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is he using me? I dunno if he just wants action or likes me?
Me and this guy hung out and hooked up and he wanted to go farther and I said no and he's like pleasee, we'll take it slow after this but I still said no, I asked him bout it in the morning he said he didn't want a relationship and then we stopped tlaking then he started talking to me again and he asked me for nudes and asked me to strip for him and I said no and he always wants to chill and I said no because I thought it was a booty call so I said no but then like the third time he got mad and I was like sorry I want respect and don't wanna be used! And he's like I'm not using you I like you and I'm like what about when you said you don't want A relationship and he's like well I've missed you since then :( and hooking up with someone you like isnt so bad because it could bring us closer. so I dunno if he just wants action or likes me?
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pls help!
kaaitlyn
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Im a guy and THIS guy just wants to play with your body. There are plenty of girls out there that are down with that and you should tell him so.
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It sounds like you already know the answer to this question, but I'll make it clear: Yes, he's using you.
You have good cause not to trust him as it is; sending him nudes of yourself may result in emotional blackmail. Don't let yourself become a victim to that.
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this is the typical "i have to have sex with you so i can consider us having a relationship" type of guy, don't listen to him, guys will tell you what you wanna hear just so they can get some trust me i know, i have a bunch of guy friends and its true they say that we us girls just as they tell us they love us and that we're beautiful and that they're interested, then we'll be willing to do stuff with them (most girls not all of them but the ones doubting ) i mean it only takes an i love you from them for us to be there willing to do something with them,
i dont think this guy wants a relationship since he is trying to just get into your pants instead of actually getting to know you and then seeing what happens, i dont think that he likes you honestly like for a gf ..but he definatley is attracted to you, just stay true to what you believe tell him you won't be doing any stuff with someone who isnt your bf or something more solid, tell him you don't want just a hook up...and he'll obviously try to make you fall for him get to know you and all that, well if he's actually interested,, so wait a little bit to see if he actually behaves for a little while , so you'd know he wasnt just trying to get something out of it and faking all the interest!
good luck! :)
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He's a selfish, lying turd who wants to be using you.
He asked for photos? He thinks you should strip for him? He wants to 'chill'? He's all mad because he thinks he 'likes you' so it's okay that he disrespects you, bullies you and begs you for hook ups?
Moron.
Delete him from your phone and never bother with him again. He is not boyfriend material. He isn't even 'causal friendly fuck' material. Getting closer to this guy will only be inching your way closer to getting hurt by this guy.
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