me and my girlfriend had sex and i pulled out and cummed on her vagina but shes on the pill can she get pregneat?
yup, sorry but as you know already the pill isnt 100% , ive had friends who've been on the pill and got pregnant.
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16/F
I've been dating my boyfriend for a month now and it's been the best month ever because he's the first of a handful of guys who've made me happy. So far, we mostly hug and kiss. I feel like I do most of the talking, but I know it's just because he's shy, which is totally cute. I was wondering, though, is there anything we can do other than this or is there a way to make it better, maybe get him talking more?
By the way, I don't mean anything sexual since he's obviously too shy and I'm terrified of the idea of it... And we're too young, haha, so yea.
Basically, is there anyway to get him talking more maybe? Or some way to cuddle with him more?
just be more playful around him joking and totally relaxed, that would cause less tension! once he feels totally comfortable with you he'll be more talkative! the same happened with my ex when we were dating at me 15 him 16! he was sooo shy now thati think about it like i was always asking questions and i felt like the talk was forced but he was really into me and i liked him so i didnt mind haha but once we started getting along better and better we would be sooo comfortable around each other and he was so NOT the shy type anymore eventho there were no sexual stuff involved but like once i started to be less nervous around him and just more relaxed and acting like idk just chilling around he would feel more comfortable :) than it being all tense me asking question loking for new topics lol
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Me and this guy hung out and hooked up and he wanted to go farther and I said no and he's like pleasee, we'll take it slow after this but I still said no, I asked him bout it in the morning he said he didn't want a relationship and then we stopped tlaking then he started talking to me again and he asked me for nudes and asked me to strip for him and I said no and he always wants to chill and I said no because I thought it was a booty call so I said no but then like the third time he got mad and I was like sorry I want respect and don't wanna be used! And he's like I'm not using you I like you and I'm like what about when you said you don't want A relationship and he's like well I've missed you since then :( and hooking up with someone you like isnt so bad because it could bring us closer. so I dunno if he just wants action or likes me?
:(
pls help!
kaaitlyn
this is the typical "i have to have sex with you so i can consider us having a relationship" type of guy, don't listen to him, guys will tell you what you wanna hear just so they can get some trust me i know, i have a bunch of guy friends and its true they say that we us girls just as they tell us they love us and that we're beautiful and that they're interested, then we'll be willing to do stuff with them (most girls not all of them but the ones doubting ) i mean it only takes an i love you from them for us to be there willing to do something with them,
i dont think this guy wants a relationship since he is trying to just get into your pants instead of actually getting to know you and then seeing what happens, i dont think that he likes you honestly like for a gf ..but he definatley is attracted to you, just stay true to what you believe tell him you won't be doing any stuff with someone who isnt your bf or something more solid, tell him you don't want just a hook up...and he'll obviously try to make you fall for him get to know you and all that, well if he's actually interested,, so wait a little bit to see if he actually behaves for a little while , so you'd know he wasnt just trying to get something out of it and faking all the interest!
good luck! :)
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Me and my boyfriend have been friends since 3rd grade and we started dating since 8th grade we are about to graduate high school and he wants to get married. We both have refused to have sex with each other because we do not wanna risk are relationship with a baby . I really don't know what's best for him and for us . if you were me and you didn't Want anyone else what would you do .
you mean if i'd have sex with this person being you?...answer is no, let me tell you something that you probably won't like and won't believe me , when i was 14 ,15 , 16, 17 i had the same bf i thought i was in love i wouldve done anything for him and i felt that i wanted to be with him forever. as i grew older and we broke up after being together for so long i felt that my life was over i got that "i wanna die" feeling, but i got over it, and after meeting other people i look bback and think like WTF seriously what was i thinking? iwas gonna lose my virginity to him, and i thought i didnt wanted because of a baby, i would say, wait until it actually feels right for you, you being here asking "us" those questions means that you're not sure about it, cause being honest no one wants to take the risk but when the time comes and you meet this wonderful person who taking this "risks" is totally worthy you will be sure you wanna share this experience with him, id say wait , you guys are too young, you don't know whats gonna happen and you dont wanna regreat it later in life i thought i was ready to have sex with him but kept asking myself is this right? and that told me i wasn't first mature enough to have sex with him because i wasn't mature enough to accept whatever concecuenses come from that .
so if you are not ready to accept if something goes wrong, don't do it, im not saying wait til marriage of course not, but its very common for relationships at your age to be like thinking you and this guy are gonna live happy together for the rest of your lives, im not trying to be a pesimist but im trying to explain to you from someone that already went through that that most people your age and in a relationship like yours go through this stage when you think you are so in love and you will stay forever with this person, i know when they told me the same when i was 14 i was like "you don't know what is like, WE are gonna get married" but to be honest since you are still young there are changes still in both of you, as you guys start growing older going through adolescence is very common to grow appart since girls mature sooner than boys, so i'd say wait, if you guys are still gonna stay together then why rush it? enjoy teenage love and what comes with it don't try to live it all at once getting into stuff that neither of you are mentally ready, (not to offend anyone to be honest) but you guys are young, and if you are not mature enough to accept any possible consequences then don't do it, besides you wouldn't want to...what if you guys break up, when you are a bit older you'd have another relationship and someone who you'd be sure you wanna share this with and you'll understand that maybe you shouldve wait. im not trying to make a big deal out of it im just sharing my opinion, don't rush it, you are young
with this desicion comes responsability . hope ive helped and that you make the right choice :)
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This long distance relationship is killing me. I have found the person I love more than anything and he lives about 10 hours away. I'm 17 and I still have to finish out high school but sometimes I just feel so depressed and lonely here. What should I do?
try to go out more with your friends i know its very difficult to even distract yourself by doing other stuff trust me im in the same situation and i had a very very bad time when if i wasnt speaking to him or on school id be sleeping :S just to pass the time until i could speak to him again :S 10 hours away its NOTHING compared to 6 hours time difference ! and a whole ocean separating you from your boyfriend, i live in america and my boyfriend in the UK its sooo difficult to speak to him cause when i wake up he's already half a day ahead me ! its killing me !!! but do what im trying to do , like focus alot on school and this helped me pass the time really quick, its harder now cause im on christmas break ! i swear thats the only reason i wanna go back to uni just so i can take my mind a bit off him!!! its aweful, but just think about soon you'll be with him, thats a way that i could go for months without seeing him cause we had some problems and he couldnt come during that time so now its like wow we've been together for 11 months already and he's comming in about 4 weeks !! seems alooooot but i try to focus on other activities although it is veyr hard now on vacations but once you're in school i was studying alot doing homework and doing stuff in advance like starting homework early (trust me im no geek but i started doing SO good at uni and to be honest i was failing some subjects but this helped me cause it was either study and school work or go out with friends or think about him 24/7) it sucks !!! but just think that soon enough you'll be finishing high school, cause think about it and i dont know for you but for me 2010 passed soooo quickly cause i started involving myself in tons of activities(to take my mind off him ) i started going to the gym, studying more, doing homework, reconecting with old friends i didnt see that much anymore . my point is .....i know this situation sucks, but try to make the best out of it just like i did and try to do sometimes but on vacations its almost impossible to be honest too much time in my hands and nothing to do !! positive aspects , i started working out alot eventho i was kinda lazy now my body looks better than ever did hahaha, i did better than i ever in uni my grades were great, and i am very close to my friends and see them very very often like if i could id see them everyday just to take my mind off him , since i was really busy trust me 6 months went flying by! i know its hard but try to make the best out of it and then when you finally take a brake for your thousand activities you realise that time goes by quickly :)!!
if you need someone to talk just tell me trust me i totally understand you ive felt like crying sooo many times and i have cried because i miss him soo much :S .... also try to keep up with each others day thats very important , because by speaking to him like constant texting or just on the phone every day etcetera makes me feel not that sad anymore and actually happy that i will see him soon, if you want someone to talk to or anything you can message me :) trust me i know what you're going through but if you wanna stay with him enroll yourself in alot of activities to pass the time, but of course dont let this take ALL your time or else you'll never speak to your boyfriend hahaha try to excercise or learn something new you always wanted to learn, i even took salsa lessons ! hahahahaha just to pass the time ! but hey it helped since i had a very tight agenda suddenly it was like here we are 11 months later :P!
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my brother saw me and mary kissing in a store and came up and said "i know what you did" and put the message on my facebook page and i locked my page but im afraid my mom might find me what should 'cause im freaking out and mary is trying to keep me calm me down.HELP
im guessing this question has alot of previous questions? cause it makes NO sense remember that people can't really know if you've asked previous questions so try to adress it better next time,
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its me again and me and my girlfriend mary have made it official were now running away from all the crap our parents give us and we will be able to be together . right now were at a hotel my friends brother rented . its going great and we had sex only 1 time . but is this right? help me please
how old are you? and was there a real reason to run away? like was it just so u could have sex with her ?.....cause to be honest sounds better to just get a hotel or something than paying your own rent, bills,clothing etc don't miss on the opportnity to live with your parents they pay for your stuff prepare your meals its something you wont have forever hahaha so don't throw it away fro something that might not be really that important or a big deal
think about is this is worth risking your relationship with your family btw
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k;; well me nd this guy have been dating 2 months;; we have only made out but talked about him fingering me; he felt me up nd he played with me down there many times he tried getting farther but i stopped him;; we were at the movies nd he felt me up;; the started ggoin down;; i felt a little uncomfortable then he just started fingering me ;; then i felt good i let him keep doing it;; i finallly stopped him; im 13 am i a slut?
you're not this is just your body responding to something that makes it feel good, just be careful about who you do this with and how far it gets ,, you don't wanna get a bad reputation
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I'm a baby and can't tell the girl that I like, that I like her. That's because I'm a girl, and have never been with a girl or liked a girl in this way. Nobody knows, so I'm so scared of somebody finding out. So, I wrote her a message on Facebook explaining my situation. I made a fake account and told her that I didn't want to tell her who I was yet, because I needed to know how she felt about the whole situation. My question is though, is there any way she could find out it's me. I mean, I know she couldn't just because we never talk at school- she knows who I am but our school is HUGE. I'm just wondering if there's any way on Facebook she could find out who I am?
if you registered that fake account with your real email and she knows your email then yea she could know even if you dont share ur email there but if she looks you up with that email then yea the fake account should come up , other than that no.
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I guilted my girlfriend into a threesome. She told me some months back that she was "slightly" bi-curious. I thought it sounded kind of hott to have a threesome so I really did pressure her to do it with me and this girl she knows (who is openly bisexual). We had the threesome last week, and I did penetrate both my girlfriend and the other girl, but now I feel really bad and guilty. When it was happening, I felt really good though, but now I kind of even feel like I cheated on my girlfriend. My girlfriend doesn't act like anything differently has happened, but inside I feel bad that I pushed her into doing it. I asked her how she felt now that it's happened and she said she feels weird and wants to put it behind her. What can I do to feel less bad, I guess, is what I'm asking? I really liked the threesome and getting to have sex with the other girl but I wish I didn't. I'm torn.
apologize to her tell her that you feel bad about kinda pressurnig her ,(this will also make her feel alot better) tell her you're not interested on ever doing that again and that you love her only and that you're feelings weren't involved for the other girl (so she won't feel self conscious ) tbh id say something like.. or more like what i would like to hear..
i'm sorry about what happened, i don't feel ok with what happened so i'd like to put this behind us, but i cannot help but feeling guilty over it, i never meant to pressure you and i'm sorry if it came out that way, i just want you to know that you're the only one im interested on and the only one who i like to be intimate with, i'm sorry if you felt pressured and i understand we were both just curious but i'd hate for you to feel bad about it, just know that i'm not into that and that i love you and hope we can put this behind us
something like that ,,,cause tbh she might be feeling the exact same as you and she might be not wanting to express it, or she might feel like is he not really into me cause he agreed on this with another girl ? this will give her confidence and state that you didn't liked it (even if you enjoyed it but i mean as in the whole threesome idea ) that you're not into threesomes and that you're a good bf and that u really care about her cause feeling guilty over something she agreed on doing aswell means you really care about her and love her, don't worry once you've both talked about it you'll both feel fine, cause right now you both might be feeling guilty cause it sounds kinda intense the whole idea, but you were just curious and its fine, now that you know ure not into that , neither of you, then you'll both be fine, but talk to her and make it clear that you love her and that you're not into that .
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Ok, i am thirteeen and inthe seventh grade. I am most of the tme the average good girl. I have only had two boyfriends ever. Ok, im going to ship to the point. This boy really likes me and i like him to i guess. I mean i used to like love him but then i forced myself to move on. I mean there are a few reasons why i am questioning going with him. One, i went out with his cousin, and he lied to his cousin and broke us up because he really wanted to be with me. Two, he is my best friends brother. Three, he just broke up with this gurl that i used to be kind ok cool with. Three, a lot of gurls like him. We really used to be in love yo could say but now i am stuck. Everyone thinks we should go together including me at times.Oh, and i am really shy so it is really scary for me. My first boyfriend lasted for two days and i was twelve. True mistake. Then my second boyfriend (the boy's cousin) we went out for like three weeks and i was just starting to actually fall head over heels then we broke up. Should i go with him please help
you should not go out with him just because everyone thinks you should, obviously i dont know this situation but also i think that if i really liked him you woudlnt' even doubt it and just go out with him, but theres a reason why youre asking me this...you're not sure probably becuase you don't like him enough, the situation is complicated enough already by him being your bffs brother, and your not even sure about it and u don't like him thaaat much, so id say not to risk it,i think that when you really like someone and you're so sure about it you wont even care what others think. think about it , besides you're only thirteen like you're about to start in this age when you're gonna be able to choose from lots other guys who you should be dating, id say just wait and see if it grows on you, and if you still feel like you want to date him then go ahead, just wait and see what happens , and see if he's really worth taking that chance .
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I've been in a long distance relationship for 9 months. We're recently broken up, and I showed my boyfriend fake pictures, and only JUST showed him my actual self a few days ago. I was terrified to tell him, but he actually took it MUCH better than I thought he would. He was a little upset at what I did, but said he still loved me, and if I 'work with him a little bit' by showing him more pics of my real self & maybe getting a webcam, then we could get back together.
We both have strong feelings for eachother, & I (stupidly) ended the relationship because I knew I could never meet him since I sent fake pics. But now, he knows what I really look like, and accepted me, so a relationship is possible again.
This is my only problem. I've only showed him shoulders up pics of me. I'm not fat..but curvy. He's a tall, lanky guy, VERY skinny, he only weighs 120 lbs! But, I weigh more than that, & I'm scared to show him pics of my whole body. He's been asking for 'bikini'/full body pics & for me to get a webcam, but I honestly don't have any bikini pics, because I hate my body. I think it's too curvy, and it's my #1 insecurity.
Anyway, I do love him, & I realize if he can get over me faking pics, & he does like my face..then can my body really be a cause for him to stop loving me? I'm just scared he'll be unattracted to me, and won't want to tell me because he's too nice.
Basically what I'm asking is: 1. How should I go about showing him pics of my full body? Just send him a bunch then say I have to leave quickly? (I don't want to be there when he sees them, hahah) 2. Should I get a webcam if he accepts the pics the way they are? It's not really like I'd be showing my body on there anyway, he'd really only see my face. Thank you.
id say send pictures, you could take em wearing a bikini but like from the side , if you know what i mean, not like frontal pictures, i understand you're insecure about your body soooo having your hand on your waist will make your upper part of the arm look a bit slimer, and just like curving yourself so he'll focus on something else ! haha trust me it works, guys are veeery visual , like they usualyl don't notice other stuff if your butt looks good and stuff haha trust me girls worry more about this stuff than guys actually seing the picture of something they like, i'd do that, besides taking a picture with you standing like on a side it will make you look a little slimmer ,plus accentuate your curves if you have a nice butt :) and boobs which are the main things showing in this kind of picture haha ! so he won't focuse on something else hahaha if you put a frontal picture, he will most likely get a picture of your belly and stuff and don't know how you feel about it , but in my case that im not slim but im not fat, id do that definately :P good luck ! oh and btw if you want this to wrok you have to do it , or so i think, put yourself in his position, how would you feel....exactly .
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15/f
how do i break up with my boyfriend if he never answers his phone OR calls me back? its a long distance relationship and thats our only way of communication. but i really need to break up with him. it IS NOT working out.
(hes my first bf)
UGH WHAT SHOULD I DOOO?
should i just forget about him and stop calling him? because i have guys coming at me left and right. so if something happens between me and a guy would that be considered cheating on him because i never actually said it was over cause he never answered!
help??
seems like its over for him if hes not answering ...or calling you back...stop calling and if you want to star dating smoeone else then do it , eventually he'll call you and you can explain to him that its defntly not workin
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I wanna know everyones' opinions on age differences in relationships. Mind you, this is out of total curiosity, as a friend of mine and I were discussing this the other day. So I just want to know what you think, like, how big of a difference is too much, and what not.
i agree the older you get the less it matters, cause of course it would totally look wrong for a 20 year old to date mm idk a 15 or 14 year old .. but but what about a 26 year old and a 20 year old its not bad after all...it depends on maturity level though, but i doo think that it matters when the guy is older above 18 and gilrs are underage and really young..cause it makes em grow faster . but thats just my opinion :)
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Well I dated this guy for a year & 3 months. Things just did'nt work out , I was heart broken . He broke up with in June . I fount out JUST 2 weeks ago he had been having " flings " with my BESTFRiEND from that January till the break up , he cheated on me & everything . I went through hell for 6 months trying to get over him . I started hanging with this guy Jason , we became BESTFRiENDS August . We did'nt have feelings for each other for a while , we were seriously bestfriends . Well as the months went by , we did start liking each other & started " talking " . Well my ex [ Justin ] - was my first love . Me and Jason date now , since November . It's great ; He treats me WAY better than Justin did . but after I fount out Justin cheated I really didn't want ANYTHiNG to do with him ... ain't talked to him since I fount out . but I feel bad & guilty because I think about him , I would'nt say it's alot , but more than I should . I know he's my first love & all and that's normal . but I just really want this to TRULEY be over , I feel bad because I feel as if i'm not giving my [ ALL ] to Jason . I'm in love with Jason though , I fell really fast because we knew each other so well & automaticly " clicked "... what do I do ... anyways to just NOT think about him ? ugh
the same thing happened to me and i felt guilty for thinking bout my ex while dating a new great way better guy, but this is just how things are , and what finally let me stop thinking about my ex was thinking that he just didn't care about me enough casue he cheated on me, why should i even risk ruining things with this new guy fro someone who isnt worhty at all, and who..if he would have loved me like he said he did..he woudlnt have done several things like cheating . good luck :D and you'll just froget it as time goes by..also..its not like your thinking about your ex in that way..its just that you're realizing that this new guy does things you'r ex didnt and treats you better,, your mind is starting to really realize he was not the one for you and that this new guy is, by ..kind of .."comparing" them.. : )
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ok so the other morning I was texting my boyfriend. this was our convo.
me:hey
him:hey
me:can I ask a question.nd u gota be honest
him:ya.
me:are you going to or thought about breaking up with me?
him:no. y?
me:im just askng cuz I don't want you to.and it always seems like im making you mad and I just want to make you happy like you make me.
him: ..I thnk that's just called a lil love.
my question.. wat dus he mean by that last line? my friend sed maybe its his way of sayng he loves me. bt it kinda dusnt sound lke it. but I don't know. please help. thankyou in advance
means you're overreacting cause you like him so much you're affraid of something bad happening
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How do i Win back my ex-girlfriend?
we broke up last week and i really miss her..she told me she wants to be single and do what ever she wants with nothing holding her back or hurting anyone..but i've been hurting everyday since we broke up..i really want her back..yesterday i read of her blog that she has a crush on someone that's like 1 or 2 years younger than her..i just felt lied to because she said she wants to be single..why is she liking some other guys...and also i'm like the only guy that she ever gone out with that actually lasted more than a month..we lasted almost a year and 7 months..i loved her through thick and thin..she hurt me alot in the past..like flirting with other guys.. and stuff but i still love her..when ever i try to get her back now she just tells me that we're over ..i just cant accept the fact that i will never be with her again...because shes the only girl that i fell hardest for and we been through so much..and im so surprised that after all that shes still not taking me back..i have done nothing wrong i never flirted or barely talk to any other girl besides her i've stayed true and kept all my promises i made to her such as no cheating and staying with her no matter what and such....the main question is i really want her back and i want her to love me again what can i do? ...sorry that my detail is all over the place... oh and also im 17 year of age and shes almost 17 too in december..if its neccessary ...please dont say we too young to really love because its not true ..im very much in love with her
dude i can really realte to you at this time,,, my bf and i also just broke up and he gave me no reason i never did anything wrong evethough he used to flirt a lot :S i barely had any guy friends and mine where actually FRIENDS not like he said oh yea its a friend and then hes flirting with the girl..anyway the first 2 weeks where HORRIBLE for me i felt like dying seriously maybe this sounds so extreme but i was really depressed just checkin his facebook waiting for him to go online on im and everytime the phone was ringing i thought it might be him calling,, i know that eventhough people tell you oh just stop talking to her..its not that easy ,,its been a month since we broke up and i still talk to him , not that much as before and i think its better not to talk that much but thats ok by now i guess..he also gave me no reason just said he doesnt want tohave a compromise with someone and he wants to do whatever he wants, he doesnt want to be like calling me everyday and those kindof stuff ..i think its really unfair since we where together for almost 3 years! and i didn't do anything wrong ..i know at the beggining the first weeks i was really depressed and just thinking over everything trying to find what did i do wrong., what was wrong with me? but then i realize that thres nothing wrong with me , its just that he doesnt want the same that i want anymore, he loves me but not in that way like to have a relationship, so this is something you'll have to understand. of course she cares and i bet she loves you . but just the memory of everythign that happen cause she doesnt want to be with you anymore, and it doesnt mean you've done something wrong, the first weeks will be horrible, maybe months , but this is how things go ,adn eventhoguh i HATE the "everything happens for a reason" i geuss that now is something i choose to believe, alsmo what helped me to be A LITLE BIT BETTER AND AT LEAST NOT DEPRESSED ALL THE TIME...is thinkin about the things that he did wrong that REALLY hurt me :S like how could he have done things like that when i never did anythng and he said he loved me so much :S ...and maybe its better for me , and for you, cause if the other peorson do things to hurt you she really doesnt love you like she said, so this is something im learning to acceppt and you should do it too, of course its going to hurt like hell when i find out hes dating someone or something, but try this i deleted his phone from my cellphone so i wouldnt have to see it and want to call him (of course i know it by memory but its better just not to see) try not to be online too much if you used to talk alot through im..and more important go out with friends a lot :S distract yourself also..dont jump into a new relationship if your not over this ..cause then its going to be worse and you'll be thinking about her if things dont go right with this new person...im not strong enough to delete him or stop talking to him or answering , but im learning to accept that eventhough we get back..its not going ot be the same,,cause im going to have my doubts like does he really wants to be with me? then i started to think about not being sad and depressed to the point it was taking over my life i cried all day no eating almost no sleeping and no going out ,,all this for someone who doesnt want to be with you?? its not worthy..of course it was good while it lasted and now i just have those good memories but things are not going to be the same eventhough you get back together , will you want her to come back eventhough maybe she doesnt feel the same??? you deserve someone who loves you in return just as much as you do or more, hope this help if you need any more advicer or anything just feel free to ask cause i know what your going through and i know its really difficult to keep up with this thoughs about wanting someonee back when they just dont show anyh interest in getting back :( (yea part of my "distracting" thing to stop thinking about him and hwat hhapne is being here giving advice xD)
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so i've been going out with my boyfriend for 11 months today. anyways our town has a festival every year in august. it started yesterday. well he had to work yesterday till 11:30 at night so we didn't get to go to the festival together so i went with my friends. while i was hanging out with my friends my ex-boyfriend was there also. him and i are friends but my boyfriend doesn't like him. anyways him and i were talking when we looked around and saw that my friends had left. so we went looking for them just us two. well my cousin is best friends with my boyfriend and he saw my ex and i walking alone together and told my boyfriend. so now he's mad at me and i tried explaining to him that we were looking for my friends and he offered to help. so now my boyfriend is all pissed and everything.
what i want to know is it okay for him to be mad when my ex was just helping me find my friends?
sorry so long. thanks for the advice.
ok so the answer above seems to extreme but yeah i would be jealous too, imagine your your boyfriend and i'd be thinking something like "oh so i cant go to the festival so you end up spending the night with your ex boyfriend??" that sounds likel a punishment for not going or soemthing EVEN IF YOU DIDN¿T MEAN ANTYHING BAD its always annoying for the actual boyfriend/girlfirend that you remain friends with your ex..imagine how would you feel like your boyfriend is now firneds with the person he used to maybe be in love with kiss hug and say nice things to her and possibly had sex..not so confortable when you picture both of them at a festival together that they even lost their friends cause they where talking with each other eventhough you didn't do anything wrong like kissing etc or something . the other person will still be mad and sad about it , think it like you where your boyfriend :[) try to explain to him and maybe cutting a little comunication with your ex would be good if your not into burning bridges just dont talk to him THAT much or just avoid situation like "just the two of you" from now on :) always think about how would you feel if you where the other person ..sorry but yeah i'd be jalous and i think most people would be , maybe if i where one of those girls that HARDLY get jealous then yeah but most people are not that way..hope i helped
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hello my name is seanicka and im 18. Im in a long distance relationship and I was wondering do you think seeing my boyfriend every three months or two is bad? we love each other dearly and willing to make it work.
i think its not enough i mean it seems enough but once you get more involved with the guy your not going to just see him every 3 months, believe been there, also when you have a long distance relationship at fist it works great but then trust issues can really lead to break up , and its even wort when you guys would fight you wouldnt be able to fix things personally ( its easier to end a fight if you guys see each other not just fighting thorgh phone or msn ) and you will suffer alot from missing the other person, also wouldnt you want a relationship with someone that you can see whenever you want and can really spend quality time with him not just every 3 months?? think about the trus issues i think thats teh most important part, but hey maybe it could work who knows but i tell you my experience, my cousin's experience and some of my friends
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im a 15 year old girl &i used to date this guy asian gangsterish type guy (not really gangster) who is 16yr, one year older than me. i thought i really liked him untill i found out he had a really sick realtionship with his ex gf.like he used to tell me he used to get sexual with her in his bed,even though were only in high school. any way he was my fist guy, i lied to him and said he's my third guy and the second day we dated i started getting sick of looking at him he grossed me out then a month later i was plaining 2 break up cause he stsred bugging me but i was too scared cause i thought he would do something crazy, so i tried liking him so, then we went to a movie and he kissed me but when we did it was really gross!! nothing like i imagined!!eugghh!! does that mean im lesbian or is it cause, i didnt really have feeling 4 him?? help seroiusly!!
of course it doesn t mean you are a lesbian..it just means that you didnt like that you didnt like this guy enough, or just stopped likking him , that is everything. i dont think that you are a lesbian because of that...most people had kissed guys and felt grossed out and that doesnt make people lesbian or anything..for someone to be sure about being a lesbian..at least i would start thinking about it if you started to feel atracted to girls or are just not into guys anymore , not just because one bad kiseer..lesbians a re people who just dont feel atrtacted to any guys at all and feel atracted to girls so dont worryy it seems to me like just one bad experience when you start not liking someone anymore then you feel gross when kissing him.:)
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