about

My name is Holly, I'm 15 years old, and I currently live in HollyWood California, kind of ironic, eh? I'm a very sociable person so I'd like to meet as many people as possible, the more the merrier - just as long as you're respectful and nice!
I'm a very honest, kind-hearted, sweet person who likes helping others, learning new things, giving back and being able to relate to others. I consider myself understanding, passionate, sensible, dedicated, easy to get along with and a good listener = ].
HATE
Rude, mean & conceited people. Fakes, lies, back-stabbers, hatred, discrimination and war.
LIKES
* chewing gum.
* music.
* dressing in sweat pants and a hoodiee.
* make-up.
* when people need my advice.
* my family & friends.
* any kind of neon color.
* any kind of dancing.
* I like to lay on the carpet and play board games.
* being silly.
* eyeliner
* perfumes.
* party time.
* singing
* long lasting relationships.

total picture whore

I am great with fashion and make-up questions. I know a ton about both. I help out with my sister at Sephora - it is an awesome make-up store. I do know a lot about it, so feel free to ask me anything on both subjects, I'm sure I can help out in some way = ].

I will give you my best and honest answer, when helping you out. Please feel free at any time to leave something in my inbox, I know I'm new here, but I can help. I have had 2 different adivce columns on 2 different sites, I'm here to help!!
ASHllYN_FAME is my bestfriend :D.
Addherr.

advice

Is it slutty to give your boyfriend a hand job and letting him finger you when you're only 13?

In my opinion, yes, because you have no idea what you are getting into and you need to understand more about the situation before going that far. But I also know some 13 year olds who have done more then that. You need to slow down and start acting like a kid again, don't grow up too fast. And if you keep doing what your doing, soon you will regret it.
//X0 H0LLY

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whats the difference between phone sex oral sex and normal? please help i am soo confused

Well there is a big difference in all three. Phone sex is having sex over the phone, talking sexual to someone over the phone. Oral sex is doing sexual things with your mouth, including blowjobs. Normal sex is actually having sex, the real deal.
I hope this helps you.
//X0 H0LLY

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okay, so this is just a simple question. but do a majority of girls shave "down there?" like i'm afraid when it comes to when i become intimate with a man that he'll be turned off if its shaved or not? so, what do most girls do? shave, or not?

I shave "down there". It's not for guys (since I'm not very intimate with them), it's for me. I don't like a jungle in my underwear. I just keep it nice and trimmed. So it's your decision. If you don't want to shave it, then don't. But if you decide to shave it, remember to shave THE WAY THE HAIR GROWS!
Good luck : ].
//X0 H0LLY

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my boyfriend is wants to have sex, and, im cosidering it. im 15, am i old enuff? i know about being safe and all, and i dont need to be lecture about how its not right cause the bible says its rong, im not religiouse. i just dont know if im old enuff to be having sex.

If your ready then sure, but to me, if your questioning it, then no you should wait. 15 is pretty young to loose your virginity. Because once you loose it, you never get it back, and it's something you don't take lightly. If both you and your boyfriend are ready for this, then you go ahead, but you are very young. Maybe talk to your mom about it, or think through it with your boyfriend. And remember, condoms do break.
Good luck, make the right choice.
//X0 H0LLY

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I planned on having sex for the first time a few months ago with the amazing guy i was dating. He is 16, im 15. Neither one of us have ever had sex. The time came and we messed around a little (fingering and handjob) and then we tryed to put it in and it didn't fit, like at all. Me and him both were surprised and a little embarressed. Him and i still talk about hang out alot but we only kiss now we have never tryed again. I have been masturbating with a toy alot since then to try and make me loosen up. Do you think that since i have been masturbating alot that it will help us when the time is right?

I'm sure it will fit a lot better now. It should be more loose. But make sure you use protection, and make sure you are absolutely ready for it.
Good luck.
//X0 H0LLY

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Ok so I'm 16/f, and I feel really weird because most of my friends have done something, and I've barely even kissed.
Everyone I meet is always like 'how can you still be a virgin?' and it feels a bit uncomfortable.
The things is that I always hear older people say to keep it, that they regret doing it in the first place, but why? My friends dont seem to regret it. And almost no guy would go out with someone who's not sexually active. At least no guy I've come across thinks differently.
What should I do?

Don't let anyone rush you. You seem to not be ready to lose anything right now. If a guy doesn't want to go out with you because your not sexually active enough for him, then he wasn't worth your time in the first place. Do what you are comfortable with doing. It is your body after all. Only do what feels right.
//X0 H0LLY

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im 15 and i have a girlfriend and i slipped my penis into her vagina and took it out... can she get pregnant.

There is always a slight chance. But most likely she isn't. If you know for sure you didn't cum before or during it, then she probably isn't.
The only 100% way to be safe is abstinance.
Goodluck.
//X0 H0LLY

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Hi everyone... ok I'm going to make this short. Basically, I am very paranoid and even though I am 20 I don't want to become pregnant. The thing is, every time I have sex with my bf, we use a condom because I am not on birth control, but I am always paranoid and thinking that the condom will break. My question is, if the condom breaks, will either one of us be able to tell? Like will it snap off and have a big hole in it? Or is it possible that just a tiny little invisible hole can break in it and neither one of us will be able to notice? Thanks!

Just so your not so paranoid, maybe get on the pill and use a condom at the same time, then even if the condom DOES break, you will be a lot safer. And no, you can't really tell if the condom breaks, unless you feel him cum in you, thats probably a great indication (haha). The hole may be big, or small, it differs.
Good luck, and the only way to be 100% safe, is abstinance.
//0X H0LLY

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