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I love my b/f but i dont know if he loves me. because we are a secret to everyone because of his friends. what should i do?
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Hmm... why on eaRth would he keep you secRet fRom his fRiends... hmm.. I can't even think of a good Reason foR that; peRhaps theRe isn't one. Keeping it a secRet fRom paRents... eh, okay.. I can see that... I've done that... and it's no big deal. But his fRiends... why -- something to give seRious thought to. HoweveR, I would say that if he's neglecting to even tell his best fRiends... he's obviously not as seRious about you as you aRe about him. PeRhaps even if I have misundeRstood and the pRoblem is that his fRiends don't want the woRd getting out foR some infantile, selfish Reason,then he's obviously not giving you the Respect you deseRve. AnotheR thing, you failed to mention how long you two have been dating -- does that come into play anywheRe? And have you talking to him about youR feelings -- go with THAT as youR game plan. If it seems like it's a haRd conveRsation to bRing up.. then simply don't think about it... just bluRt it out at the most Random time; at least, this always woRks foR me. Goodluck. Hope I helped.
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Sounds to me like this guys a jerk. One of those guys who like to hide their girlfriends because they are ashamed. He may love you, but you shouldn't be with him if you guys aren't public because hes stopping you. You need a guy that treats you with respect, a guy that will want to show you off to the world, I mean, don't you want that? But, it sounds to me, like hes going down the drain anytime soon, unless you talk some sense into him, but good luck.
-TheTeenGirl
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Tell him that you need to talk to him.. ask him if he really likes you and if he says yes.. say good so that means we don't have to be so secret with our feelings for eachother... if he says you two do... than tell him he obviously doesn't like you enough to be going out.. if he tries to stop you and say okay then he is the right one.. if he doesn't then maybe you two are the perfect match after all.. you'll just have to start from there hun.. hope i helped
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If he values his friends more than he values you, forget about him. Tell him that either you two are together to everyone or not at all.
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