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More to do for my boyfriend...?
16/F
I've been dating my boyfriend for a month now and it's been the best month ever because he's the first of a handful of guys who've made me happy. So far, we mostly hug and kiss. I feel like I do most of the talking, but I know it's just because he's shy, which is totally cute. I was wondering, though, is there anything we can do other than this or is there a way to make it better, maybe get him talking more?
By the way, I don't mean anything sexual since he's obviously too shy and I'm terrified of the idea of it... And we're too young, haha, so yea.
Basically, is there anyway to get him talking more maybe? Or some way to cuddle with him more?
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heyy I just wanted to start out by saying thats great that you feel your to young for sex your totaly right and ya there are a lot of things. You said you wanted to cuddle how about going to the movies thats a good place to cuddle or invite him to your house and yall could cuddle on the couch. Some more things you can do are like go to school sports events those are good ways to be with your boyfriend. Like this would be good you could go out to eat and then go for a walk in the park and then you could sit and cuddle on the benches they havein the park. I hope I helped good luck!!(:
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Hey, I understand where your coming from is natural really... but one month of dating is very early for him to start getting used to the relationship. You need to sit down with him and have a more open coversation ... No i'm actually quite suprised that you dont wanna have sex at this age at its good !! most girls now a days like to give it away just like that. The time comes for sex , and you have to know when you are ready for it aswell. Don't pressure him at all because you could end up scaring him away ahaa! Yes you could start going out different places, need to get to know each other more and see what he really likes for examples his hobbies .. and the same goes for him so you can both have something in common, if he gets bored of just the kissing and hugging it's obvious that he just wants sex. If he really likes you he would wait for you. Give it a go !!
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Hi,
I know how it is to have a shy boyfriend, I had plenty back in high school. Since this is only the first moth you guys are dating, he still needs to learn to open up to you. Trust me. He is shy, and also from what you said, he might be afraid that if you does something more, you might dump him. Just wait for another month and I am sure he will open up to you. If you want more advice please email me on AskAliceMadisson@hotmail.com, I am a professional advice column writer and I answer your questions free of charge. Just email me.
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just be more playful around him joking and totally relaxed, that would cause less tension! once he feels totally comfortable with you he'll be more talkative! the same happened with my ex when we were dating at me 15 him 16! he was sooo shy now thati think about it like i was always asking questions and i felt like the talk was forced but he was really into me and i liked him so i didnt mind haha but once we started getting along better and better we would be sooo comfortable around each other and he was so NOT the shy type anymore eventho there were no sexual stuff involved but like once i started to be less nervous around him and just more relaxed and acting like idk just chilling around he would feel more comfortable :) than it being all tense me asking question loking for new topics lol
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