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Well hello, hello.
It's been a while.


Well I use to be on advicenators a while back, & then life got way too busy & I no longer had time for it, & after I while I forgot all about advicenators. =/




I'm sorry guys. But I'm back.



Let me start over & introduce myself.
My names maria, but people call me smalls.
I'm 5 feet tall, which would explain why my nick name is smalls. ;]




I'm 17 years old, and a senior in high school.
I always gave great advice before but now that I'm older and wiser, I give
awesome advice.




I'm very open minded, so feel free to ask me anything. I never judge people & I'm
Always here if anyone needs a friend. =]




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is there a way you can make your hair grow faster?


hey =]

well i actually have a few things you can do.
someone once told me that crushing birth control pills and putting them in your shampoo can make your hair grow longer, the thing is some people say that its true & other says it false. My friend does it & she swears by it, but then again it may not work for everyone. & I'm not so sure that you can get birth control easily, but if anything you can go to a free
clinic & ask for some.
you could also try putting vinegar in your hair while taking a shower. its suppose to leave your hair with a smooth appearance & make your hair over all healthy, & once your hair is in better condition it will start to grow faster.
You can also go trim your hair a little bit because once you cut off your dead ends your hair will starts going faster.



Here are some other hair growing tips:

1. Eliminate or cut back on smoking, caffeine and carbonated sodas which weaken the body and block maximum hair growing potential.
2. Eat a healthy diet. Avoid foods that are high in sugar or fat.
3. Treat your hair like a piece of fine old lace. Treat it carefully avoiding any unnecessary brushing, combing or handling.
4. Avoid use of hot water, hot blow dryers or other hair care tools that may stress the hair.
5. Have a weekly scalp massage to provide stimulation to the hair follicles.
6. Do a series of ongoing hot oil treatments to protect the hair's shaft.
7. Have regular trims to eliminate split ends and allow the hair to look and feel healthier.
8. Get plenty of rest and sleep to allow your body to grow hair.

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when you shave down there, if you do; do you shave everything?
do you also shave like where the thighs are near the vagina area?

thanks

Hey

Well it's really just up to your personal preference. If it makes you more comfortable shaving everything then do so, but if it doesn't bother you, then don't worry about it. I personally shave everything. If you have any other questions please don't hesitate to ask.

♥ maria

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Hey i was thinking for my 16th birthday to go to New york city. I live right by the city so i go there all the time, so for my birthday i wanted to go somewhere or do somthing in the city that i have never done before. I have seen all the sight seeing my eyes can take and i hate broadway plays...way over-rated lol. so does anyone have any ideas, its the city that never sleeps there must be somthing cool to do. thanks!


Hey

My 16th birthday is coming up, really soon, & i'm also going to be doing something in the city. I live in brooklyn so it's less then an hour away.
What i'm doing is, getting a party bus to drive me & my friends around the city for like an hour or two, & then we are going out to eat in jaclyn and hyde club. Im 100% sure i spelled that wrong lol. Sorry if you want i can look up the spelling for it, if you want. But anyway its a cute little restaurant, where people jump out, at you & stuff. It's a scary theme. Or i was going to go iceskating in rockefeller center around 8ish. It should be beautiful around that time, with the tree all lite up.

You could use any one of my ideasss. =)

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OK so to get rid of stretch marks, whats that stuff called? And whats the brand, and where can i get it? Thanks in advance

Hey

I'm afraid that once you have stretch marks, there is no magic way of getting rid of them. The skin has stretched beyond what it was capable of and the marks are the result. The good news is that stretch marks will fade. Sorry, but once you have them, you are stuck with them. To make them fade faster you could try using Cocoa butter. Apply cocoa butter cream on affected stretch mark areas in the morning, after showers, and at night. You'll be gaping at the results within' a few months. You could buy cocoa butter at most local pharmacies or even at bath and body works.

♥ maria ♥

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I'm going to the USA in September of this year. Yes, I know that's quite a while away but this is going to be a busy year for me as I'm starting college. Anyway, I found some good air tickets on Qantas for $1100 and I have a week to nab them. I have the money and all.. I'm just curious. Should I wait until further on in the year? Or get the tickets now? For my own peace of mind I'd like some confirmation of when I'm going and that I'm definitley going, but I'm worried a better deal will come up.

Thanks.

Hey

I personally would get the tickets now only because that's one last thing for you to worry about. I mean you have the money saved up already; you are going 100%, the price is pretty good then what's stopping you?! Please don't tell me it's because of the risk of finding a better deal later on! You cant live your life waiting for a better buy to come along, if you do that then you'll never get anywhere in life. Let's say you don't buy the tickets now and all the prices go up then what?! You'll have to pay a lot more then you could have in the first place. You got nothing to lose. I say go buy the tickets and worry about what you really need to concentrate on.

♥ maria ♥

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how do you heal a nose ring infection?
i tried looking online but i keep hearing different things, so i don't know what to go by.
is it safe to use hydrogen peroxide?
some sites said yes, and some said no.
help?

Hey

It's safe to use hydrogen peroxide anytime. Some people even use hydrogen peroxide as a home remedy to whiten their teeth. If you could put it in your mouth then trust me it's safe to use on your infection. when i got my belly button pierced they told me to use hydrogen peroxide in order for my belly NOT to get infected. I suggest you do use hydrogen peroxide, and you should also betadine.
If you need anymore help just leave a comment in my inbox.

♥ maria ♥

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This is really weird and random, but has anyone seen the movie or opera "The Phantom of the Opera"? You know how Erik has that mask that covers half of his face? How does he get it to stay on? I didn't see and strings around his head to hold it in place

Hey

I actually saw both, the movie and the opera.
I got the chance to meet the actor who was playing Erik in the show and i asked him that exact same question. He said they use special kind of glue that keeps the mask on for hours. I'm pretty sure they do the same in the movie.

♥ maria ♥

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Hey what does Heritage mean ?



Hey

heritage:

Noun
1. Property that is or can be inherited; an inheritance. 2. Something that is passed down from preceding generations; a tradition. 3. The status acquired by a person through birth; a birthright: a heritage of affluence and social position.

If you have any other words you need to define then add smarterchild to your buddy list on aim. He's a robot that defines words and helps you with homeowork.

♥ maria ♥

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hi i was just wondering.. is anyone out there lebanese? because i speak arabic. and i am from lebanon i like know no one from my school that is lebanese. i hate tha no one really knows what i mean when i say that i miss my grandmother and aunts and uncles back in lebanon.. i try to accept the fake that i don't live there but its still really hard i love it so much and miss it so much.. i go there every summer and can't wait to go again thaxxxxxxxxxxxx so muchhhh :)

Hey

Umm why don't you try going into a chat room or site just for lebanese people. Here i googled it for you.


only search advicenators.com



I also searched on xanga blogrings and found some blogs you can join if you have xanga or you could just look around different people's pages that might have their screen names up, if they do just im them saying you liked their page and that your lebanese too! I'm sure they'll be more then happy to talk to you.

http://search.xanga.com/searchgroups.aspx?q=lebanese



♥ maria ♥

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Whats the code for the google thing on here?

Hey

The code is [ search ] wordshere [ /search ]

but there are NO SPACES IN BETWEEN.

♥ maria ♥

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i am really pale. i'm 15 and i can't drive yet, so i can't drive myself over to the tanning places, and my mom never wants me to tan. i've tried the mystic tan stuff before but it looks too orange on me. is there any kind of products that will make me look like i have a natural tan and that actually work?

Hey

Honestly all the products I have used pretty much sucked, and I bought some of the best self tanners out there. You could try Jergens Natural Glow, it was pretty good at first but then the color started to fade every time I used it. But it's worth a try. I personally only go tanning because it's the only thing that works for me. If your mom won't drive you, can't you take a bus?! Maybe ask one of your friends to take you, or convince one of your friends to go tanning with you, that way you'll have company and a ride.

♥ maria ♥

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ok my boyfriend wants to record me sayin somethin on his cellphone so when i call him it says what i say. so can someone tell me something sweet so say? thanks.. i will rate..

Hey

I have a really cute idea.

say:

Hi gorgeous

I've missed you so much

I had very naughty dreams about you

Are you ready to have some fun with me?


It's from one of my favorite techno songs.
It would be a VERY cute idea.

Or you could just say: Hey baby, i LOVE YOU!
that would be really sweet, and cute!

♥ maria ♥

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what kind of medicine helps sore throat, and coughs, and runny nose
i do rate high so please help me okay and if you give reasonable advice I will rate you high


Hey

Awww i'm gussing your sick! I'm sorry. Feel better baby doll! Umm let's see, what i use when i have a score throat, and runny nose is, Nyquil! Also i sometimes take Advil Cold and Sinus. Make sure to buy LOTS of Cough drops.

♥ maria ♥

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Does anyone know if the boys like the smell of britney spears curious perfume? I just got a box of it and lotion for christmas. So i was just wondering.

Hey

I personally HATE it! To me it smells so BAD!
My ex boyfriend smelled it once and hated it, so i don't know. I guess some boys are going to like it , and some aren't!

♥ maria ♥

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How would I properly say this sentence -

If I were you.
If I was you.


Hey

The correct way to say it, is " If i were you".

♥ maria ♥

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I'm going to buy the Nitendo (sp?) DS and I'm not sure which game to get, Zoo tycoon or Super Mairo. I'm 14/f and I hate the games that are like really hard to beat but with some chanlege and I've played both games befor. Which one do you reccomend?
Will, rate too!!!!!
Thanks!

Hey

Umm let's see i always had fun playing Super mario to be honest! So i would reccomend that! Oh also don't worry about it Super mario is way easier to play then Zoo tycoon. Zoo tycoon is more about work then play!


♥ maria ♥

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What is the best cell phone plan you can get.. I want to get pay as you go but where? Verizon, T-mobile..etc? thnxs



Hey

When it comes to the BEST pay as you go plan, i would say the BEST would have to be verizon. Next time you pass by the verizon store stop by and ask them, about all the details.

♥ maria ♥

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okay really random question. but in xoxo. which is the hug and which is the kiss?

Hey

The o is the hug
And the x is the kiss


♥ maria ♥

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I wanna new sn for aim but i can't think of any. Im 14/f if that helps any. I just want a really cute one Thanks


Hey

I already answered a question like this two days ago, so i hope you don't mind if i just copy and past it!

Do you like any of these:

clssicXdisaster
KymmiEE sMiiLeSs
DesiirabLee
careSsME
0bsessi0n
OoOh La La La
Laffy X Taffy
DESiREEEEE
daZZllling
DaZzling MEE
Bl3edingxR0seee < --- That's one of my sns except i have two e's in the end!
d1orable
likeDUHH
missFLiRTSs
NUMBER 01 WHORE
WHOREABLE
CoOkieeE
bloodyxromance
CrAzZyYBeaUtiFuL
DROPdeadGORGEOUS
FliRtaTeOus
im YUMMYY
simplyy KYMMIE
SoUnique

If you do like one, and deicide to use it , but it's already in use or something try adding numbers to the end, or putting x's and o's! If you need help with that just IM my sn DiOr BARBIEE or leave a comment in my inbox!

♥ maria ♥

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Do you think that giving your best friend a gift card is too impersonal?
Because the thing is even though we are really close I have no clue what to give her. Then any time I ask what she wants she just says, 'Whatever you know what I like.' And infact I do know what she likes but she seems to already have everything.
So is a gift card really something you could give a best friend?

♥ Thanks.


Hey

I'm going to be VERY honest with you sweetie! If she's your "BEST FRIEND" then yeah a gift card is a really bad idea! I don't know about your friend but i personally would be pretty upset, if not mad if i got a gift card from a best friend! The gift itself is a good idea, but not for someone your close to.
Why don't you buy her a card, fill it out with some warm,words and thoughts, on top of that get her some
perfume. I really like Fantasy by Britney Spears,PARIS HILTON for women, Angel, Gucci RUSH 2, Tommy Hilfiger True Star, Anna Sui Sui Dreams, Dolce & Gabbana Light Blue, those are just some of my favorites. If you don't think she'll like perfume try getting her a cute top, or jeans at hollister. I'm sure even if she shops there she doesn't own everything in the store. Here's a thought does she have her belly priced? If so try getting her a bunch of belly rings. You could always get her accessorizes. I really don't know alot about your friend,so if you want more ideas then simply just IM me on aim DiOr BARBIEE or leave a comment in my inbox! I'll be more then happy to help!

♥ maria ♥

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