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cheating boyfriend
me and my boyfriend have been dating for 9 months now and lately i have been doubting him and believe that he has been lying to me, like he went for this party with his guy friend and he was really wasted and these two drunk girls asked him for a ride home and i heard that he slept with one of them but he explained and i believed him but then his friend told me that my boyfriend told him that " he makes love to me but he likes to fuck other girls" this friend has no reason to lie. so what do i do i want to break up because i'm no longer happy but i don't know why a part of me still wants to be with him and how do i break up with him what if he's not really cheating but he does often go to parties and i'm not with him
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If a guy cheats on a girl that simply means he doesn't care, but your boyfriend is giving time to explain himself and that means there is another explanation.
You heard from people that he slept with one of the chicks. People talk shit all the time, you can't believe anything anyone says unless you see with your own eyes. And if that really did happen, alcohol can be an excuse for his action and also him lying to you can simply mean he is scared to loose you because of one stupid mistake, this is pretty much possible.
I don't exactly understand why your upset about the fact that he dropped to drunk girls home. I mean that tells you a good thing about your boyfriend like being nice enough to drop couple of drunk girls.
I am not very sure you 'believed' him because if you really did then you wouldn't be questioning him now. And you shouldn't be waiting for a proof because a relationship without trust is no relationship at all.
His friend could have dozens of reasons to why he would lie. (plus the fact that he is telling you something like that, apparently his friend said just makes him doubtful). Reasons like wanting to get back at his friend for something or him having feelings for you, it could be anything that you don't know about that could drive him to lie to you.
If you are unhappy in a relationship, there is no reason to stay in the relationship, you just simple get your boyfriend and be straightforward and tell him how you feel and tell him that you no longer want to be with him.
Also, it's very much okay for your boyfriend to go to 'parties' without you. It's no big deal as long as there is trust.
Good luck :]
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He cheated, You are pretty sure of it. When people are under the influence of alcohol they generally do not have the ability to think with full brain power.
However, As sorry as he may be nobody forces him to take in alcohol, He was fully aware of his own intake therefore his mistakes were completely avoidable.
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Oh girl, please. You know he's cheating. Do yourself a favor and let him go. There's someone better out there for you and you may miss him because you're spending all your time and energy on this creep.
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