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Friend problems?
Can someone please tell me what to do? I'm really crying my heart out right now because I think my best friend is mad at me, but I don't know what I did! It was maybe 2 days ago that when I'd try talking to her, or asking her why she's mad, she would just ignore me. She used to hate these 6th graders on my bus because they were annoying but now she's talking to them like she's their best friend. (We're in 7th grade) I don't know what I did! Sometimes she'd talk to mee like nothing was wrong, and then I'd try to talk to her again, she'd ignore me! Then it would happen again. I'm not sure if she's mad at me and my other 2 best friends, or just me. Sometimes she'd make gestures that told she was annoyed or something. Yesterday I asked her why she was mad, and she said she wasn't, she said it over and over again, but I know it's a lie, you can tell she's lying. Today she ignored me, and then again I tried asking her why she was mad, guess what? She STILL ignored me, and I was literally about to burst into tears but I held it in. I can barely breathe now because I'm crying so hard. We ARE really good friends, I swear we are, or maybe were, I could tell her ANYTHING, we've been BESTIES since last year. A LOT of people which most are my friends, would make fun of her all the time! And she wouldn't mind! We've been doing it since last year! I don't think she minds, but if she did, she would've been mad wayyyy earlier last year. I keep saying sorry, even if I didn't do anything, I don't know what I did. Please don't say to back off because I know! I just really want to why she's mad, and what's wrong. Please help me, tell me what to do. She's changed. She's plays this game "Maplestory" and she's obsessed with it! I'm SERIOUS. She's going to marrry some guy she met, and maple, her maple BF and friends are consuming her life, I miss my old friend. I know she pick her BF over her friends anyday. Then her Maplestory friends. I think it's really stupid that she's LOVE some guy over the internet, I just can't convince that it's wrong. I've told her plenty of times how dangerous it is, and how it's just useless, but nothing works. This isn't just with her. Last year I had the BEST OF FRIENDS. Now I barely get to see HALF of them, they moved, they don't have ANY of my classes, OR they've moved on and made new best friends. Yes. They ditched me. This one girl we were BEST BUDDIES last year. We could tell eachother ANYTHING. We hung out a lot. If she had a Myspace last year, she would be my #1 in my top friends, now I wouldn't even put her in there. I think her preppy life has changed her. Same with some of my other friends. I just miss my old friends. Where did they go? Maplestory has changed my friend. Most of everyone changed, and I feel like a piece of old trash/news to them, cause they have "better" friends to hang out with. Trust me, I DO NOT have the guts to confront them. I just can't. So please, someone help, I'm stilling crying HARD. I just miss my friends.
She's also keeping me as friend on Myspace, and I'm still number one on her top friends! I just don't understand. Why won't she tell me? I'll understand. I'll understand if she thinks I'm annoying, I know I am, if that's the case. It also seem like she would talk to everyone else, except for 3 CERTAIN people. I'm one of them, and the 2 are my other best friends. We're the top 3 who like to make fun of her. In a funny way. On Myspace, she still talks about her BFF's which she states, is us 3, but she's probably lazy to delete it. If she does decide to stop acting this way, then I won't know if she's just faking our friendship, which I know I'm not faking.
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You are a true friend, I respect you greatly.
It is nothing you did, she is just being a jerk, she seems to be trying to get a reaction out of you, which seems to be working.
My advice is to don't bother anymore.
Let her talk to her cool 6th grade friends and whatnot. Take a break from her, just don't talk to her. Don't get me wrong, if she talks to you, be friendly. But it seems to be time to find some other friends. Talk to someone new. This girl seems to be playing with your mind, and you don't need that right now.
Try not to put people under the "best friends" catagory, it always seems to blow up in your face one way or another. Stick with being friendly to everyone and making friends. She might crawl back, if she does don't expect everything to be hunky dorry forever, because she might just do it again. Be friends with her, not best friends.
You are mature and very caring, possibly try making friends a little older than you, you would probably get along better with them.
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hey,
Your a good friend..scratch that..a GREAT FRIEND..if you're trying to find what's wrong with your bestfriend and she's giving you the cold shoulder and you can't take that for answer...GIRL YOU GO GUTS, you have a really good heart!!!!!
first off, you have a right to be mad,angry, confused,sad,depressed or all of the above. i'm a sophmore(10th grader) in highschool and i'm ALWAYS going through what you're currently going through. Your right about your best friend being mad at you, so that's why you need to just act like you don't care anymore. TRUST ME, after 2 days she's going to be like hey____(your name) and then act like nothing ever happened between you guys. this WILL DEFINITELY WORK..100% guarantee. And don't stress about it..you guys will be friends in a couple of days, just watch and see..good friends always end up back together. Oh, and other things might be bothering her too, so don't think it's you. And she might get tired of you saying "sorry" or "what's wrong."
"don't make someone a priority if they don't make you an option" [keep that in mind :]
HOPE I HELPED
***HERSHI WISHES HUGS AND KISSES***
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haha woahh you type alot for a 7th grader:P haha you sound pretty mature aswell and i respect that:D anyways moving on to advice,No one will accualy know how to tell you why shes mad at you,Maybe when you were making fun of her she took something seriouse but wanted to keep it in at that moment, ask her one more time whats wronge and if she ignores you i think you should ignore her back,, honestly thats what id do i mean clearrly she wants attention,and if she sees you ignore her she will come back running to you trust me it happens alot to people just try it,dont be desprite for her love hun theres alot out there
-hope i helped
-ICEM
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