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Guys Point of View.
And if you're a girl...well I don't know how you know or are going to justify your answers. Anywhos what are main things guys HATE or LOATHE about girls and What do you guys LOVE and absolutly ADORE about girls.
Also, I'm a kind of girl that makes little trouble at school (like piss a teacher off for fun), outspoken at times, metal head, rocker chic, getting my drift? I'm that kind of a girl. Are guys interested in girls like that?
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This comes from my boyfriend: Stick with your tunes, do your thing and wait. You don't want to take just anybody because there are a lot of morons out there. So just keep doing your own thing and wait, somebody is going to come. The one main thing guys don't like is when girls get all girly and weird, or when they bitch wide open over nothing at all. Just be yourself, someone out there will love you for it. ♥
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I'm 35 years old now, but I'm going to answer this question from the viewpoint of how I was in high school (yes, it's a viewpoint 18 years out of date, but I think some things don't change with time).
I'm of the opinion that while opposites may attract, they don't generally ask each other out. If you are an outspoken, metal head, rocker chic kind of girl, you're going to get attention from outspoken, metal head, rocker chic kinds of guys. Now, that doesn't mean that there aren't other guys out there who attract you, they just might not be approaching you.
Why? Well, this is where we get into my personal point of view, because when I was in school, those were EXACTLY the kinds of girls that turned my head. I loved the look, I loved the attitude, and I loved the rebelliousness. The problem is that it wasn't who I was - I was introspective, cynical, guarded, and uncertain. I was afraid to ask out these girls whom I admired so much because I thought they wouldn't find someone like me attractive; I assumed that they were seeking someone more like themselves. I figured they were, as a group, out of my league.
So to answer your second question: Yes, there are many guys who are interested in girls like that, but you may not ever hear from most of them.
To answer your first, the main thing I admire in a girl is Honesty. Not just in speaking the truth, but in living as who she is, not as who she is expected to be or some persona that she hides behind.
I also like (cliche alert) a sense of humor. But not just ANY sense of humor; I like the kind of girl who I can be with and we both know that the entire world is one big, crazy joke, and we're the only ones who get it. That may seem a little weird, but it's the best way I can think of to describe it.
For what I don't like, go with the opposite of the above - insincere poseurs with no sense of fun.
Oh, and I'm also a sucker for emerald green eyes.
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Most of what guys like in girls is confidence, maturity, and looks (to an extent). Since you're outspoken that would show confidence, just as long as you aren't annoying or overbearing about it. I'm not sure what you meant by making "little trouble at school". If you meant that you make a little trouble, that is a positive too. A lot of trouble shows immaturity, but a little trouble shows that you're not too mature or too much of a suck up. The metal head, rocker girl image can be a blessing or a downfall. It would be a blessing if guys that had that image too were attracted to you because of it. It would be your downfall if guys avoided you because it was so strong of an image and they weren't that into it. All in all, I think you're doing pretty well for yourself. Just remember not to cause too much trouble and to maybe tone down your image a bit to open the field a little more. Remember too, that the male population as a whole is not attracted to just one type of girl. There are guys out there that like lots of different things. If you like who you are, don't change yourself a lot just to attract a guy. Somebody out there is attracted to you already. Good luck! :)
I know that I am female, but I have asked guys this same question and have gotten very honest answers from them. I have a lot of male friends, too, and I've come to understand how they tend to think.
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I am a girl-(I'm 24 so I guess a woman) and I can justify my answers. Everything I know, I know from all past relationships combined from when I was 16 up until now. I've asked many men what they looked for in a woman, just because it fasicnates the hell outta' me that we don't understand them...lol Here is a few thing's I've been told over the years:
WHAT THEY DON'T LIKE:
CLINGYNESS
DRAMA QUEENS
WHINEY BRATS
TRYING TO TALK LIKE A BABY
SUCKING ON PACIFERS -YEA THEY DO THAT HERE IN NC
TO MUCH JEALOUSY
ACTING LIKE YOUR BETTER THAN EVERYONE ELSE
WANTING TO KNOW THERE EVERY MOVE 24/7
CALLING TO MUCH (LIKE 4567481 TIMES A DAY)
TELLING THEM YOU LOVE THEM AFTER 2 DATES
TELLING THEM WHAT THEY CAN AND CANT DO
ACTING LIKE YOU WOULD JUST DIE IF YOU DIDN'T HAVE THEM.
LYING
WHAT THEY LOVE:
4 YOU TO BE PROUD OF THEM
TO BE TOLD THERE LOVED
2 BE A LIL' JEALOUS-I MEAN JUST A LIL' NOW..
MAKING THEM HEARTFELT LIL' SOMETHING'S
COMPLIMENTS -DON'T EVERYBODY NOW & THEN?
FOR YOU TO WINK AT EM'-SHOW EM' YOUR GAME!
FLIRTING
CUTE CLOTHES THAT DRAW ATTENTION TO U -NOT SLUTTY
LONG HAIR
FOR YOU TO BE INDEPENDENT
SMART
KNOW WHAT YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU GROW UP
NOT WISHY-WASHY ABOUT STUFF
Hope this helps, if not.. Hey! I did try!
-Marine Wife
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