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okay this is my first like real actual relationship and i've never been in love before...hence why im asking this question.
I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months now and i think im in love, i don't really know what love it but whenever im with him, i feel like thats where i wanna be forever and its corny but i always get those "butterflies" when im with him and thinking about him and he treats me like a goddess and he cares about me so much, and he proves it to me. I know its hard for someone else to have any say but what do you think? we haven't said I love you yet, I kinda want to but i want to make sure that i 100% mean it with all my heart before i say something like that
...any advice? or stories of when you said your first "i love you" and what happened? thankss.
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I would deffinetly say your falling for this boy.
the thing is, is that once most guys know that they have your complete affection, they get bored.
my boyfriend and i have been going out for 9 months, and looking back on our relationship in the beginning compared to now i can see how much our feelings have grown for eachother.
after a month or two of dating in texts and stuff we would say "love you" and such, but we never said it in person because its so much different saying it in person than it is through texts/aim, and when we said it through text i always meant it as i love you, your such a great person i'm so happy to be with you, but one day we were hugging and he was just like "i love you so much" and i couldn't say it back, i thought i loved him, but when i had to respond to that and couldn't i knew i wasn't completely in love with him yet... he said it to me a few more times after that and still i had no response, but after about 6 months i was able to say it comfortablly and know that i meant it and it turned out to be something really special instead of just throwing words around and i knew we both appreciated it more because i had waited to say it.
honestly, i don't think it is wise for you to say it to him first because it just confirms that he feels the same exact way about you if you let him say it first and its just more of a reassuring feeling to hear it from him first. WHen your in the moment, you'll know whether its right to say it back to him, if you open your mouth and nothing comes out than its not the right time no matter how much you think you do love him, but if the words do come out with you thinking twice about it, thats when you know its real.
if you don't overthink it, the moment will be much more special :] hope i helped
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So heres the deal i like a guy who has a gf, bad choice i know!. We've known eachother for about a year now but we just started hangin out a few months ago. Basically he told me that he liked me but i didnt know he had a gf and he didnt bother to tell me until the next time we hung out.Well one weekend we made out, i know thats REALLY bad and i feel bad that i did it but he doesnt. Hes proud of it and he talks to my best friend about it all the time. But he always has his arm around me and i catch him starin at me and smiling and he always hugs me bye. Do you think he actually likes me or am i just a hookup? (link)
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i think it's just more of a hook up.
if he really liked you he'd break up with his girlfriend asap. He's just a typical guy. Don't let him get to you, and don't let yourself become his "bootycall" lol.
uhm i really don't know whatelse to tell you.
i was in sort of a similar situation, and i told myself i wouldn't hang out with the guy until him and his girlfriend ended things, and then i'd see what would happen between us. I'm trying to give the guy some space now, kind of playing hard to get also.
Oh and this saying is so typical, but "whatevers meant to be, will be" If it doesn't work out for you two, there's always gonna be another guy for you.
And lastly, the whole thing about him bragging is just him being an idiot of course and trying to make himself look good. He's probably bragging about how he can get any girl he wants, which is not cool at all. Try to prove him wrong about that. He's a cheater, he doesn't deserve to get every girl.
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im f/13/7th
when i was not even in preschool yet, i wanted 2 get married to this guy named kalub. our parents agreed, (as a joking around kind of thing) and we got married in thier drive way. we accually kissed and everything!
now what im wondering, is...
since i kissed him, is my first kiss technically lost forever? i mean, we werent even in preschool yet, but we still kissed. HELP, I NEED 2 NO (link)
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hey aww... well a first kiss has a different meaning for everyone. its basically just what you believe.
i believe a first kiss is your REAL first kiss when you actually make out/hook up and it means something, like if you get the butterflies and everything. your first kiss will be with someone you truly love. technically if you kiss someone for the first time it is your first kiss, but it doesn't matter until you kiss someone that you truly love because it will be a kiss that you remember forever. this is just what i believe, but you may have a different opinion =]
i think that even though you guys kissed, its no biggie, you guys were very young and didn't understand much. it's not like you guys made out or anything lol. so don't worry about it. =]
hope i helped =]
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Hi! I'm 15 years old and my first love relation was when i almost 15- 2 moths before. So sometimes i think of Rayneel, my ex and sometimes when i feel lonely i remmember him... Do you think i till like him?
Deiry (link)
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he was your first love, of course your not going to forget him so quickly. only you can tell if you still like him or not. i mean, when you see him do you still get the butterflies? does you still wait for him to call? i don't know if you guys still talk or anything, but you just have to remember how you felt about him when you were with him and then compare those feelings to how you feel now. does he still make you feel happy like he used to when you think of him?
also, these thoughts may just be out of lonelyness. when i get lonely, i think of my ex, and he dumped me over a year ago lol, but i don't still like him, i just like the thought of being with someone, and since i don't have that, i turn to him and remember all the times we had together.
so yeah =] hope i helped!
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Ok so the deal is that i had this boyfriend that i truly loved and we broke up,and he is a liar and its really not worth going back with him.The point is that i still love him.I have another guy who is really nice and wants to get to know me,even though it has been 5 months since my ex and i broke up i still have feelings for him and im afraid that jumping in another relationship is bad.I feel that i might end up hurting this new guy or maybe im just afraid of getting hurt again but im also afraid of letting a good guy go...Should i take the risk and give this new guy a chance because he is really nice and does make me feel something,or should i just be single for a while more until i dont have any more feelings for my ex? (link)
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listen, i know what it feels like to be afraid to get hurt, and i know what it's like to have to let go of someone who you think is the perfect guy for you. it really stinks, but you said he is a liar and is not worth going back to, so there you go. a part of you might be telling you that he's great and that you shouldn't let him go because of how much you love him, and love is rare and blah blah blah, but then theres us on advicenators telling you to move on, even if you don't want to, i think mostly everyone agrees that you should.
well if you don't decide to move on from him, then i guess the only thing you can do is tell him how you feel. i mean what do you have to loose? not much right? the only thing you could possibly loose is a friendship, and you might not what to loose the friendship, but maybe it'd be like a sign for you thats telling you that it is really over for good and you don't have to worry about whether or not he loves you anymore, you can move on with your life. if he does love you back, well then thats great! =] just make sure your absolutely positive that he won't lie to you.
so, if you do decide to move on, i will tell you now that there is no saying how long it will take. you've got to start with baby steps, and then it will become easier. ok, the first step, is to completely disconnect yourself with him -- don't contact him, kind of avoid him i guess =\. it's just easier to get over him if you don't talk to him or see him, that way you won't be reminded of your feelings for him. the next step, is to go out with your friends, have some fun, it will really take your mind off of him. don't worry about any guys, it's time to have fun! Ok, so after that you will start to see that your feelings for him are fading a bit, so even if you do still have some feelings for him (which you may) you have to start to get to know this nice guy you told us about. you don't have to jump into a relationship or anything, you just have to open up your options to other guys, and you already have your first option waiting for you =] just give him a chance, it's not like you are commited to him, and from there you just sort of have to see what happens.
if you let go of your ex, you will feel so much better. you'll meet new guys, and not have to think about how heartbroken you are. it will feel great to move on, because it really stinks to be stuck in the same point in your life for a long time.
hope i helped =]
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I really like this guy ((im 13/f/7th grade)) I dated him at the beginging of the school year but I broke up with him after he asked out another girl ((while we were STILL dating!))
I was so mad!! >=O
he totally stopped talking to me and everything. so one day after class i plled him aside and told him it as over ((I wasnt rude i was just like well "I cant do this, i mean come one mann that was disrespectful, i cant pretend to smile anmore about this")) And it was done.
Well then a few days later at our school dance a slow song came on,
well i didnt have a boyfriend so i went to sit with my best friend LISALISIOUS!! ((inside Joke))
and Dakota (( thats the guys name )) told my other bff ((megan)) that the next slow song he was going to dance with me
=D I was soo happy cause i still liked him and we looked soo cute together!
But there wasnt another slow song and the more the night went on the closer my "bff" ((megan)) got to him. She was totally trying to steal him from me!
>=O I was so pissed at her!
Then he totally forgot about me! he started likeing her and now he is like obseced!
I mean i tryed telling him i felt i left comments on his page, blog comments, notes, messages, everything!
So like 2 nights ago i went off on him cause he was like "so who should I go out with I really like MEGAN! and she likes me but she wont go out with me"
i was like dakota I like you! wat dot you want me to do! write it in the stars!
and he was like well youre attractive but i cant replace the way i feel about Megan!
I WANT HIM TO WANT ME!! I WANT HIM BACK!!
WHAT DO I DO!
HELP!
thanks in advanced
Katie! (link)
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haha mann i remember all the 7th grade drama. when you look back at this in a couple of years you will realize how immature this guy is.
ok so obviously he really likes megan. most guys your age are extremely immature and just go for looks. he said that you were attractive but he can't replace the way he feels about megan. that's not something you hear from a 7th grade boy unless they really really like the girl. i'm thinking that since megan won't go out with him that makes him want her even more because now it has become a challenge for him and he's thinking about her even more because he is just constantly wondering why she won't go out with him. but then there is you, and you confess your feelings for him without a problem, so he knows that you already like him alot and that he can have you back whenever he wants. don't let him do that to you.
i think you should just take a break from him for a while. he's not gonna wait around for megan forever, unless he is absolutely in love with her, but thats rare considering you guys are only in 7th grade. also, i honestly don't suggest you wait around for him. he hurt you once, and once a cheater, always a cheater. do you really want him to hurt you again? i mean, that was really shallow of him to do that to you. maybe stay single for a while, just figure stuff out, or you could just try to find another guy. there are alot nicer guys out there, so don't just go for looks, go for the guy who will treat you right =]
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OK, if you don't like those long, dragging on questions, this really isn't for you.I had a crush was on this totally hott guy named Jared. Every time he came near, I'd totally freak out. Now, I'm going out with him. We get along really well, and everything is just great. Except his ex-gf. She isn't ready to let go of him. Literally! When ever we walk home together, (all three of us live very close together) she grabs him and gives him this big lecture on how he completely broke her heart. Then she tells me its a mistake to be with him. It's really obvious she just wants him back... Anyways, we'll just ignore her and hold hands. Then, she'll scoot around us and walk infront making sure she waddles her butt as much as possible.
Jared just tells me to ignore her, and that hes so way over her. That's conforting, but I'm still afraid she'll get him back. She is really pretty and lets just say I'm not quite as lucky. What do I do to get her to just leave us alone? (link)
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trust me, guys do not like obssessive girls. all she's doing is annoying him, and i doubt that he would like a girl like that. looks aren't everything, if she's the jealous type then he most likely won't care for her.
if he really likes you he'll stick with you, so all you can do is trust him in this situation. he's with you, not her. afterall there has to be a reason as to why they broke up, so i don't think that they'd get back together anytime soon.
as for getting her to leave you guys alone, maybe you two can just stay after school and not meet up with her. or if she says something to you about how you shouldn't be with him just say nicely "i'm sorry things didn't work out for you guys. and i can't just break up with him because of what he did to you because everything is fine in our relationship." or something like that.
good luck, don't worry about this girl. if your boyfriend is a nice guy all you have to do is trust him. =]
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i am 13/f and i have never kissed a guy and i really want to i really like my ex-boyfriend but we only went out for three days and we didnt kiss and somtimes he plays around like he would say if you take my money and buy me somthing from the consession stand i'll give you a kiss and i would say somthing i'd rather die but now i want to kiss him and i dont know if i should do it..... I WANT 2 KISS SOME1 (link)
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i understand where your coming from, but boys are stupid and mess around with our emotions. honestly, you shouldnt' kiss someone your not going out with unless you have both agreed that this is just for fun and there is no commitment involved
from experiance, "friends with benefits" type relationships don't work out that well in the end. it's fun, but it can be hurtful.
for now i think you should just flirt back, maybe he'll ask you out again, and then you guys will obviously kiss and everything. think about it, if you kiss him your basically showing him that he has you in the palm of his hand, he can sweet talk you until your convinced he loves you, when really all he wants to do is make out with you. if you really like him then wait til you atleast know he feels the same for sure =] all good things come to those who wait. it's true lol. just don't waste your first kiss because you can't ever get it back
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Okay, i like this boy and we used to be friends and all but now hes a total jerk and hes mean to me but i still like him ALOT, like i dream about him every night etc.
But he stares at me and tries to get my attention.
Theres this other guy, that everyone says id look good with and he likes me , and hes nice and all but i dont like him that much.
Supposedly hes going to ask me out sometime, and i dont know what to do.Becuase i dont wanna go out with someone and be in love with someone else.
Help!
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i will start out by letting you know a commmon fact that you probably already know, all boys are stupid! =]
ok, now, if you don't like this guy, then obviously you shouldn't go out with him. It will just put you in a horrible position because the relationship most likely will not last and this guy will get hurt. Yes, he will be hurt if you say no to him, but atleast he won't be as attached to you as he would have been if you said yes and went out with him and then broke up with him later on. Don't listen to what other people say about how good you guys look together, sure it would be cute, but you don't have feelings for him.
as for this other guy, i'm gonna say you should get over him. yeah that's horrible advice, but honestly if he's being a jerk, you deserve better. It will take time, and i know it's hard, but trust me, if you get over him you will feel ten times better. and why bother obsessing over someone else if they're just gonna be rude or not have the same feelings back? but atleast try to get over him.
if no matter what you do, you can't get over him, then try to become friends with him again. I mean you did say that he stares at you and he tries to get your attention. What have you got to loose? It's not like you could loose a friendship, the only way things can go from here is up, or they could just stay the same.
hope i helped =]
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Somebody, PLEASE help meeee.
I have this problem, i can't get over this kid, like at all. And I swear hes not just some boy, hes alot more. Alot to the point, where I'm never really all that happy. I think if I could talk to someone about it, it'd make it 100 times betterrr, but my friends, like .. they never really liked him. so they won't understand, & i deff. can't talk to my family about it, i dont know what to do! help, please, i dont know who to talk to about it, whenever i think about it & all the thought in my head, & can't say it to anyone else around me, i feel physically sick.
pleasee helppp. (link)
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i know exactly how you feel.
i liked this guy for a really long time, and he broke up with me. it's been two years, and i hate to say it, but i still like him, only now i am able to see what i did wrong in our relationship and how much better i deserve. when he broke up with me the only advice i got was "he doesn't deserve you, he's a jerk" so i felt like no one really understood how i felt therefore i didn't talk to anyone about it. it was horrible
i know he may seem perfect to you, but things change, and eventually you'll see that he's not right for you. it may take time though. as for now, you can't keep your feelings inside. i became really close with a girl on my xc team and she helped me so much. you need to find someone you trust and someone you know who will listen to how you feel, but if you can't, then maybe a diary will help. i also used to write poetry.
if you want to get over this guy, then you need to go out with your friends more. trust me, living life being miserable is not worth it, especially if your worrying about a guy. i know it's hard to forget, but guess what, you don't have to forget, eventually you'll just wake up one day and you just won't like him anymore. boys make life so complicating lol
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I don't get how people say they love with no regrets or they let everything go and let themselves fall in love. How do you let yourself fall in love? How do you 'forget everything and let love take over'? Thanks to anywho who can help me understand how this works .. (link)
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well if you have been hurt badly before when you let love in, it might take longer to allow yourself to trust another person.
you can't force love, it will happen, and you won't be able to stop it. everything just falls into place and you don't listen to anyone else but your heart, you just become so vulnerable.
there are things in life that you will never forget, but just because you remember it, doesn't mean that when you think about it it will still hurt. the hurt does fade, even if it takes years, or maybe just months or days.
when love takes control it just happens, and you can't go looking for love, or try to fall in love, love has to find you. and trust me, it will.
hope i helped =]
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well my boyfriend broke up with me this saturday and i was actually not too upset, i felt a little heartbroken but thats it. when he broke up with me he told me to see other people and that i should try to get another boyfriend by the end of the week. well, i didnt want to really do either of them but then i decided i sort of wanted revenge so i hooked up with kid i knew from school, we've talked a little before but not too much, we snuck out and met halfway and then we talked for a long time which led into messsing around. at the end of it i found out he was the best friend of the kid who likes me and wants to ask me out, so im screwed. i dont know what to do, my ex hates me know because he found out what i did. (link)
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your ex is no longer your boyfriend, he has no control over who you date or who you hook up with. If he has doesn't have any feelings for you anymore, you should be able to date who ever you want.
hooking up with this guy just for revenge was in a way wrong, because if you think about it, what has it solved? -- nothing. matters just got worse, but hey, its a learning experiance for you. this is what life is all about.
there's not much you can do in the situation to make him not hate you. have you tried explaining things to your ex and sharing your side of the story? if he isn't willing to listen to you, then give him some space. Give him time to think things out, then maybe in a week or two ask him how he's doing. He's probably just really aggrivated right now, so trying to talk to him and get through to him may only make things worse.
well i don't know how much of a help i was, but good luck =]
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So basically.. I asked a question asking if I should tell the guy I like that I like him.
You all said to go for it so i did.
Thank you, you all suck horribly. He doesnt like me the same way, apparently Im like his little sister, well who holds their sisters hands and constantly says I love you to her?
WHAT DO I DO NOW!? (link)
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hey.
well we just gave our input on what we thought you should do, you didn't have to do it though, but you were the one who decided to tell him you liked him which does take a lot of guts so at least you gave it a shot, otherwise you would still be confused as to whether he liked you as more then a friend or not. Just enjoy your friendship if thats as far as your relationship can go for now.
maybe the next time he holds your hand, or tells you he loves you, you could be like "hey, i thought i was only your little sister, not your girlfriend" and then see what he says.
sorry i can't be much of a help, but good luck =]
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Me and my b/f have been together for 3 weeks. out of those 3 weeks we have only spoken and seen eachother for 1 week. no were not avoiding eachother. before we got together he signed up to do this lincoln challenge thing. so he will be gone for 6 months.I have liked him since I was in 8th grade which was like 2 yrs ago and he has liked me for 3 yrs. He will be home on labor day for a break. should I break up with him when he gets back? (link)
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if you like him alot, then don't break up with him. if he's liked you for 3 yrs now, i can't imagine him getting over you anytime soon.
This is only the beginning of your relationship, but it just so happened to start at the wrong time since he had to leave.
Its up to you whether or not you should break up with him, i mean he hasn't done anything wrong so i don't see the point in breaking up with him, and besides when he gets back you can spend all the time you want together.
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so liked this guy.
he used me as a rebound girl
went back to his ex
is now dumping his currnet g/f (his ex)
and tells me that using me was the biggest mistake of his life and that he wants to hang out with me again to hopefully lead to a relationship,
what should i do?
go back to him because i just got over him and now he tells me hes sorry.
ahhhh (link)
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most times, ex boyfriends/girlfriends, are meant to stay ex boyfriends/girlfriends, but whats meant to be will be.
Heres some things you have to consider:
If you gave this guy another chance (even as just being friends) would you develop feelings for him again? Would you want to develop feelings for him again? Is he lieing about wanting to be with you? Well, you'll never know the answers to these questions unless you give him another chance. He may have changed and matured since you guys broke up.
If i were you, i would give him another chance as just friends, you can get to see what he's really all about now, and if he's being honest about how he feels for you. But don't let him think he has you wrapped around his finger. This is just my input, so now its up to you to decide.
good luck with everything =]
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alright, im gonna attempt to keep this short and simple.
ive liked this kid for about 2 years. i still like him. well. now we never talk. the past 2 summers though, i talked to him all the time [through the school years too] well im going into 9th grade [im 14] and yeah now we NEVER talk. i really really wanna start talking to him again though. i'm not popular, i guess you can say he is, although i hate stereotyping people like that and stuff. i have like no guy friends, although he has a lot of friends that are girls. you see, he used to like me. i started talking to him the summer before 7th grade. he told me he liked me.. blahblahblah. 7th grade started & he asked me out. i said no. why? i'm still not sure and i regret it to this day. we continued to talk after that. i guess it started towards the very end of 7th grade & the summer before 8th that he started to seem less interested in me and we would talk less. oh yeah, we only talked online. occassionally in school, but not every day. ok. i'm really shy. around him, i like got so nervous that i could hardly talk. it sucks because i'm already shy as it is, but around him i was like speechless. i know that after a while, that could change though. yeah so since he seemed less interested & our convos were mainly pointless, one day i just stopped talking to him. i haven't talked to him since september or october [online]. long time right? almost a year. like once or twice, maybe 3 times in school we talked, but it was only if he like asked me for a pencil or something. also a few months ago my friend imed him while at my house. and my brother was talking to him for some reason? [he got on his buddylist somehow] yeah anyway. i want to talk to him again. even if we don't go out, i want to atleast be his friend. because it sucks just liking him, thinking about him all the time and knowing that he's out there with other girls. i mean we have this past. and i can't get it out of my mind. i REALLY REALLY like him. i can't just keep doing this. how can i talk to him again, without it being really awkward? somehow i'm gonna do it. i'm not gonna keep holding back. i'll start off by iming him, and hopefully things will kick off from there. i don't want him to forget about our past. how can i do this? thank you so much, i really appreciate it. sorry it was so long, i tried to keep it simple! :] (link)
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well if you do want to talk to him again, then the sooner, the better.
Yeah, it has been a pretty long time, so i'm not sure how he'll react, but really, what have you got to loose?
If he has a myspace, and if you have a myspace, maybe you can send him a friend request, and then leave him a comment saying "hey =] long time no talk lol. so whats up?" hopefully he'll comment you back.
If you guys don't have a myspace, then IM him, and just say "hey =]" if he IMs you back you can say "so its been a really long timee since we've talked". just try and have normal conversation. Ask him how everythings been, hows his summer, if he's going on vacation anytime soon, just stuff like that.
Hopefully after a few conversations (which may be awkward ones) you guys will be friends again, but if not, then try and meet other guys. If your friends know some guys, then hang out in a big group with them. I know that when i'm with my friends i am way more outgoing when meeting new people.
hope i helped in some way or another =] good luck!
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I really do love my boyfriend. But, I have a feeling he doesnt love mee.. and it makes me so upset. I really dont know what to do. This guy is like the love of my life. (link)
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sometimes, no matter how much you love someone, they just don't feel the same. i know how you feel, so i completely understand.
on the otherhand... he might feel that its not very "masculine" to express his feelings, so he keeps them to himself and doesn't open up to you as much as you would like him to, but this depends on his personality.
It also depends on your age, if your 13 or 14, guys tend to be immature around that age. Plus, its very rare to fall in love at such a young age.
Try and open up to him some more, but don't open up too much because then he'll think he has you wrapped around his finger. If this doesn't work, then maybe you should reconsider your relationship with him =\. i know it may be hard, but every girl deserves a guy who will love her more than anything and treats her with respect.
I'm sorry i can't be much of a help, but at least its something. don't worry you'll find the right one for you, and who knows maybe it is your current boyfriend. =]
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I "like" this kid named pat. Well atleast i thought i did. Shee what happened was me and my wicked good friend sierra met pat at the same time. I started liking him but he ended up liking her instead. I liked him through their whole relationship. I was right stuck in the middle of their relationship tooo, i saw EVERYTHING that went on and heard everything too. They got in soooo many fights but now their done and she broke up with him. I still liked him and he ended up liking me too. Sierra didnt mind at all she was really happy for me and all. But the problem was i dont seem happy now. I mean its werid dating him cause i saw his last relationship with like my best friend and i dont really feel anything with him at all. I just dont know what to do. We haven't been dating that long and I really dont want to loose the kid as a friend or anything, but its just strange. :\ (link)
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he may just not be the right guy for you. i could tell you to just break up with him like most people will since you said you don't feel anything with him, but i can give you another option too.
Since you said you guys haven't been dating that long, maybe you can give your relationship a chance and see if it starts to become less wierd. If it does become less wierd and you start to feel something for him, then continue to go out with him, but if things are still wierd and your not happy, then break up with him. I can't promise you two will still be friends, but in my opinion, the only way people can still be friends after they break up is if they still love each other, or if they never loved each other at all.
hope i helped =]
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me and my boyfriend have been dating on and off for the past 2 years.I recently found out he cheated on me 3 times with some girls from Johnston.Now he asked me if we were dating about 2 days ago and i stupidly said "Yea,I guesss".Today he came to my house and told me that he has a new girlfriend. I said "i thought me and you were together" and he said "O well shes hotter".5 minutes later he tried kissing me.What should I do about all of this???Now im stuck the single one!
PLEASE HELP ME FAST!:( (link)
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you've gotta find someone who respects you, because thats what you deserve. don't let him think he can get away with using you. i'd say to just try to avoid seeing or talking to him as much as you can. I mean, he's cheated on you 3 times, how can you trust someone like that?
Try and make some more guy friends who aren't as big of jerks. If you go looking for love, you'll have a hard time finding it, it just has to come naturally, and eventually you won't be single, and you'll be with someone who loves you for you and won't cheat on you.
hope everything works out =]
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lately ive just been so FED UP with my appearance i hate looking in the mirror because its not what i want to see =( everyone else is so much prettier than me or thats what i think. my hair bugs me it never stays right i wish i was tanner i wish i was everything else..
i know im not DEPRESSED or i dont think so but maybe just jealous of every other girl. and i really like this kid but he has a girlfriend and it kills me everytime i hear her name because i know that i cant have him
also my parents have been telling me that i need to go do other things rather than come home go on the computer go to my cousins (my best friends house) and then when i get home get back on the computer! they are telling me i need to get out of the house and go with my other friends but the only problem is i dont have many OTHER close friends i can hangout with..
my life just seems to be going completely wrong.
ahh! what do i do? i cant live like this anymore.. (link)
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hey alot of people your age are probably feeling the same way you do. i always wish that i was prettyer, but really, you can apply all the make up you want, style your hair all different ways, but in the end, your still the same person you always have been.
Someone once told me that she didn't think she was pretty at all and she would cry herself to sleep when she was in her teens, but then one day she just said to herself well if i can't be pretty, then i will work on my personality, and today she's 31 i believe and she is absolutely gorgeuos. If you work on your personality and build more confidence, i'm sure that other people will realize just how pretty you really are.
In my opinion, no one is ever ugly. Everyone has one thing about them that creates there unique beauty, sometimes you find it right away, other times it takes a while. And the thing is, it doesn't even have to be a physical aspect that makes you beautiful.
Maybe you can invite some of your friends over and have your best friend invite some of her friends over. Even if your not very close with these other people, i'm sure they would love to hang out with you anyway. Besides, it won't be so awkward if you hang out with them in a group.
i'm sure your very pretty, so don't worry, things can only get better =]
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