
-take her out to dinner or make her dinner sometime.
-take her to make a bear like at build a bear..
-when christmas is closer && people have lights up go for a walk at night && look at the lights..
-if its warm take her to a pool // lake to spend time.
-water balloon fight is alot of fun too..
[[lots of my things might sound rather kiddish but its always fun && cute for most females.. && the guys like it because they`re spending time with the girl && making her laugh]]

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Iam a 17 female and i've had sex with several different guys all my boyfriends at one point.I have sex like 4 times a week with my present boyfriend and i think i may be pregnant what should i do?

You should take a pregnancy test.
Thats really all you can do right now.
FInding out first would be best before panicing or mentioning this to your parents.
Get him to help out!!

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soo like when i masturbate right... it starts feelin reallyy good and then my whole body tenses up and sometimes feels like my legs and stuff are trembling, then when i stop im pretty much numb. is that an orgasm?

Yes this is an orgasm.
If it gets to the point where you can`t handle or take it anymore then you`ve orgasmed

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how do i know when i'm experiencing an orgasm. like, when my boyfriend fingers me, it is the best feeling ever and i get really wet but i still don't know how i can tell. when a guy ejeculates he is having one, but how can girls tell for sure that they are?

You will defiantly know when your having a orgasm;
Its very rare for a female to have an orgasm from fingering or even having sex [[Stupid i know]]
Most popular way for a female to have a orgasm is by the clitoris;;
Touching/rubbing that area or even gettin oral will most likely give you an orgasm..

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okay so i have shaved down there twice but both times i get all those little red bumps which are painful and i was wondering is there a way to not get those when i shave or are there any creams that i could use?

You may be shaving wrong or not having it lathered up enough;;
-Shave with a new razor in that area;
-Use shaving cream,soap or conditionor [[I suggest conditionor]] Like for your hair;
-Take your time shaving in this area;
-Shave the way the hair is growing;
-Maybe try waxing or Nair;
-I suggest waiting a few days to shave again
-You can buy bikini plus to put on that area after shaving && it helps with the razor bumps;;
-Or you could try baby oil/baby lotion to put on that area..
[[I suggest a non-scented lotion so it doesn`t sting]]
Hope i helped

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I was making out with my boyfriend last night and we decided to take the relationship to the level. Well as we were talking of our clothes I noticed that he doesnt have a penis O.O instead he has a vagina. Does that mean hes a girl? I'm really worried and I ran out of the bedroom and down the street half naked and now I dont know what to do please help!

I don`t take this question serious;;

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Okay, weird, I know. But some girl told me if you masterbated with a banana or a cucumber that when you have sex with a guy for the first time it won`t hurt cause your hymen will already be broken. Is this true? Muchhhh love

This most likely is true..
But i don`t know why you`d want to do that..

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how do you have cyber sex? like what is it and where do you have it? also what is phone sex? i dont understand..

Cyber Sex-is saying/typing sexual things to somebody on the computer..
Phone sex-Is talking to somebody on the phone && saying sexual things to them

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hi I am a girl and i shave down there... i know that you are suppose to shave down then side ways then up but it still hurts and I cut myself doing it. Is there a specific technique i can use to still be completely smooth without so much pain or something other than a razor that I can use?

I suggest shaving over like nair && hair removing things.. Yes they work but it hurts also && sometimes you end up having to shave anyways..
Alright instead of soap or shaving cream try conditionor like for your hair && make sure you use enough to get it all covered..Not real thick just a thin layer..
Then shave that way it shouldn`t hurt as bad..Take your time also;;

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is it bad for you to masterbate with the water fasit from the bathtub?

If it isn`t hurting you then it fine.. Nothing wrong with it

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19/f
I lost my virginity to my boyfriend a few days ago in the shower. I happened to notice some blood trickling down the drain. It wasn't a lot, but it was enough to concern me. Is that normal? Please tell me!

Hey sweetie;;
This is perfectly normal..
He might of broke your hymen or some people say popped your cherry..
So there aren`t any worries

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ok well im 13/f and i masterbate like 5 times a day is it too much?? its like a need i love to do it!!! is this weird?? another thing is its kinda smelly down there what should i do about it and is that normal????

Your 13 this is very normal for your age..Eventually you won`t do it as much or as often.. Also for the smell use femine wipes;;Change your underwear atleast twice a day also..This is also normal to have an odor in this area..
♥Dez

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16/f
you can use a condom and be on birth control right? because im on birth control but trust me in nowhere near having sex people wanted to with me but i said no :D im not ready for that or the consequences yet! well i was just wondering. because i am on birth control for my period not because im being sexual. well yeah i was just checkin sorry if that was a dumb question! just wanted to be sure.

Yes you can use a condom while being on your birth control sweetie..

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im 23 now and i still havent had sex. ive been waiting to have sex, but now i want to have sex and no one wants to now. is 23 too long to wait?

Nope;; I personally think its better to wait til the right person comes along..Don`t push yourslef into doing something if your not ready sweetie.. ♥Dez

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If you have sex with a condom are you still considered a virgin or does it have to be unprotected sex? Just curious.

It doesn`t matter if you use protection or not sex is sex so either way your not a virgin;; ♥Dez

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