Q: 15/f. I've been talking to a guy online for the past 2 months. He's 18. I knew him in real life, but he moved to another state. Well, first..when we started talking, he made it clear to me that he wasn't even supposed to flirt online with me because he could "get in trouble with the law, they'll land my ass in jail." (he's in the army, and thinks he's being watched) well, sometimes, he would make sexual remarks towards me...something along the lines of "i want to get you laid." and he'll start to panic after saying that...like "Omg...forget I said that, they're gonna kill me...ahhh I harassed a minor."
However, at other times...he just straight out flirts like it's no big deal. Usually, he just compliments me and tells me cute things. It kind of disturbs me..
Um...what's his problem? Is this legal?

Q: i talked to my friend for 2 days and then when i got online he blocked me from everything and i dont know why i dont kno what i did and i cant talk to him online at all and i want to find out what i did or what is going on. i need to talk to him

Q: Can someone please tell me what to do? I'm really crying my heart out right now because I think my best friend is mad at me, but I don't know what I did! It was maybe 2 days ago that when I'd try talking to her, or asking her why she's mad, she would just ignore me. She used to hate these 6th graders on my bus because they were annoying but now she's talking to them like she's their best friend. (We're in 7th grade) I don't know what I did! Sometimes she'd talk to mee like nothing was wrong, and then I'd try to talk to her again, she'd ignore me! Then it would happen again. I'm not sure if she's mad at me and my other 2 best friends, or just me. Sometimes she'd make gestures that told she was annoyed or something. Yesterday I asked her why she was mad, and she said she wasn't, she said it over and over again, but I know it's a lie, you can tell she's lying. Today she ignored me, and then again I tried asking her why she was mad, guess what? She STILL ignored me, and I was literally about to burst into tears but I held it in. I can barely breathe now because I'm crying so hard. We ARE really good friends, I swear we are, or maybe were, I could tell her ANYTHING, we've been BESTIES since last year. A LOT of people which most are my friends, would make fun of her all the time! And she wouldn't mind! We've been doing it since last year! I don't think she minds, but if she did, she would've been mad wayyyy earlier last year. I keep saying sorry, even if I didn't do anything, I don't know what I did. Please don't say to back off because I know! I just really want to why she's mad, and what's wrong. Please help me, tell me what to do. She's changed. She's plays this game "Maplestory" and she's obsessed with it! I'm SERIOUS. She's going to marrry some guy she met, and maple, her maple BF and friends are consuming her life, I miss my old friend. I know she pick her BF over her friends anyday. Then her Maplestory friends. I think it's really stupid that she's LOVE some guy over the internet, I just can't convince that it's wrong. I've told her plenty of times how dangerous it is, and how it's just useless, but nothing works. This isn't just with her. Last year I had the BEST OF FRIENDS. Now I barely get to see HALF of them, they moved, they don't have ANY of my classes, OR they've moved on and made new best friends. Yes. They ditched me. This one girl we were BEST BUDDIES last year. We could tell eachother ANYTHING. We hung out a lot. If she had a Myspace last year, she would be my #1 in my top friends, now I wouldn't even put her in there. I think her preppy life has changed her. Same with some of my other friends. I just miss my old friends. Where did they go? Maplestory has changed my friend. Most of everyone changed, and I feel like a piece of old trash/news to them, cause they have "better" friends to hang out with. Trust me, I DO NOT have the guts to confront them. I just can't. So please, someone help, I'm stilling crying HARD. I just miss my friends.

She's also keeping me as friend on Myspace, and I'm still number one on her top friends! I just don't understand. Why won't she tell me? I'll understand. I'll understand if she thinks I'm annoying, I know I am, if that's the case. It also seem like she would talk to everyone else, except for 3 CERTAIN people. I'm one of them, and the 2 are my other best friends. We're the top 3 who like to make fun of her. In a funny way. On Myspace, she still talks about her BFF's which she states, is us 3, but she's probably lazy to delete it. If she does decide to stop acting this way, then I won't know if she's just faking our friendship, which I know I'm not faking.

Q: There is this boy Lany who I used to like and i just foung out that he liked me last year I wanted to kill him i mean really. So we have a really bad past together and alot has happend bettween us[rummers,fights]so i want to know if i should tell him that I do not want to be friends with him anymore or keep going and just talk to him or anything. so ya hwat should I do.

Q: 15/f. Now that school started and everything, I can't help but notice the people around me changed. My friends are no longer close to me, they seek their own *other* group of friends and I feel left out. They also make no visible effort to try to patch things up and maybe work something out or work on something. So, basically, I don't like them anymore. Should I just break it off completely? :/

Q: i have a friend: hes 17.
im 15/f [just for refrence]
my friend went to rehab, stopped drinking and doing drugs.
started again at a party last week.
is back into bad things, i basicly told him to stop.
and then he decides to lie to me and say hes stopped and he has lied about numerous things in the past. today i told him i hated him.
but i dont really.
how can i fix this? what should i do?

Q: I am about to go crazy. I like Lany but than again I hate him for not likeing me and all the other things he has done to me so what I am going to do is give Lany a note saying that I love him and Im not going to sign my name and then he will never now who it is untill I decide to tell him and im ganna type it so that he really wont know its me so do you think I should do this or not?Please hury im loseing my mind.

Q: I have never been made fun of in my entire life. I am pretty popular, and am I what I would consider very nice. Well, recently, this girl, Alyise, decided it would be funny if she sort of made fun of me. I am shocked and rather pissed, since this is the 1st time I have gotten like jabbed at. It's not like I want to be friends with her, but I would really like her to stop. I don't want to look bitchy, or super sensitive, which I am, but don't really show it all the time. I don't know why she would do this, since I have never really talked to her or anything. What should I do?

Q: is there any way to get rid of an annoying friend?

Q: 14/f
this summer i went on a teen tour. i made a lot of friends.. but theres this one girl alyssa that was reallyyyyy annoying and i was kind of forced to be friends with her. me and my other friends all agreed we dont really like her, but we dont want to be mean and blow her off. so anyway, this upcoming summer my friends and i want to do another tour. alyssa keeps asking me which one im doing so we can go together.. but i REALLY dont want to go with her, but i cant lie.. im serious like i cant stand her for another summer. what can i say or do so i can avoid this?

HELP IS GRRRREATLY APPRECIATED

Q: There's a girl, I'll call her Sara, is really slutty and all she can talk about is how much she likes emo bands and how she flashes her breasts to guys. This is mostly the reason I don't like her, and the other part is that she's kind of punk and I have a clean, preppy style. Well, anyway, she is really nice to me, and I always help her around and stuff because of that. It's really hard, because she's always so nice to me, but I really don't like the way she behaves or talks. I know she tries to fit in, but I feel guilty about not really liking her and venting about how annoying she is to my friends when she acts so nice. Any advice?

Q: my friend she was telling me or well asking me we basically talk about everything to eachother and well yeah you know she said when she peas it burns and then she saids there is like blood rushed to her vagina but idk what to tell her any advice on what this may be like an infection or somehting idk

Q: lately my best friend has been acting different and it's just confusing me and making me annoyed. she comes into school in the morning and seriously acts like a zombie, im not kidding, like i'll say something to her and she won't even answer. i mean everyone has those days- and she's obviously not a morning person, but it's EVERY SINGLE DAY. and if i'm around her in the morning, she just puts me in a bad mood, cause like she'll just pass me in the hall and not say anything and if she does, it's hardly anything.

also, i'm not a mean person or anything but she's also been acting kinda bitchy. of course again, everyone acts like one at some point, but it's just making me not wanna be around her, even though i love her to death and she's my best friend. like today in history, my teacher was handing our tests back and she accidently gave mine to my best friend (it must have been mixed in with her papers) my teacher noticed that she didn't have all the tests to give back and asked if anyone had some mixed in. so my friend had mine, and a few minutes later i JOKINGLY said to her "you stole my test" and she flipped out like omggg no i didn't she handed it to me. then, later, when school was over, i was talking to my other best friend, along with this one, and mentioned that she "stole my test", again, joking-yet she was like stop saying that she handed it to me blaaah. like i've been best friends with her since 4th grade and she doesn't realize i'm joking?! it's not like i said it seriously..idk.

it's just weird and unlike her. when we hang out outside of school, she's usually fine (except for the fact she'll like leave at 9 pm willingly, we're 15 almost 16, who stays out to only 9?) i have 4 classes with her in school, so i see her a lot and half of the time she is in a bad/weird mood, so i try not to say much, but when i do, half the time she comes back with something bitchy, and she ends up putting ME in a bad mood. i'm confused, i wanna say something to her, but i'm sure she'll come back with something, and we'll end up in a fight. what should i do? sorry for the length, thankss.

Q: ok i need help. i like this guy and he likes me back. weve known each other since the summer and have hung out every weekend. now its been time that i want to have a relation ship and so dose he should i ask him out or let him do that??????

Q: My friend LOVES my b/f, literally. She walks up him(while i am around) and pushes me over and says "Hi Zach-y" and flirts with him. I have told her MULTIPLE MULTIPLE times that she needs to stop. Because now like when me and my b/f walk down the halls holding hands she runs up in between us and says "Hey Zach-y why are you and (my name) holding hands? You know that when you and her break up i am tottaly gonna go out with you!(then she blows him a kiss and skips away)"

Now i KNOW that he is not going out with her also.

When she talks to him like calls hime "Zach-y" he looks disgusted then stares at me like "why the F*ck are you friends with her???" he has recently started not sitting with me becuase of her. He has told me that he can't stand her and he tells me to tell her and i do. I am afriad that my friend is jepordizing my relationship(with an AMAZING guy)

WHAT DO I DO?

Q: My best friend has been really upset lately, and every time i ask what is wrong, she says nothing. but im not stupid, i know when something is wrong. should i just leave her alone, or should i keep asking her what is wrong? i know she wants me to know, she just wont tell me. i know this because she will half bring up that she is upset and then drop it. im pretty sure i know what it is, and i want to help her, but she wont let me. idk, what do u think? thanks,

Q: so i sometimes talk alot but in classes i dont talk that much at all.. and when i am around friends it is like i run out of things to say? i have met some new people but i dont really talk to them so they think im quiet, what are some things i could talk about and what are some tips on being more outgoing?

Q: my friend and i have been friends for a while now but when we came to the middle school a few years ago she found other friends (the popular girls) and now she doesnt hang with us or anything. we are so mad at eachother that we dont speak to one another. i just dont think we will ever be friends again. does anyone know how i should handle this or what i should do?

Q: okay so i hav this friend who i think looks like she's about my age and she is but alot of ppl think she's like 10 years older then me. How old would you say that she looks?

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Q: Okay, i moved about 3 months ago and i had to leave my best friend behind :(. When i left she was mad and slammed the door in my face, we worked out that whole argument and everything is good but we miss eachother terriably! I mentioned to her how my mom had to go back home(thats what i call it) next week and i might come with her she got excited and asked what day, i told her wednesday but really we're going on monday, i want to suprise her but i have no idea how to go about it. I'm hoping we'll get there before she gets home from school so i can sit on her steps with a sign or something. But do yall have any good ideas on how to suprise her? Keep in mind its been about 3 1/2 months since we've seen eachother. THANKS!!

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