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need help on being more outgoing
so i sometimes talk alot but in classes i dont talk that much at all.. and when i am around friends it is like i run out of things to say? i have met some new people but i dont really talk to them so they think im quiet, what are some things i could talk about and what are some tips on being more outgoing?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Okay first thought
-be confident..
just find some jokes online go tell them about it
something you did the day before that talk to them about it.
just talk about random stuff
beleive me
you know when they say kissing comes naturally and you go with the flow even if you dont know how to do it.
This is much easier!!!!
--ICEICEBABYM
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Hi,
Being more outgoing takes a little bit of creativity. With your friends maybe you find out (if you dont already know) things that they like to do. For instance, lets say one of your friends likes to go bowling. Ask him/her if they would like to go do that on one weekend. It will make for great conversation and you will have fun. Bring your camera to take pictures. Go to the movie theatre, have a girls night out. If you dont have any money just a simple how was your day and let them know you want details good or bad. This will allow your friends to be more open to you and you will have more to talk about with them. You may have the chance to make someone's day brighter simply by talking. Hope it helps!
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There's a few things you can do to be more outgoing. The best thing to do is don't stress about it! If you spend all your time worrying about what's the perfect thing to say, you'll find that it's harder thinking of something to talk about. Just say whatever's on your mind (as long as it isn't hurtful) and be open. Also, try to feel happy on the inside because people will see you as being positive and more approachable and they'll want to talk to you. Be really nice and try to say at least one thing to your friends everyday. Just don't worry about what to say. The best thing to do is observe what's going on around you. You'll be surprised at how many things you notice around the room if you just pay attention. Just make comments about whatever you see. Good luck
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