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Ok, so I've really liked this guy for 3 years but I've never talked to him. *Everytime I have it's been like my friend (she has known him all her life) talking to him and me just kinda standing there. And that was about 2 years ago* How would you just like start talking to him or what would I say? I know the most obvious answer is to start talking to him when my friend does but they dont talk really anymore. Please help.

well hun.. if you really like this guy. just approach him and ask whats up.. and just start a simple question... do that for a couple weeks and then maybe invite him to your place to hang out or something.. wherever you go talk to him make sure he gets the hint that you like him and if he doesnt straight up tell him.. hey gurl go for it dont be shy he could like you too and you dont even kno it!

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my friend wanted to know if getting braces affects kissing ???

Naw not really... the guy said it kind of feels weird at first.. but it's not that really bad.. I don't have braces but a friend of mine did and she kissed my guy friend. Its not like they are gonna lick your teeth it should be alright.. well wish you friend luck for me with the braces

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Ok, I have a b.f. in Arkansas, and we met once and i really love him. He has no email, and i can't call guy's. I don't know if we should still be together or not. I mean i've only had fealings for him, out of all the boys i've met, which iz like three. Wat should i do. I love him.

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Is that even really a relationship if you never talk and kno what's going on??? Hun... I think you need to go to a friends house or something with a calling card if it is long distance and talk to him tell him what you feel and see if he feels the same way... what's happening between you guys is not a relationship at all... well hope I helped.. the best thing to do is talk to him about it... and if you can't get a hold of him find someone knew.. good luck

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theres a girl i like but she dont like me how i do. shes so perfect 4 me and we have so much in common. im real good friends with her friends too, but im afraid to go out with her because if i get into a fued with her friends it will tear us apart and im known to be a "sh*t disturber" when it comes to my friends. also, im sort of a sucker for per-preasure and have been involved with drugs and i know she doesnt approve too much in that area, so what should i do??

Well first of all... you shouldn't change yourself for a girl at all.. so don't do that... Start showing her that you like her by looking at her and smiling.. but not to much because then she will think your stalking her.... talk to her friends and tell them to start talking about you and have them ask what she thinks of you... and if she doesn't like you because of the things you do... than she is not worth it.. hope i helped good luck

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i was messaging my guy friend today and teasing him about liking this chick i know. (he used to like her) he's like "i dont like her. i like another girl but i know she doesn't like me." i was like "ooooh who is it? whats she like? how do you know she doesn't like you?" he wrote back "she's amazing and wonderful in every way. i know he doesn't like me... coz it's you, babe." i was like OMG i SO dont like him that way. what do i do???

i am in the same situation... my best guy friend told me he wanted to go out with me and he has liked me since the day he saw me.. I guess since you don't like him you are gonna have to let him down easy... tell him you can't see him that way and don't see him that way and you don't even want to risk losing eachothers friendship.. tell it to him in a nice way and keep asking him if he is alright everything will turn out good and he will soon like another girl.... well hope i helped

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I love my b/f but i dont know if he loves me. because we are a secret to everyone because of his friends. what should i do?

Tell him that you need to talk to him.. ask him if he really likes you and if he says yes.. say good so that means we don't have to be so secret with our feelings for eachother... if he says you two do... than tell him he obviously doesn't like you enough to be going out.. if he tries to stop you and say okay then he is the right one.. if he doesn't then maybe you two are the perfect match after all.. you'll just have to start from there hun.. hope i helped

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There is this guy I met that doesnt go to my school but I know who he is, his name is Jordan. And well he is like the hottest guy on this planet and well. I don't think that he likes me, and I don't even know if he even knows me because I have never talked to him, I just seen him at my basketball tournament. ANd well I really like him and I want to ask him out. Do you think that I should get to know this guy and ask him out or just ask him out? And how would I ask him out?
Who ever answers my question I will give them a rating of 5. Thanks a lot.

Hey... I think maybe you should go up to him maybe say hi and start flirting with him... tell him you have had your eye on him for a while.. and actaully kind of like him and want to get to know him a little bit better.. make sure you get his attention... before you approach him like just glance over at him, smile, wave.. he will be shocked that you were that open with him... he will actaully like it... hope i helped

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ok i saw hitch today and it made me think even more of him! i just can't stop thinking of him. its driving me insane too. what should i do... i mean i really like him but im shy, i think hes shy too but i mean is it crazy that i think of him like evey second?
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Hun If you really like him.. you need to go up to him and tell him or this is going to eat at you for a while... get it out in the open so he knows you reallt like him.. don't tell him you think about him all the time becasue the might just creep him out a little.. but if you feel uncomfortable doing it have a friend do it.. but I'm sure he will think more of you if you do it yourself.. well hope i helped good luck

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ive gone out with my boyfriend for a while now. and all weve done is kiss once. ive talked to him about it bc i know that he is the type of guy who gets nervous to do those things and is slow like that. i was the one who made the move in kissing him the first time also. anyways we got in this big fight last night about it. it got really bad and we almost broke up. but we made up. he told me that on monday (tomorrow) he was going to start doing those type of things (holding hands, kiss etc.). so i believed him and said okay. but then i started thinking that what if tomorrow he kisses me but then thinks oh i did something so everything is okay again. and then he will stop doing it. so to my question what do i do if things just stay the same after talking to him so many times? do i break up with him?

The first question you have to ask your self is "Do I like this guy"? If you do then you shouldn't worry about kissing or holding hands.. it's actaully not that big of a deal... The second question you have to ask yourself... "Am I pushing him to hard.. to where he feels uncomfortable?" You just need to give him time maybe he is afraid because he thinks you will just leave him.. and my output on this,You shound't leave him just becasue he is not ready to kiss or anything.. give him time and make the moves on him he will get used to it after a while.. hope I helped

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Im 17/m and here is my problem. Ok Im a senior and prom is comming up soon. Well I have two people in mind to ask out. The first is in my class and I know she likes me. I kinda like her but not as much as she likes me. The other is in 10th grade. I like her but I dont know if she likes me. So now you see my problem. Help please.

I think you should ask the 10th grader first... i dont see why she wouldn't say yes.. she probably doesn't even know you like her... who knows maybe she likes you too.. It doesn't hurt to try... if she says yes.. greats and if she says no.. which i doubt she will... no worries.. you have a date no matter what.... hope i helped hun... have fun at prom

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Me & my boyfriend have been going out for 4 beautiful months. Neither of us have ever kissed anyone before, not even each other. We're both too scared to make the move but I really want to kiss him. I'm really shy so how do I let him know I want to without seeming too obvious. I don't want to make a fool of myself. Please give me some advice on how to overcome that fear.

awww. dont be shy you two have been goin out for 4 months you know him... Just look at him and get his attention. then look in his eyes and smile... just kind of touch his chin with your finger and move a little closer and just kiss him... he will be suprised that a girl made the first move.. he will kiss back and then you two will not be afraid ne more

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me and my boo have been going out for 2 weeks we love each other alot and we really wanna make out!!
but how do i?

please help

It's easy just go with it.. I thought the same way when I firsted kissed but the guy told me I was the best kisser he has ever had. The only thing you wanna make sure you don't do is lick his teeth such a turn off.. trust me andif you do it.. just don't put attention to it... Just when he starts sticking his tounge in your mouth do the same thing.. it's not as hard as it seems... well hope i helped hun

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I dont even know where to start. I'm 19/f I've just recently lost my job, me and mom are arguing all the time now i've just lost my boyfriend (He does say hes not sure what he wants, his hearts telling him to stay then his head and family are saying leave) He has dumped me though. I cry all the time and feel down. How can i pick my self back up i dont want to be depressed. I do have a history of self harm and dont want to go back. Please please help. :-(

Hey hun... I am kind of like the same way.. what I do is make a schedule for my every day so I'm always busy and not having time to be depressed fill your day with the stuff you need and want to do. Trust me this works.. then at night before you go to bed.. journal you day.. It helps.. If you see your ex-boyfriend around town or he calls you act like everything is okay.. you never know maybe he will come back to you... hope i helped keep me updated lots of luck

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i love this kid pat that is 2 years older then me.over the summer he stole my bike thats how i fell in love with him. nd he was my first kiss!! like real kiss. any way we made out 5 6 times in the past. were in a fight right now. i still like him though.opps i mean love. any way he likes this girl liz. but he always make me laugh like last nite.. he was flirting w/ me be4 we got into a fight.. idk should i tell him i love him to death and i would do any thing for him? or noo? please help
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Thats sounds really cute... obviously he likes you girl... Just tell him you don't ever mean to hurt him... Ask him if you can tell him something and if he says yes.. say You know what, I really do actaully love you... this isn't normal for me to be saying this but I seriously do feel that way about you... say that and wait to see what he says,, try to hook up with him... go for it gurl... good luck

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I recently met this guy who I really am starting to like a lot. He has even talked about us being togeather, as in boyfriend/girlfriend, but I decided we should take it slow and go out a few more times. He recently admitted to me that he was bisexual. I still really like him a lot, so should this effect me in any way? I'm really confused, please help me. Thanks

If you really like this guy and you truely know that you do, than go for it.. who cares what his sexuality is. He likes you and you like him... It's perfect and if you worried what people might think, don't be cuz you like the guy remember... I think you should go for him before it is to late... Good luck hun

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my mom works at the same school i go 2. there is a dance and i want to go with this guy. i don't know if my mom would approve. what should i do?

sit your mom down and tell her the situation... tell her you really wanna go to the dance with him... and it would mean alot to you.. moms arent as tough if you calmly sit down and talk to them.. well hope i helped keep me updated..

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but last night i was messing around with my friend's bf. he's my friend too, and it wasn't anything sexual, it was just dancing kinda kinky...and these wierd stalker friends of hers told her (the girl with the bf) and i dont know if shes mad at me or not...i asked her, and she said she wasnt...but how can i know for sure? was what i did wrong?

not to make you feel bad or nothing but that was really wrong... I mean wouldn't you get mad if your friend did that with your boyfriend the best you can do is not to let it happen again.. and keep saying you sorry if she says okay and not in a sincere way then she will probably need a little time... but hang in there hunny it'll all work out in the long run

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okay so i like this guy and we hang out alot and when we do i always feel relaxed and feel confertable but when ever we hold hands or sumthin my hand always start to sweat! and i dont kno wut to do! its gross! i mean im embarrased to like hold hands with him now! wut can i do?

Hey my hand does that to it's just because when you holding hands its like suffocation to your hand his handw sweats too, you just might not be able to notice it. I wouldn't worry about it make jokes about it be like shakin you hand off and say my hands all sweaty then laugh about it.. guys like when girls are themselves. I don't know just try to calm down it'll help... well hope i helped

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ok well theres this boy at school that I like and some other people say that he likes me but I dropped a note in his locker and asked him if he liked me and he checked no helppppppppp me plez

hey hun... i would just take his anwser I know it hurts but I mean you should turst him and not other people try approaching him and telling him what you've heard.. then maybe you will find out for sure what is going on.. try it.. once you figure out whats going on you'll be much more relieved..

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Are there certain signals that guys do that sort of show he likes a girl? I'm 13/f and I have this guy friend and people say he likes me but I'm not sure. He invited me to see a movie with him but how do I know if it's just "friends".

well hun... it kind of sounds like this guy likes you it takes courage for guys to ask you to movies, or even to ask you out.... I don't know maybe you should start giving hints to him that you like him maybe he is just afraid that you won't like him back.. well hope i helped good luck and tell me what happens

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