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my friend is acting weird.
lately my best friend has been acting different and it's just confusing me and making me annoyed. she comes into school in the morning and seriously acts like a zombie, im not kidding, like i'll say something to her and she won't even answer. i mean everyone has those days- and she's obviously not a morning person, but it's EVERY SINGLE DAY. and if i'm around her in the morning, she just puts me in a bad mood, cause like she'll just pass me in the hall and not say anything and if she does, it's hardly anything.
also, i'm not a mean person or anything but she's also been acting kinda bitchy. of course again, everyone acts like one at some point, but it's just making me not wanna be around her, even though i love her to death and she's my best friend. like today in history, my teacher was handing our tests back and she accidently gave mine to my best friend (it must have been mixed in with her papers) my teacher noticed that she didn't have all the tests to give back and asked if anyone had some mixed in. so my friend had mine, and a few minutes later i JOKINGLY said to her "you stole my test" and she flipped out like omggg no i didn't she handed it to me. then, later, when school was over, i was talking to my other best friend, along with this one, and mentioned that she "stole my test", again, joking-yet she was like stop saying that she handed it to me blaaah. like i've been best friends with her since 4th grade and she doesn't realize i'm joking?! it's not like i said it seriously..idk.
it's just weird and unlike her. when we hang out outside of school, she's usually fine (except for the fact she'll like leave at 9 pm willingly, we're 15 almost 16, who stays out to only 9?) i have 4 classes with her in school, so i see her a lot and half of the time she is in a bad/weird mood, so i try not to say much, but when i do, half the time she comes back with something bitchy, and she ends up putting ME in a bad mood. i'm confused, i wanna say something to her, but i'm sure she'll come back with something, and we'll end up in a fight. what should i do? sorry for the length, thankss.
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Something may be going on horrably in her life right now and she just doesn't know how to react to it. The best thing to do is to let her know that you are there for her.
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I think there may be something going on at home, or something else that's really bothering her. She doesn't know how to express her feelings, so instead she's bottled up with anger and silenced herself from her friends, including you. I think you should catch up with her sometime, and talk to her about it. Ask her what's wrong, and whatever it is you'll be there for her and be happy to help her if you can. Hopefully, this will make her comfortable enough to let you know what's really going on and you'll be able to help her in someway.
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It sounds like something might be wrong with her becausr proplr dont act this way for no reason
Maybe theres somehing bugging her that she just doesnt know how to say it
Ask her round and chat with r and say it nicely and stuff but just try and find out i theres anything wrong.
hope this helps
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You should invite her around to yours for a chat. Ask her why she is acting this way.
Maybe something is wrong at home or school work is stressing her out, idk it could be a number of things but the best way to find out is talk to her and ask her whats wrong.
Say something like "your my best friend and you can tell me anything so if there is something wrong you know you can tell me"
As for leaving at 9pm she may have a cerfew. Her parents may tell her she has to be home at a certain time. Instead of hanging outside school at night ask if she wants to come back to yours at around 8pm for a little while or maybe sleep over.
Hope everything goes okay
I hope this helped
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theres probably something bothering her i say leave her for like a couple of days and after those days if it starts to get worse i say talk to her about it and if she doesnt wanna tell you about it tel her how you feel and that you dont like the way she is and that you kno... etc.. the things you feel inside you
-hope i helped
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You know, something just might be bothering her. And although you are really good friends, she could be afraid to tell you or doesn't want to speak about it. Imagine doing a 360 like she has with her attitude. What would cause you do be like this?? Is there anything that might be making her like this? Do you know her parents, maybe you could ask them. I only suggest that because if she is always coming back at you with sarcastic/rude remarks, then it's hard to say what you can ask her without her being offended or pissed off about it. If I've missed something or you need to ask anything else, don't hesitate to ask, Good Luck.
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