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Hi my name is Katie i'm 15 and i live in baltimore county I'm super nice sooo don't be afraid to ask me ok well i'm into goth/punk stuff I love all kinds of music rap/rock/pop/hiphop♥ I have a kitten her name is Patches well my fave food is pizza,and my fave icecream is french vanilla and I will alwayz find time to answer your questions♥Bye ♥
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okay i have a friend and i am on the phone with her and she wants me to come over and i dont know if i want to go bacause i dont really like her sisters and i dont want to go what are some good excuses you can think of that I can get out of this i really need this help my mom said i could but i dont want to so she asks me and i say i dont know but i need a excuse but i dont want it to be mean so please give me some good excuses
love brittany
Well you could say you and your parents are going out,or you can say you are having company
say you don't feel well, you know those kind of things good luck i have that problem all the time
hope i helped bye♥
luv Kate05
My best friend and I have been friends for about 8 years and we go together like pb and j. Now I'm starting to feel jealous of her because she's got a lot more friends than me and I think she's a lot prettier and skinnier and funnier and all that. I KNOW she won't abandon me no matter how many other friends she has, but I just hate being jealous.
This happens i'm jelouse of my bfff to try to ignor it and just hang out with her more or you could start a conversation with diffrent people and make new friends Hope i helped hope every thing works out with you bye♥
Send me feed back Bye♥
OK my best friend ashley is comming to visit me from CO on sunday and i dont want her to be bored or anything while she is here! Does anyone have any ideas of what we can do?? Thx a bunch!
You guys could invite some more friends over and have a slumber party or somthin♥ also you guys can play this game called confess or stress
HERES HOW U PLAY♥
1.you will need to dice
2.you roll the die and if you roll an even number your have to confess somhtin embrassing
3.if you roll an odd number you have to do somthing stressful
Its kind of like truth -or- Dare you guys could watch movies or play boardgames stuff like that you can even give each other make overs hope i helped Bye ♥
im going to sleep over my friends house today..but the thing is i havent seen her in a yr and we were really friends b4 but weve been talking on the internet alot, the problem isnt lik im scared shes a creep its just that im scared it will be awkward! i can get really shy sometimes and the number 1 thing i hate is awkward silences!! is there any thing to do to make sure we'll both have fun???
p.s. i sweat alot too so is there anything i can do for that?
-awkward
Just be calm when you walk in and don't make yourself feel uncomfortable just be calm and theres this game you guyz can play called confess or stress kind of like truth or dare♥
HERES HOW U PLAY♥
1.you will need two dice if you roll an even # you confess somthin embarassing
2.if you roll an odd # you have to do somthin stressful ♥ thats all i can think of hope i helped Bye♥
P.S If you are that worried about sweating then bring some deoderant :-)♥lol...
we've been out of school for a long time and i didnt do one thing with a friend. if one person is doind something with someone already they wont let you do anything with them =( they wont get a big group of girls to hang with or anything. EVERYBODY has something to do and they wont let me come i mean i thought i had real friends but... and my so called "best friend" doesnt talk to me online and in her shout outs she is puttin' me at the bottom of her list i mean i cant stand it with these girls they dont talk to me or call me i call them n they always say i cant do anything n then i look at thier a/m and its hanging with my girls or something like that. HOW DO I GET "REAL" FRIENDS??? PLEASE HELP I WILL RATE HIGH FOR GOOD ANSWERES.
Sound to me you have some crappy friends i mean they are sooooo rude :( do yu know any other classmates phone #'s or actually call your friend like the day before and make plans or yuo could stay inside and watch T.V and eat junk food or maybe you could draw pics or Read!!! a BOOK!!! it won't hurt ya or you could go out by your self and casually run into them you know what i mean:-P
Hope i helped good luck send me feed back Bye :-)
hey i have this friend, lets say her name is allie, well me n "allie" are supposed to be good friends, but now that we've grown older, i've matured just a bit more, im not into the stuff she likes any more, like she's more of a tom boy, and i like sports n stuff, but like at the movies and the mall, she HATES goin into stores like claires and forever 21, and anything wit too much "girl" stuff, but i go into stuff i dont like as in spencers and K B toys, she refuses to go where i wanna go, but i go where she wants to just to be a good fair friend,we've kind of split up when it cumz to interest, and i dont wanna be her friend, cuz we agree on almost nuttin, the problem is i live rite behind her in a manner of speaking me n "allie" "share" backyards, and when we start high skool next year, all of our church groups will be help at her house, and if im not her friend, i'd feel awkward, what should i do
also im a soon to be 14 yr old, and her n my sis and her n my bro are GOOD friends, and i just dont want her to get upset because she considers me her Best Friend
sry i've written so much, and if its confusin lemme kno and ill try to edit it!
Confused in Concord
well dont end the friend ship over that i mean maybe you guyz have to have at least one thing in common i have the same prob only im the tomboy and my friend is the girly girl we both love to shop til we drop and stuff like that you guyz like to shop together right?well when you want to go somplace she dont want to go just tell her you will just go in you no tell her you guyz dont have anything in common and you two can sit down a figure out what u do have in common its your choice if you want to end the friend ship hope i helped bye good luck send me feed back bye:-)
my friend is anorexic and i need to persuade her to tell and adult, before i do. what should i say?
thx
U tell an adult right away and tell her she is hurtin herself you know she can die from that im really sorry to say what she is doing is stupid if you don't act now she will get soooo skinny her bones will show and they will have to insert a feeding tube so she can live i know you don't want that to happen and i know you don't want her to go in to an early grave don't wait until she tells tell someone now so they can get her better ok:-) Good uck hope i helped send me feed back Bye Good luck again:-)
Ok,i have this "friend"...Sarah. I dont like Sarah...and i dont want her to be friends with my friends...cause if she is i know she is going to soak up all the attension,they'll like her,she'll turn them against me, and leave me out of everything. I hate her..shes so mean to me. How can i stop thinking about her,not care about her,and just make it so im not her friend..but not her enemy? Please dont be mean in you answers...i want to let go of her..but not be an enemy. Please help i'll rate high.
One thing i can tell you is to avoid her i have the same prob but what i do is i talk to her now and then be a little friendly but the whole i dont want her to be with my friends thing for one thing she sounds rude and what i can tell you is not to go where she is forexample if she is headin twards you just turn around and walk the other way hope i helped good luck send me feed back pleze thnx:-)
Okay , this girl moved from another part of the town to the part i live in around last year . I was quite popular in school. I became friends with her because i thought she was sweet and friendly. But since last month ( or maybe even before that ,who knows?) she started backstabbing me , but still acted nice and sweet and oh-so-innocent in front of me .I have been busy for some time because of some commitments i have , so i didn't realise this until last week . None of my old friends talk to me as much as before , and now even when i sms my best guy friend , he'll talk about her smsing him at the same time .And it seems as though all of them like her more than they like me , and my best guy friend ( former ? ) he'll say stuff like :" oh , me and her and ___ and ___ and ___ are real close man " Without even including ME ! And if he wants to go somewhere he'll say :"if she goes , i'll go . " It turns out she's been saying stuff behind my back , and now , SHE'S where i used to be , with MY friends , and MY popularity .Even my crush seems to sorta like her , and pay attention to her like how he used to do with me . WHAT SHOULD I DO ?
Man you are in a tough situation shes acting like a b**** sounds to me that shes like taking the life you had man that sucks break the friend ship and try to hang out with your other friends more who cares about the crush hes probly missing out on a great girl and tell her you know whats going on and if she spreds rumors just ignor them it will blow over soon give me feed back bout what happend
Good luck :-)
ok it s then end of the school i have one week left of school. my used to be best friend has been acting like a bitch to me and my other best frien. she has been getting into our bussiness trying to find out stuff about us without asking US about it.. well he started all these rumors all aorund the school that my best friend two timed her ex boyfriend which wasnt even try... so me and my best friend went off on her and for abouta month now we havent been talking but she talks shit about me right in front of me to the other people. i was 3 way with my other friend an i heared her talking about me so i put a messed up picture on a website of her and now she has the nerve to go and tell a teacher. she even told the teacher about my sn which is supposed to be bad beacause it has the words "sexy" in it but anyways my question is how can i make things OK with her and not be her friend. she really isnt a good friend but if i dont make things OK with her i will get into big trouble and the teacher will have a parent teacher conferance. sorry this is long but i need some help!
Well for one thing you need to dump her butt shes not actin like a true friend and you are right.And another thing she needs to stay out of your buisnuss so just avoid her good luck
From -Kate05-
I have a friend and she is one of my best freinds and she is really nice when hanging around me but when she starts hanging out with one of these popular girls at school she starts calling people retards and idiots and gay. we hate this one girl at school and we talk about her because she gets on our nerves. after that, the next day right after she has talked about her she goes behind my back and hangs out with her how do i get to know if she goes behind my back and talks about me and just hangs around me because she wants to tell people what i say and stuff that i do????
Sounds to me she is using you why are you still her friend if she does that i have the same problem what i did was i started hanging out with new friends and i would say try to avoid her as much as you posibly can then you'll soon forget you were even friends now mostly all my best friends are guys im having the time of my life and i forgot about my old friend so try that and see how it goes try to hang out with a new crowd if she comes running back to you tell her how you feel a request you stop being friends but try not to be rude about the situation. -Kate05-
P.S Good Luck
My friend is going to be moving and I was planning for a couple of weeks to throw a going away party for her, and I informed her about it because I knew that in her busy schedule, I wanted to pick out a time that would work. Now I hear that her other friend, who is being really clingy, is also throwing a party for her. I've known her longer, and I know her better. I also know all of her friends better. I want to spend time with my friend and throw her this party that I was telling her all about, but I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings! Any suggestions?
Maybe you and her other friend can work together and plan a big bash that way she can spend time with both you and the clingy one
Put two heads together and make a greay party
P.S Good Luck !!!!
Would you be someone's friend still even though that person always went back on her word on things she say? Becuase I'm having that problem with my friend named J-lo, and I don't really want to be friends with J-lo anymore. because when I stop talking to her beacuse she goes back on her word with things, she always tries to talk to me agian and be my friend again then, tell every one who's her friend that i'm not her friend then everybody ends up asking me all these damn questions why I'm not J-lo's. And I'm sick of it, cause this kinda be happenin every 3 or 2 times a week. And I need advice what to do.
I think you should talk to your friend about whats going on tell her how you feel and if she still does it calmly tell her you dont want to be her friend any more. Friend do that maybe shes going back on her word because shes maybe jelous or even mad at you so just talk and see what happens