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as safe as i think?


Question Posted Saturday May 27 2006, 6:25 pm

Hi everyone... ok I'm going to make this short. Basically, I am very paranoid and even though I am 20 I don't want to become pregnant. The thing is, every time I have sex with my bf, we use a condom because I am not on birth control, but I am always paranoid and thinking that the condom will break. My question is, if the condom breaks, will either one of us be able to tell? Like will it snap off and have a big hole in it? Or is it possible that just a tiny little invisible hole can break in it and neither one of us will be able to notice? Thanks!

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clearlypink428 answered Monday May 29 2006, 4:00 pm:
well, it can break in the packaging, it can break when hes putting it on, it cna break during sex, and it cxan break while hes taking it out. i would suggest being put on the pill or the every 3 months shot. condoms are like russian roulette. hope i helped.

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Nallie answered Sunday May 28 2006, 12:44 am:
It is true that the condom could have a very tiny hole in it and you'd never know. It could get there from the way it was put on, or be a factory defect. No, he'd never be able to "feel" that. If you don't want to take the pill use condoms with another method, like spermicide for a back up (make sure whatever you will be safe with the condom) At one time I know that there were certain things that could not be used together because it would degrade the quality of the latex.

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orphans answered Saturday May 27 2006, 7:48 pm:
what i think you should do is go to planned parent hood and go on birth controll it could help your parioned problem GOODLUCK !!


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H0LLY_W00D_FAME answered Saturday May 27 2006, 6:57 pm:
Just so your not so paranoid, maybe get on the pill and use a condom at the same time, then even if the condom DOES break, you will be a lot safer. And no, you can't really tell if the condom breaks, unless you feel him cum in you, thats probably a great indication (haha). The hole may be big, or small, it differs.
Good luck, and the only way to be 100% safe, is abstinance.
//0X H0LLY

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