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Alright. Does anyone know of some tricks that I can use to make my crush remember me even after we are done talking, like cute ways to flirt or things to say that make him think. I really want to become a better flirt with him but I am not sure how.
Ok, the Number 1 thing that I can tell you and that I know 100% for a fact works, is....Drumroll please... PERFUME. lol.
You wear perfume, chat it up with over the period of a couple days, he'll associate that awesome smell with = YOU. Meanwhile, when yall aren't together, he'll be off with his friends, or gone to walmart or the mall or some random stranger will pass him wearing the same thing you do and he'll associate that with you and he'll think of you the rest of the day. I swear it works!!! You know, I wear perfume everyday but I never thought my husband noticed until he went to Iraq for 7 months, I wrote him a letter and spritzed it with my perfume. He cried for the rest of the day. Now, obviouslly your guy isn't going to do that but you will be in his thoughts which is the goal here. Everytime I go shopping or am just out & about and someone walks by me wearing Axe, I have my hubby on the brain till I get home to see him! So for this to work, you need to wear something that's pretty popular.
My fave's are:
Calvin Klein - Euphoria *****
Ralph Lauren - HOT ***** (this one they sell at walmart so you can scratch & sniff)
Paris Hilton ****
Britney Spears ***
(ya know, I hate paris & britney but there perfumes smell awesome lol)
Well, hope I helped!! Good Luck girl
heyy kirsten, i know this is long but please answer if you can. im so lost any suggestion would be amazing.
the first boy ive ever loved, kissed, gone out with, all of that is still in my head. we started daitng 3 years ago (wer both 14 now) and hes been in my head ever sense. i know he feels the same way and its scary because no matter how many times we break up we aways go back to eachother. it feels like we were destined to be together. and ithink we might be eventually. but...
whenever we have a relationship it gets so serous that im scared to even talk to him. if i do, we flirt nonstop, make all of these plans, and im scared where ittle leade. ive never been able to really get over him, i get butterflys just looking at him and i know he feels the same way. but i dont want to lose a high school experience by being with him, it hurts to talk to him because i feel it getting more serous and stronger by the minuite, but it hurts not to becayse i miss him so much. and i see him in shcool everyday and he just makes me laugh and hes never broken up with me i always break up with him because i feel myself getting too attached and i get scared and run away. i think i might really love him even though i know its not likely at this age. i know i love the way he makes me feel but icant let myself accept it. and he says he dosent want a relationship now but i know i could talk him into it but im not sure whats best. do you think theres a way i could really get over him? not talking to him isnt really an option, it would just be really awkward. hes in my classes so i have to see him everyday. i know i could try to get over him, but im not sure how to get over him for good. the second he looks at me or texts me all is lost and i fall for him again. please help
thanks SO much!
Sharing your first kiss with someone will always be a HUGE thing in every girl's life.. I still remember every detail of mine! BUT there's a difference in my first kiss and yours... You and this guy definately have a history. Even 3 years of a on again off again relationship is a pretty serious thing for someone yall's age. From what you've told me, it sounds like your scared to love him because of what might happen if you let yourself fall that deep. The only problem is, denying your feelings about him, isn't going to make them go away. The heart wants what the heart wants and believe it or not, you have very little control over that! :) I think you should try to have a serious talk with him about yall dating and maybe get back together and try to make it work this time. However, if you do want to cut ties and get over him, the only things you can do is involve yourself in new activities, hang out with your friends more, take up a new sport...but all these things are just things to help fill your time so you don't think about him as much. Even thou I wish there was, there is no magical words that can heal a broken heart or help you get over someone faster. The general time thou is 3 weeks of morning (being sad about not being together) for every 6 months you were together. So the getting over someone process usually takes a while. Our hearts for the most part make up our mind about who we are with because there so powerful. It really does sound to me like you do love him but for some reason just don't want to completley let him in your heart. Take some time for you to think about why you havent given your whole self to him in the past. Even thou your mind doesn't want you to love him, your heart....ALREADY DOES.
well there is this guy who is so perfect for me and is really one of those special guys. hes not like the other stupid guys and hes the type of guy your lucky to find and need to hang on to. he and i are so good for each other! but he lives in dallas while i like in kansas city! (while he was visitng my good friend we hung out a couple times and exchanged numbers) he and i really like each other but we obviously cant date because he live so far away from each other. we cant do long distance and there is no other options. what should i do?? how do i accept this? and how do i keep my heart from hurting. it hurts to like him but know nothing will ever come of it. he has actually talked about when we are in college but come on i know that wont happen and even if it did thats in FOREVER!! im a sophomore and hes a junior.. please help me because i dont know how to deal with this. i really like him..
Who say long distance relationships don't work? I was apart from my husband for 7 months while he was in Iraq. I know it's not quite the same as your situation, but it is proof that long distance relationships CAN work. Does it suck? YES...BUT it can & does work ALL the time. If your in a long distance relationship with him, there is plenty of other ways to show your love for each other while your apart and a added bonus is if you can make this work, then the time will fly by until yall can be in college together. If your totally against a long distance relationship then there really is nothing you can do to speed up the broken heart process. I wish there was, but sadly the hearts gonna miss & want him for however long it takes. You could try taking up new activities, hang out with your friends more, do something that interest you..if your just wanting to take your mind off of him. Best of Luck to you
What does the term 'necking' mean? Is it the same as making out?
The act of kissing and caressing passionately.
So, to answer your question, pretty much, yes.
I guess there's just a little more passion in it that just french kissing. The term "necking" isnt as popular anymore and has been replaced with most commonly "makin' out"
so this guy moved to new york from colorado and he's really cute and funny, i'm kinda falling for him. the thing is he has a girl back in colorado, i guess they're pretty serious, but long distance relationships hardly ever work, so do you think i have a chance with him? i mean i definitely don't want to come in between them ..but idk. help please! :/
I wouldn't advise you coming in between her & him. Long distance relationships CAN work if there's enough love. I should know. What you can do, is just be friends with him for now. If it's true love he has with this girl in Colorado, then don't come in between that. In due time, you'll know if there going to work out or not. Most long distance relationships if there not going to work out then that will happen in the first month of seperation because that is when it is harder for the couples to be apart. You don't want to drive him away from his girl and then make him regret it and dump you just to go back to her. Then you end up with a broken heart so back to the old but very true saying...WHAT IS MENT TO ME WILL ALWAYS FIND A WAY ღ
Okay I have this really amazing boyfriend..
I love him to death. I'm not trying to be
cocky but I'm pretty popular at school
& get along with everyone. All of his friends
and I are really great friends expect this one.
This one lets call him Gary, is really small
and obnoxious. He makes fun of me in everyway he possibly can. I pretend it doesnt bother me but it really does... and all the guys laugh. When I talk to the guys, they say they are sorry and they dont think of me like kyle does, say he says im "dumb" hypothetically speaking, the other guys will tell me im not. So anyway I hate it beacuse... my boyfriend laughs too and I dont know what to do. It really bugs me, and I dont have a problem with anyone else. ?? help.
It's your boyfriends "friend" so it's up to your boyfriend to do the right thing and talk to "Gary". My Husband (was just my boyfriend until April of this year) would NOT of stood for someone saying anything mean or hateful to me or about me and your's shouldn't either. Tell your boyfriend that you don't appreciate "Gary's" comments and you would appreciate it if he would stand up for you and especially not laugh at what the jerk says. If he won't stand up for you, then tell him you'll move on to bigger and better things!
okay..i told my boyfriend that im willing to give up my virginity for him but he said he would take it but just not now..he is also a virgin..we've been together for a while and i trust him..i was wondering if he is sayin to wait because he loves me so much that he wants to save it for a more special time or does he want to loose his virginity to someone better and more beautiful..i really dont kno..but also that i'm a lil' young okay really youngand he's 2 yrs older than mebut i would even be able to trust him wit my life..so i don't know wat i should be thinking..can u plz..plz..give me some advice..i live in L.A.soo every1 is doing it but im not a follower..
If a guy is in a relationship and says he is willing to wait... He says that for only one reason. HE IS WILLING TO WAIT. lol. Which means he think's your worth waiting for. Be excited about that. You don't see to many guys like that now days. I'm glad your not a "follower" You want to remember your first time as being special, not.. I did it cuz everyone else was doin it.
-Marine Wife
The bar scene is beginning to make me sick.
I really wanted to try the whole "interweb dating" thing, so I did! I met someone from MySpace and he completely hated me. You might say "Oh Erica, you're clearly exaggerating."
No. If this guy had a machete, I wouldn't have a head.
I want to date. Any advice, oh hell, just any response whatsoever, would make me happy.
The internet doesn't have to be a bad place to find what your looking for.. You just have to know the right places to look is all. I met my husband on yahoo!. We just got married April of this year and have been goin' strong for 2 years now. Maybe you could try Yahoo chatting sites (but be careful and very selective about what info you give out until you know the person better) also try e-harmony.com I heard alot of positive things about that website. www.yahoopersonals.com www.hotornot.com
www.match.com-twice as many marriages as any other site-200,000 ppl last year found love on match.com-#1 dating website.
It can take time and effort but it's all worth it in the end if you find the person that makes your heart beat faster & slower at the same time. Much luck to you..
i chose to ask you this question, becuase from seeing answers youve given- it seems like you really might be able to help me with my problem. well, i was going out with this guy for almost a year and a half. granted, im only 16, so that was a long time for me. his family has known myne since before we were born, and everythnig always jsut seemed right in place. i always thought that he was the one that i would spend the rest of my life with, and for a while there, he told me the same thing. however, i got pregnant five months ago, and althoguh our families are fully aware and trying their best to help us out, things have gotten pretty shaky becuase of this baby. at first, my boyfriend was all about helping me out, and always saying 'its okay, everythnig will turn out okay', he was always there to motivate me. but we had been arguing a lot lately, and for one, i had accused him of cheating several times- i dont have proof that he cheated, but it was one of those womanly instinct things, ya know? i just had a huge feeling tht he was drifting away from me. and after every time we'd argue, we'd make up and be fine for a few days, then itd start all over again. i blamed the stress on the fact that we were pregnant and had a lot to worry about. that we were jsut frustrated. well, one night, completely out of the blue- about a week ago, maybe- he called me up and basically told me that i didnt make him happy anymore,and that there was no way he could be with me and marry me. i had no choice but to be mad at him- i dont want things to be like that for my baby. we got into a HUGE fight, and he brought back things of my past. (id been with a 31 year old man before, and i told him about it- ever since then he holds it over my head all the time ) he sed ever since i told him about that i havent made him happy. i couldnt believe that he was jsut now saying this, after i told him that like, almost a year ago. i knew it upset him, but there was nothing i could do about it- it all happened before i met him. i had also been with a few more guys than i should have. he was a virgin when we met, and i know that for a fact. he sed that he cant stand being with someone who cant say that they were a virgin when they met. i just started crying and began to think that this was his lame excuse for not wanting to be with me anymore, and that he was trying to make it as bogus as possible. and it was working. then, jsut a few minutes before we hung up, he told me he had wished hed slept with every girl he had the chance to, jsut so i would know how it feels. i couldnt believe he was doing this to me,after so long, and after making a baby with me. so, needless to say, we broke up. well, just the night before last, i was trying to get a hold of him on the phone ( we still talk) and he wouldnt answer- so i tried a few more times before i went to bed, and called it a night. when i called him the next morning before school- i asked why he wasnt ansering his phone- he sed he got it taken away lastnight, and he was grounded. hes grounded alot of the time, so i figured id ask what it was this time. he bluntly told me it was becuase he told his parents he was at his friend's house, and it turns out he was at the movies with a girl from his old school. she used to come over all the time after school when no one was home, and theyd make out- i mean, it was almost an everyday thing. i could not believe he would do that to me. i asked him if anything happened, and he promised me no, but how am i to believe that? when he sed hed wished he had been with every girl that wuld give him the chancem and because they already have a past together. he sed i was making a big deal out of it. tha we werent together, so its not like he cheated on me, and that he was just going out with a friend. but he never went out with other girl when we were together. also, now him and his parents thnk i shuld put the baby up for adoption. their first grandchild!!!!!!!!!!! he thinks it wuld be a good idea, too!- his first child!!!!!!- i justcant believe all this is happeneing to me. it has brought me so much hurt and depression, and i jsut cant seem to get away from it, i know theres more to come. my questions are, do YOU think it wuld be best to opt for adoption?- how can i get over him being with other girls?- it hurts soooo bad. how am i gunna do this without my boyfriend? do u think i shuld try and get him back?- i want him back soooooooooo bad. i want everything to be the way it was. how could i get him back? and if theres anything else you wanna tell me go right ahead. i need all the advice i can get.
Hey girl... God, I can soooo relate to you. I too, was pregnant as a teenager. (I hope you don't mind me tellin' you this story) I was 17 and had told my boyfriend of 3 years (same age as me) that I was pregnant.. He said don't worry baby everything is going to be ok, I love you and were going to get married when we turn 18. 2 weeks later he pulled up at my house and told me it was over. I never seen him again. Everyone around me convinced me to have a abortion, my mom threated that if I didn't..she'd take away my car, kick me out and get me fired from my job. I felt like I didn't have a choice so I went through with it, against my better judgement. That one day changed my life forever. I lost my baby to a abortion that I did NOT want. I still cry at night almost 8 years later. So as far as his parents telling you to put your baby up for adoption.. if you don't want to..then you tell them to kiss you where the sun don't shine. There just looking out for there son, makin sure he dont have to take on any responsibilites, they don't care how you feel in all this. If you want him back, all you can do is just let him know how sorry you are that you had been with other ppl BEFORE you & him even met, but that you could only say you were sorry, you cant take back your actions. Also let him know that: "Regardless of what I did or didn't do before we even met doesn't change the situation now. I am having your baby and you need to step up and be a man" If he does decide he wants nothing to do with you or that baby, you take him to court for child support. His parents will have to pay on his behalf till he turns 18. Your parents and you shouldnt have all the finacial problems of this baby just on yall... He helped create this child and he needs to help take care of it. I know it hurts so bad when you need him the most right now and he is acting this way. Honestly, I think he's just scared and thought up that excuse as a way to back out. If those things REALLY did bother him so much, he wouldv'e told you a long time ago, not keep having sex with you then wait till your knocked up for it to suddenly start bothering him. So let him know that you know that he's scared and that he was just looking a way to back out...Let him know that your scared to...Scared of the baby we created never seeing his father because he acted like a coward. Don't let him run all over you or make you feel bad for things that now, you have no control over. You hold your head up high and listen to what I say..which is that EVERYTHING WILL BE OK. I give you tremendous respect for having the courage to stick through this pregnancy and everything. I know you might be scared that he might not be in your life but if he isn't I promise you, it won't hurt forever, even though it may seem that way now.
P.S. Sorry if it took me to long to get to this question, my computer had messed up over the weekend, I would never turn down a inbox question.
By the way, What are you going to name your baby?
And if you're a girl...well I don't know how you know or are going to justify your answers. Anywhos what are main things guys HATE or LOATHE about girls and What do you guys LOVE and absolutly ADORE about girls.
Also, I'm a kind of girl that makes little trouble at school (like piss a teacher off for fun), outspoken at times, metal head, rocker chic, getting my drift? I'm that kind of a girl. Are guys interested in girls like that?
I am a girl-(I'm 24 so I guess a woman) and I can justify my answers. Everything I know, I know from all past relationships combined from when I was 16 up until now. I've asked many men what they looked for in a woman, just because it fasicnates the hell outta' me that we don't understand them...lol Here is a few thing's I've been told over the years:
WHAT THEY DON'T LIKE:
CLINGYNESS
DRAMA QUEENS
WHINEY BRATS
TRYING TO TALK LIKE A BABY
SUCKING ON PACIFERS -YEA THEY DO THAT HERE IN NC
TO MUCH JEALOUSY
ACTING LIKE YOUR BETTER THAN EVERYONE ELSE
WANTING TO KNOW THERE EVERY MOVE 24/7
CALLING TO MUCH (LIKE 4567481 TIMES A DAY)
TELLING THEM YOU LOVE THEM AFTER 2 DATES
TELLING THEM WHAT THEY CAN AND CANT DO
ACTING LIKE YOU WOULD JUST DIE IF YOU DIDN'T HAVE THEM.
LYING
WHAT THEY LOVE:
4 YOU TO BE PROUD OF THEM
TO BE TOLD THERE LOVED
2 BE A LIL' JEALOUS-I MEAN JUST A LIL' NOW..
MAKING THEM HEARTFELT LIL' SOMETHING'S
COMPLIMENTS -DON'T EVERYBODY NOW & THEN?
FOR YOU TO WINK AT EM'-SHOW EM' YOUR GAME!
FLIRTING
CUTE CLOTHES THAT DRAW ATTENTION TO U -NOT SLUTTY
LONG HAIR
FOR YOU TO BE INDEPENDENT
SMART
KNOW WHAT YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU GROW UP
NOT WISHY-WASHY ABOUT STUFF
Hope this helps, if not.. Hey! I did try!
-Marine Wife
does anyone have any good ways to flirt
here is a awesome website for ya' http://www.ehow.com/how_15903_flirt.html
Hope this helps
-Marine Wife
I was just wondering, how do you like french kiss? any trick or tips? thanks :-)
Set the scene. Make sure that the mood and time are right.
Relax! Take a deep breath and let go of any tension in your neck and shoulders.
Put your arms around the person you want to kiss.
Start off with a normal kiss, not too firm, not too aggressive. Closing your eyes is optional.
In mid kiss, gently open your mouth and softly nudge the other persons mouth open using your tongue.
Again, not too aggressively, move your tongue inside the other persons mouth and playfully touch their tounge.
Read the other persons body language, if they seem tense or start to pull away, stop what you are doing.
If they open their mouth more or otherwise indicate they like the kiss, keep on doing what you have been only with a little more passion.
As the kissing gets going saliva build up can be a problem, don't forget to swallow.
Make sure you keep your tongues relaxed but your lips tight (saliva again), you don't want the kiss to turn messy.
Tips:
Don't forget to breathe.
Since French Kissing is "wetter" than other kinds of kissing it is a good idea to start with dry lips, don't lick them first.
If one of you have braces you can still French Kiss, you just have to be more careful and not as forceful when things get passionate.
If both of you wear braces you can still French Kiss, you just have to be very gentle and avoid touching teeth.
French Kissing takes practice, but at least it is fun to practice this one!
Info pulled from: http://teenadvice.about.com/cs/kissing/ht/frenchkissht.htm
I'm 16 and i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 3yrs. it was just 3 days ago. we didn't use protection i'm worried i could be pregnant. i wouldn't have done it if i didn't love him. but his phones been cut off. He has a cell phone but hasn't called or anything. Should i be worried or relax?
WHAT SHOULD I DO???
Prime example on waiting to have sex. I do however have to give you props for waiting 3 years I suppose. Moving on to your question.... GIRL! Didn't you know when you layed down to have sex with him that you could get pregnant if he didnt use a condom? It's too soon for you to have any symptoms & it's too soon to take a pregnancy test. Take the test 4 days BEFORE your NEXT period should come. If it comes out positive then you and him have alot of talking to do and if it's negative...then maybe you have learned your lesson about being more careful! 30 minutes of pleasure vs. 9 months of pain.
-Marine Wife
my boyfriend is going to propose to me on christmas (i over heard...oops!) it will then be 7 months we have gone out. Is that bad? I mean it doesnt mean we are gonna get married...
No it's not bad at all. Love has no certain time limit! Me and my husband were together for 6 months when he asked me to marry him, and 6 more months later we were married. His good friend went on a trip and met a girl and they knew each other 3 days when he asked her to marry him (no there not ugly ppl lol) and they've been happily married for 3 years now. When you find that person....you got to hold on to em'. Best of Luck to you both.
-Marine Wife
so theres this girl who i like but i dont know if she likes me, she always waves to me and when i called her once after she told me to she said a greeting so quickly that she sounded as if she planned it. what do u think?
She might of planned it lol us girls do things like that. Well, there's not really much to discuss here. She told you to call her, and you did. Know this.. If she didn't like you, there is NOOO way she would of told you to call her, so that's a good thing. Best Of Luck, sorry I couldn't help ya more.
i'm 16 and been with my boyfriend for 8 months, we havn't had sex but we mess around alot, he's fingered me and i've done stuff to him. one day a few months ago we was messing around and his penis was close to my hole. it was my first month of being on the pill and i've had my periods since. but i've also read symptons that i think i've been experiencing. i've felt "fluttering, sick, i've put on weight and my boobs have got bigger. he's told me i'm worrying over nothing and do to a test if i'm really worried. but couls i be pregnant?
His sperm HAS to enter your vagina to become pregnant. No questions about it. Take a test if you think it will ease your mind a bit, but I highly doubt you are pregnant judging by the fact that you still have your period. The symptoms you have could be from the pill.
I am 28/f. The situation is complicated. He has had a female best friend for a while now. I have always felt a little jealous, like he was spending more time with her than with me. I know her and her boyfriend, and thus am 100% sure he is not cheating with her, but I am still jealous. About two months ago, we started marriage therapy. When he told me he wanted to to that, he said he felt like he should move out for a while and had arranged to stay with this woman temporarily. Now I am insanely jealous of her. He knows this. So does she. They are starting an internet business together, and as work at the same place, and spend a lot of time together as a result. We have been doing well in therapy. He understands my jealousy and has been spending less time with her over the past couple months, but now they are starting to spend more time together again. In fact, he is at her place now working on their internet project. Her bf is there too, but it is still hard for me. I don't know if I will ever stop being jealous of her. Honestly, I would feel better if he never saw her again. But I know that they are just friends, and I would feel terrible asking him to not see his best friend again.
Oh, about 5 years ago, I had a male best friend. My marriage was on the rocks then too as I was in the midst of terrible depression (for which I take antidepressants still). My husband let me go out with my friend all the time, so now I feel like a hypocrite not wanting him to spend time with her. But I never made arrangements to live with my friend.
Other than this issue, we have really worked out pretty much everything in therapy and are doing so well. I am very much in love with him again, and he loves me and makes it very clear. That only makes me feel worse about this jealousy I feel. Then I get stressed. It is a downward spiral from there.
I guess my questions are: Should I be so jealous? What can I do to make it less of a problem? Will I get over it? Should I ask him to not see her, or is that just a bit harsh?
I don't care if the borfriend is there or not. He shouldn't of ever moved in with this woman! I would have forbid it! It's a recipe for disaster. Yes you have every right to be jealous. Is he still staying with this woman? If he is, then tell him he can't no more if he expects to be with you. Keep your eyes open.
I recently asked a question and what type of pregnancy test to get since my period is late. I'm not even worried about my late period anymore, i'm just completely scared. My boyfriend and I have been talking about this and he feels that abortion is our best option since im only 16 and hes 18. I don't believe in abortion unless under very specific circumstances.
My parents don't even know i'm sexually active, and i was wondering, if this I actually am pregnant, how the hell do I tell them. He hasn't even met them yet, and I dont think my parents are going to want to here, mom dad this is ***************, oh and by the way, i'm so many months pregnant. Not exactly the best introduction.
What I'm asking is.. how will I tell my parents that i'm pregnant by a guy they just go to meet. I've known him for a long time and hes my best friend, but theyre still going to freak. Someone please help
If you don't beleive in the killing of a innocent child, then don't do it..simple as that. I say find out for sure if your pregnant first, you may be stressing over NOTHING! If it turns out your are, you really dont have a choice but to tell your parents. Maybe not in the same day though? Like introduce him to your parents, wait a couple weeks then drop the bomb.
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Hey..sorry its soo long i hope you can help im the one usually giving advice if you ever need some ask me!
I hav been going out for this guy let's call him Josh for almost 10 months. We hav an amazing relationship and he really is my best friend. We have one problem his ex girlfriend is insane. She is obssesed with him and there is a long story behind that but just to make it short she is jealous and she wants him and her and I got into a big thing. I don't liek to start things and i do stand up for myself but i don't liek having enemies. About 2 weeks ago. My boyfriend started treating me like crap. This is 2 weeks ago: Saturday night we got into a fight because his ex's friends were starting stuff with my friends. I told him that i didn't know if i cood take i anymore. We weren't on the best page. Since it is summer we don't see eachother that much he went to camp before these 2 weeks and now he's on vacation. SO back to Saturday so that happened then on Sunday we talked and he was mad and upset. On monday we were planning to see eachother on tuesday but my friends messed it up. Also on monday we had a long talk about his ex and hwo i feel like he doesn't stand up for me like he should. When our plans got ruined for tuesday i was upset but it seemed like he didn't even care. On tuesday he called me at night and we didn't talk much but i asked him what he did today and he said nothing and that he's been thinkin about alot. I got a little worried. Well anyways Wedneday came n i went to my friends house with him and all my friends.I decided to just forget about everything because he was leaving that friday and i thought it would be the last time i would see him so i wanted it to be good. It somehow came up and he wanted to talk and said that i don't feel like he is really intersting and all that and he simply told me that he was just thinking that the relationship is getting too serious as in commitment wise. I understood because we are still young but how could he tell me he loves me if he doesn't wanna be with me. Well anyways on thursday i found out that on wednesday night he slept at his friends house and he did a camera thing with one ofmy friends theyw ere all joking but he told her to pull her shirt down more so her boobs would show. It's so hard to even write this because he's so not like this. On thursday night i found out earlier that day his ex adn her friends came over to swim with his friends. Just to amek it short on friday i saw him for 2 minutes and i was planning on talking to him about it but he could only stay for like 5 minutes. He was being an ass and he just left and said i love you bye. He's on vacation right now and i don't know what to do when he comes back. Thanx for reading this .What should i do?HE was never liek this before and all of a sudden he was acting liek an ass. I'm confused and i think i will regret iof i break up with him but at the same time i want him to go out with his exand see how diffent it is and realize he needs me but then i feel like i'd look like an idiot if i go back with him if he comes back to me later
please hlp thanx soo much for reading this. I'm 14 and a girl.lol
WOW lol. ok first things first. If you want to keep him you need to get everyone else in check before he gets back. Your friend that pulled her shirt down so her boobs would show...ummmm uh-uh.
Whatever way it was took- that was flirting. I'd tell her I didnt appreciate her showin her tits like that. Next thing...the ex-girlfriend. What's up with her? I'm assumin they broke up on bad terms for her to turn into a stalker/bitch. Let her know.... *IF* he wanted you so bad, he would be with you. Take a hint. Now..Moving on to the boyfriend... It's time for a serious talk with him. Let him know that regardless if he wants a SERIOUS relationship with you or not that you still demand respect. (Him telling that girl to pull her shirt down & dissin' you at places) Girl, if you put your foot down now..things will work out so much better for you in the end. Let him know you love him but you won't continue to be treated as 2nd best. When he get's back from vacation.. DONT CALL HIM. Let him come to you. You want you to be in his head not him all up in yours. Now, Let's say he wants to break up for whatever reason... Say ok if that's the way you want it...and leave it at that. Let him see you having fun, going out, doing your thing. Even if yall were at a party and he danced with another girl (he would only do that to piss you off) then you just keep lauging and hangin it with your friends like you couldn't give 2 shits if he was even there or not. This will make him come CRAWLING back to you. Humans always want what they think they can't have. ~*Always remember that*~
I have a boyfriend. But last night I had a dream where I was making out with this guy I used to like. Is that some kind of sign that I should be with him? Or does it mean that deep down I still like him? What does it mean?
Dreaming that you are cheating can result from guilt you feel about other issues. In some cases these feelings of guilt are not even related to your relationship. Rather, the guilt could be the result of anything from cutting corners at work to cheating on a test to being less than honest with family members. Thus the cheating is only a symbol of guilt you already feel, not a prediction that you will be stepping out on your boyfriend.
So whether you are the cheater or the cheatee in your dream, it is important to examine the situations you encounter in your dreams. The situations, places and people encountered while in a dream state often represent real people, places and objects, and learning the connections can allow you to correct the situations that are leading to such feelings of insecurity and anxiety.