My best friend has been really upset lately, and every time i ask what is wrong, she says nothing. but im not stupid, i know when something is wrong. should i just leave her alone, or should i keep asking her what is wrong? i know she wants me to know, she just wont tell me. i know this because she will half bring up that she is upset and then drop it. im pretty sure i know what it is, and i want to help her, but she wont let me. idk, what do u think? thanks, <3bob.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? yoliv answered Tuesday October 9 2007, 4:46 pm: Yo.
It will be annoying but you really should keep on asking. She will eventually get annoyed and tell you. If that doesnt work... get more of her friends to talk to her about it. If THIS doesnt work maybe talk to your school guidance councler or her/your mom. (Moms usually know what to do) If THIS doesnt work then I got nothing but i dont think that it will really go that far ;)
Just keep on asking and you should be able to get it out of her. :)
Hope I helped!!:):)
-YOLIV :) [ yoliv's advice column | Ask yoliv A Question ]
blackrose13 answered Tuesday October 9 2007, 4:38 pm: I Know this might be stupid but
BE ANNYOING..
like make it come out of her im like that when i want to tell somone that theres something wronge i feel more comfortable if thyre like dont worry il help you or comone dont feel embaraced or stuff like that do that to her.. so that she will feel comfortable and let out her feelingsto you ..
sunnyville answered Tuesday October 9 2007, 1:59 pm: Keep insisting until she tells you the truth,tell your friend that she can trust you,that you will help her with whatever it is,and that she can always count on you. [ sunnyville's advice column | Ask sunnyville A Question ]
scootermclisle answered Tuesday October 9 2007, 12:01 pm: Keep asking. If your friend is bringing it up that she's upset, she obviously wants your support. And if you have a suspicion as to why she's upset, it would be a good idea to ask her if your suspicions are right. Be direct, and try to figure out what's wrong. Unless she tells you to stop, in which case, stop. [ scootermclisle's advice column | Ask scootermclisle A Question ]
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