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14/f. okay in the past month or so i've noticed that in the back of my head there is this spot of hair that is very oily. it is right in the back of my head all the way at the top by my scalp. it is very annoying and it actually LOOKS oily. so here are my questions:

1) what is it??
2) how do i get rid of it??

THANKS SO MUCH!! i would really like to get this taken care of before schoool starts.

I use to have the same problem :]


To help it, try different shampoo`s. Different ones affect different people. Most likely your hair is oily because you are eather missing that spot while washing.. or your growing up ;] It makes your body get all out of wack & it can affect your oil producers.


Try different shampoo`s and make sure you wash your hair once a day. That will help keep the oil down. Some of my friends, on the other hand.. have to wash their hair 2 times a day.. once in the morning and once at night.. just depends on which works for you. Most likely you`ll grow out of it :]
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what are water bras???

It`s like any other bra, the cups have water in them. Most females wear them to make their chest appear larger.
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wellll so. im a girl for starters.
so what should i wear for my drivers liscense becuase like i dont want to wear something that makes the picture look bad.

I wouldn`t over do it.. it`s a drivers liscense picture. Most of the time it`s just a head shot. Try a cute shirt & doing your hair cute, but not over doing it. Something styleish but yet comfortable.. & not very many people look at liscense pictures.


Anything you wear i`m sure you`ll be fine.. heck in mine - I have a black eye :] - Just be excited you passed the test & try comfomiee stylish :] It works for this perfectly.. good luck.
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Well, before the "in" thing was prep. Right? Well, now everyone is like be "original." Now, Original is becoming UnOriginal. I really don`t know what to do. Because I meen I want to be myself, and stand out. Before I was PREPPREPPREPPREP. & then I decided I wanted to become original because I got sick of everything. But, now, everyone wants to be Original, and its like a new trend. Original is suppose to be original!! not a TREND. I really dont know what to do anymore. I just want to be myself. 14/f.


ps im a REALLY bad speller

Don`t worry about the spelling - so am I :]


If you want to be yourself, then be yourself. Most people follow trends to fit in, when if people just took a look around, its not how your dress, it`s how you act. If someone was the best dress person in the world but was rude & selfish... they wouldn`t be as well liked as if say they were poorly dressed, but nice, kind & helpful. (if that makes sense).


If you find yourself most comfortable in prep clothes then go for it, if you want to wear skater clothes then go for it.. it is no written down somewhere that tells you how you have to be. If you want to be yourself then do whats you.


Prep, skater, goth :: all those are just names. People shouldn`t use them.. beacuse they are pointless.. someone doesn`t dress a certin way to be "prep, or goth" they dress that way beacuse it makes them comfortable.


Everyone wanting to be original is good, but it`s a trend. Why can`t everyone just dress how they want without being labled ? Be you, dress you, and don`t let people lable you.


Anyone someone dresses, is a trend, beacuse people copy other people and make it popular. If people just did their own thing, and didnt care what other people wanted to see worn.. then we wouldnt have trends. There are people in the world that will only talk to other people dressed like them.. and thats what makes trends.


I`m sick of everything also, I want everyone to be themselves. If all else fails just be yourself, dress how you want, and if someone says something about it, tell them to shutup, beause you are you and there is nothing they can do to change that..
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The question is simple but the answer might be abit more complex! "Is life fair"? And please no answers lile "it's as fair as you make it"!!

No, it`s not. Some people that desirve alot, have nothing, and people who should get nothing at all have everything. In life you don`t always get what you want, and some people don`t even get what they need. Some people think life is, as far as my personal opinion, no it`s not.
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hey,
I am a 14/f and I live in Washington State. (spokane if that helps) I turn 15 in acouple months and I know your allowed to take drivers ed once you turn 15. I have alot of questions about this. When can I take it? Only during the summer or during the school year too? Is 15 the right age? Where can I take drivers Ed.? And anything else you know about would be REALLY appreciated. Thanks soooo much xoxoxo

I just took mine about a month ago :]


Where I live. Missouri. You can take your permit test when you are 15 years old. (15 1/2 for a motorcycle). You can take it anytime you want. During the school year, summer, spring break ; when ever you are ready to take it. I took mine the day of my birthday and I even had a black eye in my permit picture (great I know, haha)


You should have a Drivers Ed. book that you have been studing out of (if not you can get one at the place your parents go to get their lisencs pictures). When you get that book if you look in the INDEX it should tell you where you can call or even a website that will tell you the nearest place to take the test. Also, the book will tell you what you will need to bring with you when you take your test. (Almost everywhere you need a copy of your birth certificicate (wow I can`t spell that word) & your social sercuirty card. (Your parents should know where those are.)


Good luck on your test & don`t worry - it`s not that bad.. even with a black eye :]
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i dont know how to talk to people,i mean my friends- yeah but a new person comes and im with people that i dont really know i just stay shy,how cna i open up? any tips? how can i sound like i have a nice personality? anything will help!!

Ask them questions about themselves - Where they go to school, how old they are.. simple things like that. (don`t make everything go on forever).


Be yourself. If you like to make jokes then make jokes. If you want to compiment them on something then go for it. Don`t hold back when you meet new people. Talk to them as though they are your friends (you never know, one day they could end up being one). Just be yourself it`s the most important thing to do.
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When I am asleep and on my period, I don't usually bleed... Is this normal?

Tottaly normal ! Nothing to worry about :]
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Hey im 15/f i just got braces a little over a month ago.. and before i got braces i was really outgoing and was always wanted to be the center of attention. But now that i have braces i've noticed that i dont want to be that anymore because of my braces.. i guess im self consious.. Is there anything i can tell myself or do to make me become less self consious and be myself again? Any advice would help! thanks

I had braces & trust me, I understand what you mean, but you have to remember that braces are pieces of metal stuck to your teeth. You shouldn't be self consious. Sure they are funky looking & everything, but if you notice how many people have braces these days.. you like 1 in a zillion. Don't let metal get in the way of your fun and happiness. Just be yourself, and in a few months.. thats braces will be gone and you will have perfect teeth !


Just remember that you are 1 in a zillion & that you're not alone in the world from a metal mouths :] Don't worry.. everything is okay, its wire and rubber-bands. Just be yourself, and no one will even know the difference.
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if i started to shave my arms, would the hair grow darker and longer?

ps. my arm hairs are black

Yes, it will, but you can always shave it off if it's starting to grow back.
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do you think getting fingered or giving a handjob is to slutty for a 13 yr old? thanks♥

If you feel comfortable with it, and you understand what you are doing, and why you are doing it then no.


There isn't a right or wrong age for stuff like that. When you feel ready, then you are ready. No one can tell you when that is, but yourself.


Sometimes it's not the smartest thing to do, but if you feel as though you are ready & you are comforable with your choice, then no one can tell you differnt. It's mostly what you think of yourself, and how you view stuff like that on your own personal level.
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if i slept with a bra on would that make my boobs stop growing?! and if it doesnt would that at least make my boobs rounder

No, not true. It can be uncomfortable thou, but if you find it comfy then sleep in one, if not, then don't worry about it, nothings going to happen because of it.
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Oook, I know I sound like a foolish idiot by asking this but what does "fo shizzle my nizzle" mean? People say it all the time and I say it too, and I know people say it to "try" to act gangster but thats about it. Help ?

I use to not know eather - it means :: "for sure my n----r".
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I wasn't sure where to put this, because it's kind of a weird question. Bear it with me.

I'm a thirteen year-old girl and I'm bringing one of my friends with me on a three week long trip to Europe. She's very nice, low-key, and low-maintinence (sp?), so I'm not really worried about getting sick of her. My problem is, I'm afraid SHE'LL get sick of ME. I guess I tend to complain a lot, and stuff like that, but I really want to get better about that. Does anyone have any tips for becoming more self-aware and complaining less?

Take some time apart from each other. Just every once in a while. Don't be afarid to take time to yourself to just think & be alone.. everyone needs their own time. Good luck & have fun in Europe !
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im addicted to pot

That sucks..
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13/f

I have really large breasts, and unlike most girls, I hate it. Is there anything I can do that can make them appear smaller? Without buying anything, that is.

I have that same problem.. Wear a sports bra.. it kinda squishies them, haha. DO NOT USE TAPE !! It hurts.. so don't use tape... bad idea. You can also try cammies.. they also squish them :]
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im gay and ppl make fun of me 4 it should i try saying im not gay or just go with who i am

I think you already asked this one, but I'll anwser it in a different way.

Be who you are. People who make fun of you because you are differnt from them.. are stupid and need to grow up fast. They are not pefrect, everyone is different. Just be your self.. be proud to be gay, because if you weren't then who would you be ?
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im gay and kids r starting 2 make fun of me should i try 2 hide the fact that im gay or just b who i am ?

Be who you are, and be proud. Who cares what people say about you.. they are stupid and need to grow up. Be proud that you're gay.. and if someone says something about you, or to you.. ignore them. They don't know you. If your friends start to say stuff to you, then they arn't really your friends now are they ? So like I said.. Be who you are, and be proud of it.. beacuse if everyone else is already taken.. so who would you be ?
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Hey babe!! Hannah I looked at yo other profile...it said you were ummm what do you call it...banned. lmao! Its been a long time since I've been on here. lol..well just stopping by and saying hi..love ya!!


Liz

Ha, yeah.. thanks !! Love ya too.
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would it be weird to talk to your dead grandmother portait about things? cause i know a friend that does it and it helps her or something

No, it would be the same as talking to an animal. They don't talk back. She probablly does it, beacuse it helpes releave stress. She can talk about her problems without having to worry about them being told. It's totally normal.
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