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Tips on how to deal with a stubborn husband:
1) Examine your interests and prioritize the interests that are most important to you. For example, perhaps you are more concerned about decisions about dealing with children, money, or issues relating to your personal independence. The issues that are most important to you deserve the greatest efforts.
2) Listen carefully when you talk with him, listen closely to what he says. If what he says is not clear, keep asking questions to find out what underlies his approach. When he finishes talking you can say, "I want to make sure I understood you properly. Did you say 'x, y. & z'?" Let him know you are listening, make it clear that you expect him to listen to you. You can say, "I listened to you, now please listen to me."
3) Try to understand his reasons and encourage him to speak honestly (in a non-confrontational manner).
Good luck :]
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One day I wrote a note a boy I like and asked who he liked and he said me and when he asked me I wrote you-him.So now you know what happened we are at the problem part.So we now know,and I want to be around him and he`s sorta avoiding me.We did sit next to each other 2 times but it`s been a while.Btw he gave me a turtle keychain.So here`s the question:What do I do to make him want to be around me.Another tidbit is in the play my school is doing I am placed next to the guy that has had the biggest crush on me since I moved to that school.Sooooooo ya *please help* (link)
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Well if you both like each other and you both know, what is the problem exactly? It's a good thing that you guys didn't get trapped in the whole confused zone where you don't know whether you both like each other or not.
He might be avoiding you out of awkwardness since he might be feeling like he doesn't know how to treat you now. Boys so that. You need to break the ice, you need to be around him ( not stalk him or be all clingy) and talk to him without the whole awkward pauses or stuttering.
Wait till he asks you out, if he didn't, simply take control, go up to him and ask him out instead :)
Good luck
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So my boyfriend broke up with me today. He was really stuttering along trying to get his words out there and I just knew he was gonna end it by the way he was talking and stuff. So I just took it expectantly. And we went on our ways.
Later he texted me and after a while I decided to text back because I was unsure if I should but I decided I needed closure and to find out what happened.
This is how it went:
Him: 'I'm so sorry. I hope we can still be friends. I just need some time"
Me: "Alright, and you really think that "just being friends' will work or are you just saying that as a popular breakup line? You can tell me the truth, I want to know."
Him: "I have feelings for you still. I just need some time. And if things don't work out I'd like to still have you as a friend." (NOTE: It made me happy to hear this because I feel the same way. But by the way he said that can I assume he wants to try dating again sometime down the line?)
Me: "I agree with you on that. The last thing I want is for you to just be out of my life just like that. But what do you mean when you say 'I just need time' Like you want to hang out with your friends more? You like someone else? Just explain to me why. I can handle it."
Him: "I have to much on my mind with me getting a job right now. All my friends want to hang out. And it's just to much. I have to get it all figured out."
Me: "And that's the honest truth?"
Him: "Yeah pretty much."
Me: "Alright, then I can live with that. Do what you gotta do, I get it."
Him: "I'm sorry"
Me: "It's alright."
Him: "I feel so bad."
Me: "I'm not gonna say I'm completely fine with this but I understand and you shouldn't worry about it too much."
Him: "I'm just as upset as you are. Believe it or not."
Me: "If you say so, it is a little difficult to believe though."
Him: "I am a lot actually."
Me: "I'm sorry to hear that."
Him: "Thanks. I hope you're fine too."
Me: "I will be."
And that's the end of it. I feel a lot better after talking to him about this. Do you think I handled it well? And do you think he is being honest and genuine?
I want to be friends with him. And how can I assure myself that tomorrow at school when I see him it won't be awkward and we can still talk. What are some things I can ask him? (link)
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I don't think you were harsh at all! You were just being honest and understanding, why you gotta be critized because of that?
I think you handled it pretty well comparing to girls who gets all clingy, cry, or say shit like 'I can't live without him'.
I am not sure about the whole 'I need some time', this is just an opinion so you can't take me up for that, but it's because I simply don't believe there is such thing as in I need time. You either want to be with that person or not. I don't like people who keep other people hanging.
About the awkwardness. When you see him at school, don't wait till he breaks the ice or anything just simply pretend like nothing happened because If you going to act all awkward he'll get all awkward and it's going to always be awkward between you guys as friends.
Good luck :]
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Name key (fake names):
Me: Annabeth
Boyfriend: Jaysyn
I'm 16, a sophomore in high school. My boyfriend, Jaysyn, is a senior, 18. He's really sweet, and it didn't take me long to fall head over heels for him. I met him last year when I was a freshmen and he was a junior, and we started dating one month later. He was always very sweet and understanding about the whole sex thing: he wanted it, but every time I tried, I told him the truth--I'm no where near being ready for that, even if I might want it. Every time I said so, he was really sweet, saying he understood and wouldn't dream of making me do anything I wasn't ready to do. Lately, he's been going back on that promise. He's been getting kind of physical about it, too. Pushing me and shoving me and stuff; a couple of months ago we were at his house watching TV in his room because he gets free movies on his XBox through netflix, and he started kissing my neck and touching my leg and stuff. He was getting really touchy, and pushed his hand away and told me to stop, and he got really mad and he raised his hand as if he was going to hit me, but instead he just pushed me away from him, and I almost fell off the couch. I left when he did that and I went home. He called me five times an hour all night after that, and almost ten times the next day. Since then, he's been getting more violently, and touchy feely and rough, and when I deny him sex he gets really pissed. Last night I got up to leave and he grabbed my arm so hard I thought my wrist would break. Then he pushed me and I fell into the table--my knees are bruised. He called me a whore and a tease and told me I was being a bitch, and I left. This morning we had a date, and I didn't expect or want to go on the date after last night, but he showed up at my house right on time. I told him to go away and started to close the door, but he forced his way into the house and apologized for last night and got my oat from the closet and we went out and actually had a good time. He was really sweet, and he acted as though last night never happened. What do I do? (link)
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Oh dear lord!! That is called 'abuse'. No woman should ever be treated like that.
Just the fact that your boyfriend is verbally pressuring sex is a sign of calling it off with him but he has obviously past this point.
You shouldn't be that naive to what he is doing. You should understand and see that your boyfriend is mistreating you, abusing you and next could be attempted rape or worse rape. Do not underestimate a man who touches a woman wrongly. He obviously needs some counseling.
You should not, I repeat should not, come near this guy again or speak to this guy again. If he forcefully try's to speak to you, talk to an adult or simply call the police.
Good luck :]
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I met my boyfriend my freshman year of highschool, he was a junior at the time. We have been together about a year, ive never been this close to a guy before, I even went as far as losing IT to him. But the thing is, Hes graduating this year and im moving away to another city for my last two years of highschool. I also dont feel very attracted to him anymore..something changed. I still care a lot about him I have a lot of great memories but...I dont feel the same and I wish I did. Any advice? PS. Im 15 and hes 19 (link)
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Just like how time changes and people change. Feelings also change.
Age difference could play a rule on how you maturing and how he's maturing.
It's completely normal.
Also, you still caring about him is pretty much expected because of few reasons, but I'm going to mention the following:
1) when you lose IT to somebody you have that emotionally attached thing that happens.
2) you have been together for a whole year.
3)most probably your first love.
Just be honest and straightforward with him and take a break to see how you going to feel away from him and if afterwards you still feel like you want to break it off then you shall.
Good luck :]
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me and my boyfriend have been dating for 9 months now and lately i have been doubting him and believe that he has been lying to me, like he went for this party with his guy friend and he was really wasted and these two drunk girls asked him for a ride home and i heard that he slept with one of them but he explained and i believed him but then his friend told me that my boyfriend told him that " he makes love to me but he likes to fuck other girls" this friend has no reason to lie. so what do i do i want to break up because i'm no longer happy but i don't know why a part of me still wants to be with him and how do i break up with him what if he's not really cheating but he does often go to parties and i'm not with him (link)
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If a guy cheats on a girl that simply means he doesn't care, but your boyfriend is giving time to explain himself and that means there is another explanation.
You heard from people that he slept with one of the chicks. People talk shit all the time, you can't believe anything anyone says unless you see with your own eyes. And if that really did happen, alcohol can be an excuse for his action and also him lying to you can simply mean he is scared to loose you because of one stupid mistake, this is pretty much possible.
I don't exactly understand why your upset about the fact that he dropped to drunk girls home. I mean that tells you a good thing about your boyfriend like being nice enough to drop couple of drunk girls.
I am not very sure you 'believed' him because if you really did then you wouldn't be questioning him now. And you shouldn't be waiting for a proof because a relationship without trust is no relationship at all.
His friend could have dozens of reasons to why he would lie. (plus the fact that he is telling you something like that, apparently his friend said just makes him doubtful). Reasons like wanting to get back at his friend for something or him having feelings for you, it could be anything that you don't know about that could drive him to lie to you.
If you are unhappy in a relationship, there is no reason to stay in the relationship, you just simple get your boyfriend and be straightforward and tell him how you feel and tell him that you no longer want to be with him.
Also, it's very much okay for your boyfriend to go to 'parties' without you. It's no big deal as long as there is trust.
Good luck :]
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Question Posted Sunday April 3 2011, 8:37 pm
Ok.13/f
I have a bf and i loved him so much.I still love him but i dont know if he still likes me.
I get signs sometimes that he doesnt like me.
Most Times:
He always hold my hand.
Want to go out with me.
Wants to kiss mi.
Wants to share food with me.
Invites mi to come by his house with him and his parents.
Always watching me(Sometimes i might be on my black berry and he just stares at me and when I look up he looks away).
Sometimes:
He teases me (Like if i wear something he doesnt like ,Its ugly)
Talks about hot girls around me,BUT Only when his friends are there(i talk about hot guys BUT not like he does) i say a simple(I saw this cute guy today,BAM i done) (link)
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He sounds regular to me. Too regular.
You absolutely have nothing to worry about, he is just being the guy in the relationship.
Don't be insecure like that because that can cause you to imagin things in your head that isn't happening, for example, you thinking that he is loosing interest.
Good luck :]
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I'm 17/f and he's 20/m
We've been going on with some issues lately. He's still confusing me about some stuff if you read my past posts. Lately, I've been hurt. I know he wants to get back on track and find out what he wants to do. He wants our relationship to be hidden from his parents until he's ready, since they do not approve of me. We're limiting the time we see each other so he has space, so seeing each other everyday ended up seeing each other once a week. And once every 2 weeks, which is definitely hard for me. But I agreed to it, he needs time. But then he asked me if I was upset that he's putting other stuff above me. He says that he'll try to see me as much as he can, like see me if he gets off work early and if something he was going to do is canceled. He's not always busy. I'm hurt because I feel like I'm just there as a left over and he'll come to me when "he has time". I don't know what to do, what to say, I'm not sure if it's fair or not. Advice? (link)
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Ugh! Excuse me.
If someone is ashamed of you because his precious parents don't approve, then wasting your precious time isn;t worth it.
And you gotta show him, that it isn't only him who is busy.
Whenever he calls, tell him you got other important things to do.
Don't give him control over you, that is not FAIR.
Show him where he stands and THATS IT.
Good Luck =]
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16/f So I like this guy and I want to tell him. But I'm wondering if it would be lame to talk to one of his best friends, a girl who is our mutual friend, about it. I was thinking that telling her might save me some possible embarrassment. But it's not full proof because even if i told her to keep it a secret she could easily tell him about it. Also, I can't help feeling that telling her instead of him just cheapens the whole thing. It makes me feel like I'm 10 or something! What is the best way to ask a guy out? (link)
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Yes actually telling his bestfriend does cheapen the whole thig.
But I will tell you the best way to ask a guy out. Ad it's simply asking him out.
Since you guys aren't very good friends, its way better because that way you have nothing to loose.
Go up to him ad tell him how you feel, and along that mentino that you'd love to go out with him.
Rejections aren't that bad. So in case, he tured you down, it;s okay, there is always more fish in the sea.
Good Luck =]
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Ok so I have a boyfriend and we have been together for almost seven months. I love him but I am starting to like someone else too. I am not completely sure if he likes me and I'm also not completely sure if he is flirting with me. But I think he does and is flirting with me. I just love being with him because this guy brings excitement in my everyday life and he makes everything feel new. But I also love being with my boyfriend because he makes me sooo happy. But what I am trying to say is should I stay with my boyfriend or should I leave him and take a chance? (link)
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Alright! You can't love somebody and like somebody else. You can like two people at the same time though.
I don't think you actually love your boyfriend.
You just simply like two men at the same time and you have to make a choice.
Taking chances is always a good choice, but wise chances.
If you going to dump your boyfriend for someone else, you gotta live with it because you are technically hurting him.
But the most important thing is choosing the one you trust more.
Good Luck =]
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hi, so im a junior in high school 16 years old. i've made out with 5 boys only one and a half where my boyfriend....long story short. i like this boy a lot, hes a year older dropped out of his senior year than he came back. we hang out at LEAST 2 times a week.. hes unbelievably gorgeous.. model material -seriously. i reach his standards- i think. i'm 5"4 and 110 pounds, not so many pimples and i dress cool. i jjust need to know WHAT IS THIS? should i end it? i dont know what it is i see him in school everyday, s he takes me home if i need a ride and he's so sweet, but in front of people i dont know if it's shyness or something but he doesnt talk to me, he barely looks in my direction. all of my friends know about him, and many of his friends know about him and i. what are we, a thing? i hooked up with him, hes fingered me, ive given him a handjob. he wants to go down on me, i wont let him. is he in it for the ass? he's turning 18 in like 3 monthes.. i reallly think i love him, but he also hangs out with "shtoop'" =public school girls who give the boys ass. he doesnt have somany morals when it comes to that and claims that he doesnt hook up wiht anyone but me nnbut how am i supposed to trust him? if i hooked up with another guy (no desire to) but if i did hed probably get pissed off.. we hang out a lot, more than use=ual these days. we bbm during school an he gives me the cutest looks.. what is this? what am i doing with my life, please help me. my whole family dissaproves becasue of his reputation with girl; he used them and talks about it after.... i dont know what to do, i tryed stopping hanging out with him but i just cant do it i cant let go, i feel like ive found someone exactly like me not a soul-mate, but boyfrined material an adorable... hes so inntimidating and scares al my friends- he's really gorgeous. but i am not scared of him, i like him and how everyone;s scared, i like everything about him, i dont care when he smokes or drinks, but other girls--thats killing me trust, and what are we? please help as soon as you read this n be honest, i sound like a pathetic 13 year old but its my life. i live in a tightnit community and things get out and around quick.. i dont want this out, and if it does i want to have been his girlfriend..... help please remmeber same school, my family disaprroves, and hes unbelievabley beautiful- inside and out. sorry for spelling i cant spell to save someones lifee (link)
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Well sometimes, people definitely surprises you. So the whole reputation he has, is not a main thing here if he could prove it wrong to you.
I'm not really sure about the part where he treats you differently in front of people. That is him proving the repuation right.
If you like him, and you want to be with him offically. Then you gotta grow some balls, and confront him about it.
His reaction will say it all. That's when you know, if he is in it for the sex only.
Good Luck =]
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i'm 41 years old i'm married for 17 years and i have two teenage daughters i'm living with my husband and i feel that our marriage at the moment is falling apart he has always put his family and his mother before me and treats me as if i mean nothing to him my mother in law is a huge obstacle in our life she creates unecessary problems but as usual he will always part with her every tragedy i have been through in my life i had been through it alone but he is always there for his mother and always puts her first can somebody please help me i can no longer live knowing that i am inferior to another person i just want to feel loved by my husband
please help (link)
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You gotta get your husband and sit him down for a serious discussion.
You have to yell in his face and tell him how he makes you feel. You have to make him see the seriousness behind your feelings, that you are willing to no longer live knowing that you are second choice in his life.
If he is your first choice, then you gotta be his or else you are giving more than he is in the marriage, and that is not balancing. Marriage is all about balance.
You have said it, Your husband is a mamma's boy.
But you have to treat this situation in an adult attuide since you have two teenage daughters. As much as you should think about yourself in this marriage and about your happiness, you have to also think about your daaughters.
Marriage counceling can really help if you get your husband to go with you.
But there might be a chance he wouldn't. If he didn't co-operate, then you should show him where he stands and that he is not a fully adult.
You should talk to your daughters about it so in the future if you decide to leave him, they wouldn't blame you.
And I think you should seek a family or a friend's help.
Good Luck =]
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So I'm certain that this boy in my class likes me, but I also think that he's too afraid to do anything about it. Should I try to talk to him more and see how things progress over time? I don't understand. He stares at me, smiles, subtly compliments me, makes excuses to wait after class so we can walk together, etc, etc. I've definitely made efforts to show my feelings by talking to him, looking at him, smiling, complimenting him, and even by getting him something special for his birthday. And if that weren't enough, I definitely think that he overheard my friend talking about my crush on him while I repeatedly/panickingly tried to get her to shut up (he was really close by and she was very loud). Is it possible that he doesn't get it? Should I be more obvious? Should I be all over him, lol?! We actually don't hang out and aren't very close. We just see eachother at school. I don't want to directly ask him to "hang out." Should I just be patient? (link)
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It's either he is very shy or.. Insane!
So since you like him, and you guys aint that close so it doesn't matter if you loose him.
Why don't you risk the bisket and ask him directly!
Tell him how you feel without throwing yourself at him, and ask him how he feels about you.
It's that easy and simple.
Good Luck =]
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my boyfriend and i broke up and now he is being rude to me but also flirting with me! what is wrong with him? (link)
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When you break up with a guy, he has to be rude with you.
But when he realizes you don't care anymore or you aren't showing signs of desperation towards him. He gets pissed, either he treats you real bad or starts flriting with you so you'd fall for him again.
He hates being forgotten, it affects his ego.
He is confused ofcourse! So, don't go along with his flirting, try to avoid him and if he confronts you about it, make sure he knows that you want one stable answer only, without the whole "I don't want to go back but I still care about you".
Don't stay hooked on him, move on.
Good Luck =]
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usa female.. i have been friends with this guy for about 9 months we hang out and go do do things togethers we talk and when one needs something the other one is alwys there.
something happen to were he almost had to move away and he was so concerned about us that things wouldn't change. and i told him my ex was back and he wanted to no if i wanted him back i told no i wanted to be with somebody who is honest and trusting. and he said good. he's a very loving person when we do get together . he never said anything about haw i look or anything just that i make him smile . and at one point i told him to stay away from me he hounded me for 4 days tell i gave in to him. i'm usually the first one ask about hanging out he does sometimes. i get confussion signs from him i don't no what to think. (link)
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Boys are confusing!
But obviously he cares about you! Maybe as a friend or more than a friend.
I think you should be brave enough to ask him, in a indirect way. Because it seems like you have feelings for him as well. You refer to him as a loving person and you like hanging out with him.
Mixed signals are dangerous. So you have to be careful not to hurt yourself or him.
Good Luck =]
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I am a 65 year old male that doesn't know much about sex and relationships so I thought I would ask and maybe try this once to see if it was appealing to both of us.
Is it better to stimulate the clitoris with a finger or through oral sex with the tongue? (link)
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Actually this website is for any kind of advice and I don't see where it says not to answer a sex question.
But there is no answer to this question because it depends on the person, some women would prefer finger or tongue, so I say you ask your partner.
Good Luck =]
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Okay so I kind of got myself in a bad situation with 2 guys that really like me. I guess I've been leading them on but I don't like either of them. I just got a boyfriend that they don't know about yet and I really don't know how to tell them without them getting mad and not wanting to be friends. I'm the kind of person that can not hurt peoples feelings and I can't tell them straight up. When I tried talking to one guy he said he'd drive himself in the ground if he saw me with another guy. Help me please I really like my boyfriend and I don't want to him to get mad if I can't get rid of these other guys but I'm just too nice:( oh and I'm a 16 year old girl. Haah (link)
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You are not the first person to do such mistake and lead somebody on.
But I hate to break it for you, and tell you there is no other choice in this.
If you are as nice as you are refereing then you should tell them right away so they don't get hurt more and have more hope and then later when they find out, they would be crashed.
Plus it's way better if you tell them nicely than them finding out.
Good Luck =]
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Okay, I was dating this guy for about a year. Long story short. I was at his house the night i was robbed. My furniture, washer, dryer,iron and some jewelry was taken from me. I could not believe that he stole from me he seemed to be so sincere. He even helped me with bills and cooked and cleaned for me. I know he didn't do it personally , but i do believe he sent some guys to my house to take my things. So, i left him alone for a good six months now hes back to calling me again. I'm trying to be JUST friends with him, now he is offering me to come over and hang out, spend time with him. My question is what should i do? Of course he tells me he had nothing to do with my house getting broken into, but my gut is telling me otherwise. (link)
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Well it is very possible that he did that.
But at the same time, it could be otherwise. You could be wrong.
But as long as you doubt the guy, then don't have anything to do with him.
And make sure he knows it. Tell him right now.
If he did it, then he could know he wasn't smart enough and if he didn't then 'sorry life sucks like that'.
I don't really believe in concidence so gut can be on your side this time.
But don't act upon anything unless you are sure.
Good Luck =]
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Hello i have a big issue with my husband watching porn. I feel like im not good enough for him. He promised me up and down that he hasnt watched it since the last time i told him how much i disliked it. I recently just found out that he's been watching it this whole time and now i feel like i cant believe him. He's in the army and he wont be home for 3 months. I know its not a big deal to alot of people but for me it is and promises mean alot to us. I'm just so devastated that he lied to me.. What should i do? (link)
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Well I'm afraid to tell you that marriage needs sacrfice. Also, you need to remember he's in the army, where there is work work work and work without a sigh of the gender females, so you should be understanding on this side.
And also consider that lying to you may have been unintentionally or unavoidable. I mean put yourself in his shoes, you want to watch porn but you love your wife and want to satisfy her.
Personally, I think you should try on working on this with yourself and try to accept it.
Porn never means that you aren't good enough. And I'm absouletly sure about this.
I just think you should really talk to him about it, like ask him about why he does it and what made him lie to you, and tell him how you felt about. It's going to make you feel better and maybe accept the porn situation.
Good Luck =]=]
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I am a 25 year old female. And it's this guy I've been seeing for the past month. Ok here goes... Our first time being togeather we went out to eat. And everytime following we only went to his place. We have been intimate everytime we see each other and we only see each other like at night mainly after ten at night.
I have gained really deep feelings for this guy in such a short peiord of time. I usually go over his house because he lives alone, and my aunt lives with me until she gets her own home. And when I do go over we usually watch a movie. But what I've come to notice is he don't cuddle with me during the movie he don't put his arm around me only time he wants to cuddle is mainly when we are about to have sex. And we mainly have sex after we finish watching the movie. And another thing I notice is that he shows no emotion towards me. He's always getting phone calls late at night and he runs in the room to answer the phone.
And just the other day when I was over, I forced him to have a talk with me. I asked him how he really felt about me and I told him I tiered of just having sex and I didn't want to this time. So he told me told me thathe had to meet with his brother and I had to leave. I was hurt and really confused.
And yesterday I found out my best friend of twenty years past away. And when I got the news I was over his house. He didn't confort me he didn't hold me and I was really crying... He just took me home and he still haven't call to check up on me. It's easy to just leave a guy alone that you don't really care about but... When theres feeling involved it's always so hard for me to leave. Usually their the ones who leave me and that's how I usually move on. And it's so hard right now alot of things in my life haven't been going right. What should I do? And how can I do it? (link)
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Are you kidding me? When I was reading this I thought he might have an explantion or he is just a strange guy in general.
But when I got to the middle till the end. Well, What can I say besides I am completely unbelievably shocked.
The dude is a jerk (i'm sorry for you friend) and he should be comforting you even if he has no feelings for you at a situation such.
You are right, maybe a lot has been going in your life and that's why you don't need drama and you need to let him go.
If you don't do it now, then you will get attached more and soon, it will become harder to let go.
But it's alright, the world isn't over, there is other fish in the sea and plus you got the mean fish.
A person who makes you get hurt and confused, then he is most definitely not worth your time.
But if you or myself misjudged him then I guess he will call and explain his behavior.
Good Luck =]
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