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I'm just not interested in him - at all! How can I tell him
I'm a girl, 18 years old, and recently I was talking to this guy on an internet dating site. Through our conversation we found out that we had in fact attended the same high school and now were going to the same college - him being 3 years my senior. Even more weird, he turned out to be the best friend of MY best friend's older brother. Now he wants to meet in real life and he won't stop messaging me about it. (he says things like, "let's meet up at [our mutual friend's] house,") I don't have any desire to date him, or meet him at all. Even if he's my friend's brother's friend, I still don't want to. How can I make him realize that those two instant message conversations (only two!) didn't mean as much to me as they did to him?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
If you really don't want to, tell you are really busy and can really 'hang out' at this time.
Or, if you know he only wants to meet you to date you, tell him you are not interested in dating anyone right now.
He should understand. :)
Sincerely,
Lou
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okay before you jump to anything and be all i dont like you and stuff maybe hese just being friendly. Meet him talk to him normally when he accually tels you he likes you then you sit down and tell him that your not into being in a 'reliationship ' with him ritenow.. Be straight forward.But for now, jusst keep it real
hope i helped....
*iceicebabyM*
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Just tell him you aren't interested in dating anyone and that since he is, it would be a waste of his time to meet you. Tell him he should try and find someone who is looking for the same thing as him. That being said, why don't you want to meet him? You could meet him on a strictly friends basis. There's no harm in having more friends.
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