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I dont know what to do!
Okay, i like this boy and we used to be friends and all but now hes a total jerk and hes mean to me but i still like him ALOT, like i dream about him every night etc.
But he stares at me and tries to get my attention.
Theres this other guy, that everyone says id look good with and he likes me , and hes nice and all but i dont like him that much.
Supposedly hes going to ask me out sometime, and i dont know what to do.Becuase i dont wanna go out with someone and be in love with someone else.
Help!
14/f
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i will start out by letting you know a commmon fact that you probably already know, all boys are stupid! =]
ok, now, if you don't like this guy, then obviously you shouldn't go out with him. It will just put you in a horrible position because the relationship most likely will not last and this guy will get hurt. Yes, he will be hurt if you say no to him, but atleast he won't be as attached to you as he would have been if you said yes and went out with him and then broke up with him later on. Don't listen to what other people say about how good you guys look together, sure it would be cute, but you don't have feelings for him.
as for this other guy, i'm gonna say you should get over him. yeah that's horrible advice, but honestly if he's being a jerk, you deserve better. It will take time, and i know it's hard, but trust me, if you get over him you will feel ten times better. and why bother obsessing over someone else if they're just gonna be rude or not have the same feelings back? but atleast try to get over him.
if no matter what you do, you can't get over him, then try to become friends with him again. I mean you did say that he stares at you and he tries to get your attention. What have you got to loose? It's not like you could loose a friendship, the only way things can go from here is up, or they could just stay the same.
hope i helped =]
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It's not really fair to either you or this boy to go out with him if you truly don't like him that way. If he asks you out, just tell him that you like him as a friend, but you don't feel like taking your friendship to the next level. Don't expect him to be happy when you say no, but it'll fade after time. And as for the problem about liking someone who isn't nice to you, that will hopefully fade over time too.
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It'll be wrong to go out with someone and like someone else. So I suggest talking to this boy.
If he's such a jerk, though, why do you like him? And why does he be mean to you, yet try to get your attention? There's some kind of weird connection between you, and you have to find out more about it. Talk to this guy and ask him what's going on. If he's being a jerk, it's usually for a reason. Ask him about how his life is going, or maybe one of his friends.
Treat him nicely. He probably needs it, especially from you.
-Jenny ♥
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Well if your in love with someone else, dont go out with him. Because it has happened to me before, and it just wont feel right. Also the first bot that is now a jerk is probably being a jerk for a reason. Just go up to him and be like "Whats up with you? We use to be friends but now your so mean?!" or something like that. I did that, and when I finally told my friend he was acting weird, he said he was sorry and started to be nice. Also, try not to be mean back. Just sort of ignore his jerkish ways.
Hope I helped a bit.
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