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im a 15 year old girl &i used to date this guy asian gangsterish type guy (not really gangster) who is 16yr, one year older than me. i thought i really liked him untill i found out he had a really sick realtionship with his ex gf.like he used to tell me he used to get sexual with her in his bed,even though were only in high school. any way he was my fist guy, i lied to him and said he's my third guy and the second day we dated i started getting sick of looking at him he grossed me out then a month later i was plaining 2 break up cause he stsred bugging me but i was too scared cause i thought he would do something crazy, so i tried liking him so, then we went to a movie and he kissed me but when we did it was really gross!! nothing like i imagined!!eugghh!! does that mean im lesbian or is it cause, i didnt really have feeling 4 him?? help seroiusly!!
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NO it doesn't make you a lesbian. You've never kissed a girl, thats how you decide if you are one. Anyway, it probally felt like weird because you didn't like the guy. I know how you feel. But you can't force yourself to like someone. Just break it off and just say something like you don't see you two going anywhere. Or something like that.
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of course it doesn t mean you are a lesbian..it just means that you didnt like that you didnt like this guy enough, or just stopped likking him , that is everything. i dont think that you are a lesbian because of that...most people had kissed guys and felt grossed out and that doesnt make people lesbian or anything..for someone to be sure about being a lesbian..at least i would start thinking about it if you started to feel atracted to girls or are just not into guys anymore , not just because one bad kiseer..lesbians a re people who just dont feel atrtacted to any guys at all and feel atracted to girls so dont worryy it seems to me like just one bad experience when you start not liking someone anymore then you feel gross when kissing him.:)
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Just because your first kiss was not like you expected it to be doesn't your a lesbian. DONT FREAK OUT! haha its all going to be okay. It probably was not "magical" because you don't really have feeling for him. My first kiss was absolutely terrible, it felt like I was kissing no one because I felt absolutely nothing. But once you find the person that you genuinely really like, there is the fireworks like you read about :) and trust me it is worth all the terrible kisses you have to endure in order to find the one who kisses you and gives you chills, and you will find that person... eventually. Be patient and in the mean time, don't lead this guy on anymore. You have to tell him that you don't have feelings for him.
Good luck :)
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